My boyfriend can't get off from a blow job or hand job. And I'm extremely frustrated.

I have complete faith in my abilities/skills. It's worked for many men. But I just can't do it for him. In four months I've only got him to come from a blowjob twice and never from a handjob. And he said he had to think about us having sex to get off those times.

I've tried deep throating, road head, head with lights on, head in the car at work, every possible handjob technique there is, two handed hand jobs, lotion, lube, playing with the balls, sucking balls... everything (I stay away from the prostate, he won't go there).

Is he just desensitized in some way? How can I change this/make it better? I want to be able to get him to come anywhere, at anytime. I just feel like a failure not be able to get him off this way. Like I can't perform my duty you know? Help.

I admire your determination, and so does he. My X girlfriend would bitch about her jaw hurting, etc. etc.

At least it matters to you and thats all that counts. I have yet to cum from a session of head. I could never bring myself to relax enough to enjoy it, in fear of her about to stop.

Yeah, atleast you try.
alot of girls whine about there jaw or they'll wine about how long its taking.

as long as your boyfriend knows you try he shouldn't have much to complain about

no prostate?


surprise him then.


Edit: Serious answer: Erm...more foreplay?

Fuck him then give him a blowjob?

well

try not squeezing his dick so hard.....graze it with your hand intsead of slightly squeeze. and make out with him while you do it. and kiss fast and slow and fast and slow....

Oh I got it!

Ask him to jerk off infront of you.


Take a note how he does it.

How fast?

How hard does he squeeze?

Does he tug his dick skin or not?

Dry?

Lubes?

well

try not squeezing his dick so hard.....graze it with your hand intsead of slightly squeeze. and make out with him while you do it. and kiss fast and slow and fast and slow....

Honey I've tried all that. Different speeds, grips, hard/soft pressures, sensations,props, you name it.

Done that too on multiple occassions.

Have him eat you out, while he's eating you out play with his dick, then give him a bj.

He should get really turned on by your pheromones and ejaculate quite quickly.

Or just fuck him then blow him.

Coming from the guy with a nerve dead cock, I would say the 69 or you at least laying on his chest could get it going.

Also teasing works really well for getting it ready

maybe boss him around and make him finger you while you do it, create a fantasy...im just brain storming here, tie him down and do the most erotic thing u can think of and jack him off and prostate him against his will. and tell him you are doing it for a reason haha i dunno make something up and try to be very seductive and erotic.



if he can't get off after that just dump him and save up for a plane ticket to come visit whitelightning.


I'll take you to mcdonalds and order you a mchandy. We can stop at handy mart(be we ain't stoppin'), or go to a restaurant and i'll get a hand jackson.

Honey I've tried all that. Different speeds, grips, hard/soft pressures, sensations,props, you name it.

you just have to get it right
my girl can give me a handjob for an hour, and i wont bust, yet i can jerk myself off in like 3-4 minutes.

I have the same issue as your boyfriend, I've only gotten off to head twice, and that's only because I hadn't had sex in too long- although I wouldn't advise just not having sex with him for a while just to get him off with a blowjob instead.

its his fault

This is what you need to do:

Have sex with him, but instead of letting him finish in the usual way, when you sense him starting to tense up and approach orgasm, in your sexiest voice whisper into his ear how much you want to taste his cum, or ask him if he would please come in your mouth, or something of that nature. Finish him off with your mouth; it'll be easier than trying to get him off that way.

Isnt it clear? tell him to stop fucking matresses.

hahahha you people are outrageous

if he does this it could really fuck things up

Ive been having sex for about 6 years, and about 13 women.

Never once have i found a girl who could get the job done with there hands or mouth. I gotta be able to stick it in order to finish. Idk, i never thought it was too terribly weird. i guess im wrong.
...vote for brown

I have complete faith in my abilities/skills. It's worked for many men.

Tell him that. The thought of you fondling/sucking other men will probably turn him on wildly. Make sure to mention all the ones who had bigger cocks than him.

I have the same problem. No one's ever gotten me off from head. Just doesn't happen. So don't feel bad.

I swear dude, from the threads you've made about your boyfriend it sounds like he's a total fridgid.

He's not the right guy for someone with your sex drive.

be more attractive !

be more attractive !

Or is he gay? one of the two...

Or is he gay? one of the two...
Fags love blow jobs.