There's a place my boyfriend and I go if we fancy a spot of outdoor romance, we are not the only couple who use that particular location I'm sure, because we often see other couples getting out of their cars and heading down there as soon as we get in our car and leave, however it is not one of the well known dogging spots in the area.

One night a little while ago, we were there, we had finished doing the business and were sat on a bench (so I could have a cigarette because my boyfriend isn't a smoker so I don't smoke in his car). Two men and a woman started walking towards us and one of the men shouted "Joe?"

I said.... "Nope" and the guy was really really overly apologetic like "Oh.... right.... I'm so sorry" and the three of them walked off looking embarassed. At the time I thought what you would naturally think, that they had somehow managed to lose a friend of theirs called Joe and were looking for him. However, afterwards I was slightly confused. If that had been the case why would he have been so apologetic as if he had caused us some offence by calling "Joe"?

So.... this is my question... Given that the area is regularly frequented by outdoor shaggers, is "Joe" some kind of code word to ask strangers if they are interested in getting frisky?

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=joe

Yeah, that will be it. He was just really embarrassed because he thought he found another coffee lover.

I'm assuming he thought you were someone he knew, and then upon finding out he had mistaken your identity he apologized for the inconvenience. It's called being polite.

^^^^ Lmao, This thread is fail..

You gotta be retarded to think someone calling out a name then being sorry for mistaken identity is trying to seduce you.

Hahaha I didn't think he was trying to seduce me.... it was dark and he would have just seen people sitting on a bench and not even seen what I looked like.... I'm not that egotistical, I thought he might have been calling it out kind of like for any takers if you know what I mean not me specifically.

And as for being polite, I'm a polite person, and if I had mistaken someone for my friend, I would have said "Oh sorry" and perhaps even asked if they had seen anyone fitting the description of my lost friend. This guy was OVERLY apologetic, like as if I had been mortally wounded by him calling Joe. That is what struck me as odd, which is why I asked.

The sole point of this thread seems to be to tell us all you had sex in public. Fuck off.