What do you do when you find out the person you're with isn't "the one," but they are in love with you? It would hurt him so bad, but I've truly lost interest in him after getting to know him a lot more these past few weeks. At the beggining I would get butterflies when I saw him, but for the strangest reason I no longer feel anything when I'm around him. I don't even feel like kissing him anymore. We kind of rushed into this relationship, too.

What's the best way to end this, Totse?

Tell the truth, it's the only sane thing to do.

Do you really need to ask? You know what needs to be done, so the both of you can move on.

Now go do it

Maybe it's time for you to come out of the closet and just accept that you like girls.

This is off-topic, but do you deal with a gay relationship the same way you deal with a straight one? In this case it's obvious, but dealing with a man is way different than dealing with women. Some gay guys are the manly type, and others are the feminine type, or somewhere in between. Is it all the same? Just asking, as this is way out of my ball park.

Just tell him you've lost the flame. This should be followed by either tears on his part or a desperate attempt to rekindle the flame by making all of your deepest sexual fantasies come true. Continue with breakup after either conclusion and you win.

So is your username a joke? Or were you just very deep in the closet when you made it?

Serious question.

This EXACT thing happened to me, but I was the guy here, she broke up with me...3 months later she realized what we had, in time we got back together and are better than ever!

You are sick of him, but when you break it with him, you will miss him and want him back later on, ive not only experienced this, but have seen it too.

Solution = Try to see eachother less, BUT TELL HIM! I CANT STRESS THAT ENOUGH!!

Milk it for sex or end it.