when she is blowing me to let her know that I'm enjoying it, even though I didn't cum (since my cock is not very sensitive)? It really did feel good but she doesn't think she is doing a good job (im guessing) and said "what do you want?, tell me what to do" What should I say I mean she's not doing anything wrong. And it would be way to confusing for me to explain anyway to improve it.

Also she'll pull me onto her to dry hump which is great at first but it really hurts my dick after a while.

And last of all this is for the girls, would you say something like "your so big" if the guy was average/just below, according to the thread above im 1 in 50. But I still have a lot of growing to do, so im not worried.

Are you hard? HEAPS of guys can't come from oral sex, regardless of how good it feels, so that's no indicator of how much you're enjoying it. The only dead give away to you not liking it would be that you're limp dicked.

Any way, just tell her "I have a real hard time cumming from oral alone, it's nearly impossible". This is what I've told people and it works.

Yeah I'm rock hard, I'll probably tell her that. That its really hard for me to come and she's still doing a good job. Im going to try not jacking it for a week and then hopefully getting some action see how that helps.

"I asked TOTSE for advice because I'm a little bit retarded, still want to fuck?"

This. lol

'Mmm...' sounds are always appreciated. Little gasps let girls know to keep doing what they're doing. I can't make my boyfriend come through blowjobs either and it is frustrating but I know he enjoys them and do it as much as possible. Just let her know it feels good and if it's starts getting awkward or she's getting frustrated shout 'I can't take it any longer. I NEED to be inside you!'. That always makes me feel good lol.

Dry humping can hurt for girls too. Try what I call wet humping. No clothes. Use lube, spit or her natural lubricants. Feels really good for both parties. Also if you lube up her clit and jack off on it, just like you would jacking off alone, the vibrations feel amaing, and it's really hot.

Girls might tell you that 'you're big' cause they want you to feel good about yourself. It's not usually a lie. Girls like giving guys ego boasts. Even average penises can fill up a girl pretty well and it's that 'filled up' feeling we crave.