Alright so i started a thread a while back about my current situation (current at the time)

http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2151946

and well im still with her and we're doing really good. We see each other usually ever other weekend. But it is stressful.

What i need advice on is what i should do. Ill be going to community college in the spring, and she is still going to try and go to her college (her grades arent that well) but she has been saying that she would be willing to go to school back home with me next fall, but i was going to try and go there in the fall aswell but that wouldnt be the smartest choice since im not the richest student out there.

But anyways i like the thought of her coming home but it also makes me feel bad that she would be giving that up for me. But yet if shes doing bad there wouldnt it be the smart choice to come back home? Idk but i want to be with her and the sooner we could be together is the better but.. i dont want her to regret. Should i even care this much?

no you shouldnt..tell her to hold off until after school...aka you wanna work on your degree (whatever it might be)...and you think it would be best to not rush into things and possibly mess her and your career futures up...explain you wanna be with her n you will be but you want her to go where she WANTS/thinks is best for her career path(since some school have programs better than others) and you wouldnt feel right sacrificing her job/your job for that...you can be together but not be "together" at the same school...if your willing to work at it

Well, I talked to her about it. I told her that however much i want to be with her. She should not transfer college's solely because of me. And she seemed to be set on coming back for other reasons. Which i guess means she is coming back in the fall of next year. She claimed that im not the main reason why. but yet why do i not believe that? Is it because i said i want to be with her? I told her i would be willing to wait or possibly transfer to her school after i get my AA. I still feel guilty

dude you shouldnt feel guilty...if she says your "not" the main reason then IDK I guess take her for her word..just play it out and see how it goes?