About
Community
Bad Ideas
Drugs
Ego
Erotica
Fringe
Society
Technology
register | bbs | search | rss | faq | about
meet up | add to del.icio.us | digg it
Go Back   Community > Vices > Sex and Affection
FAQ Members List Calendar Search Today's Posts Mark Forums Read

Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
 #1 
Old 2008-11-02, 02:00
New Arrival
 
Default ex playing games (wall kinda)

Ok, so to start it off me and my ex went out for 14 months and when we broke up it was weird we went through periods of love/hate like night and day for the first few weeks. Somewhere throughout this during a time where she "hated" me she got some of her friends to text me saying they're going to kick my ass and shit. I told them to just come to my house then and lets finish it and of course they didn't so i figured everything was over.

Halloween night comes up and we both are going to the same party, and all of her friends that tried to start shit with me. But as soon as i get there her 10 friends are like giving me shit but her and the other like 30-40 people there are defending me and all her friends end up leaving because there are a lot more people on my side. About an hour after her friends left she goes back to her house, and then proceeds to text me saying she misses me and she wants to hangout the next day. Then she calls me and begs me to come pick her up for like the next 2 hours, i refuse and say we can talk tomorrow.

So the next day she texts me acting like she doesn't remember anything other than her saying she misses me. Then for the rest of the day she randomly started ignoring me but then if I wait long enough she'll try to talk to me again.

So basically, I'm wondering if anyone knows wtf is going on in her head that she always does things like this.. I have many more instances where she does things like this if that'll help anyone decode her.
 #2 
Old 2008-11-02, 02:06
Regular
 
Default Re: ex playing games (wall kinda)

Quote:
Originally Posted by Hmmmmm
Ok, so to start it off me and my ex went out for 14 months and when we broke up it was weird we went through periods of love/hate like night and day for the first few weeks. Somewhere throughout this during a time where she "hated" me she got some of her friends to text me saying they're going to kick my ass and shit. I told them to just come to my house then and lets finish it and of course they didn't so i figured everything was over.

Halloween night comes up and we both are going to the same party, and all of her friends that tried to start shit with me. But as soon as i get there her 10 friends are like giving me shit but her and the other like 30-40 people there are defending me and all her friends end up leaving because there are a lot more people on my side. About an hour after her friends left she goes back to her house, and then proceeds to text me saying she misses me and she wants to hangout the next day. Then she calls me and begs me to come pick her up for like the next 2 hours, i refuse and say we can talk tomorrow.

So the next day she texts me acting like she doesn't remember anything other than her saying she misses me. Then for the rest of the day she randomly started ignoring me but then if I wait long enough she'll try to talk to me again.

So basically, I'm wondering if anyone knows wtf is going on in her head that she always does things like this.. I have many more instances where she does things like this if that'll help anyone decode her.


Do you really need our advice? Your girlfriend is either a drug addict, mentally ill, or just drama filled. Fucking leave her ass, bottom line. Of coarse your too much of a pussy to "Be alone" for a little while. So your gonna keep seeing her, and she will keep playing her game as long as you are willing to play. You know very fucking well whats going on here, and deep down you know the correct action to take. But as i said your a pussy who wont fucking leave her for whatever bull shit fantasy of an excuse your mind has made up.

Do yourself a favor and get the fuck out. Dont call her or talk to her because you will be tempted to get back with her or see her again. You may even go as far as lie to yourself, making it seem that you just "Got back together" when in your sub conscience you did it all on your own.

Dont be a panzy, Fucking listen to me and alot of other people who will hopefully tell you the same thing. Or stay with her, get your ass kicked, or get her pregnant and wind up like 74.3% of all the other unhappy Americans......Fat, bald, and a bad attitude twords women cause your first wife fucked you over.

FAG!


Edit:: sorry to fly off the handle like that. I have some built up emotions from my last relationship where i dealt with similar stuff. Fucking leave her
 #3 
Old 2008-11-02, 03:45
Regular
 
Canada
Default Re: ex playing games (wall kinda)

All I read was the title, and I think you should counter her wallhacking with some aimbots. :)
 #4 
Old 2008-11-02, 03:48
Yoshi Yoshi is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: ex playing games (wall kinda)

Yeh don't deal with her shit, if anything just fuck her one last time and pce. But then it may be difficult for you to let her go.
 #5 
Old 2008-11-02, 03:56
New Arrival
 
Default Re: ex playing games (wall kinda)

Yeah usually I think shes just messing with me and is trying to keep me around. But at the same time I think shes genuinely confused. We both have tried to move on and have failed.. Shes tried to like 2 other guys but didn't because the 1 dude reminded her of me and then she liked me and didn't talk to him and the 2nd guy wasnt as nice as I was and wouldn't do as much shit. And she always tells me shit like she wants to go out but doesn't know if she can and she wants to go out but doesn't want to be like she was before(before when we went out she wanted to be with me and ONLY me 90% of the time)
 #6 
Old 2008-11-02, 03:57
Regular
 
Teenage attention whore.
Default Re: ex playing games (wall kinda)

Girls should just say what they fucking mean, none of this mind games shit Mad
 #7 
Old 2008-11-02, 04:15
New Arrival
 
Default Re: ex playing games (wall kinda)

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chichi
Girls should just say what they fucking mean, none of this mind games shit Mad


tell me about it.. apparently she was talking to my mom and now she might come over for dinner tomorrow?? like wtf shes randomly mean to me but is coming over for dinner?

my plan, get her to follow me upstairs. get some then tell her that this is it im willing to try to work it out 1 last time and if she still "doesn't know" then im done

now as i type this i already know that if she doesnt know then i wont really be done.. i dont get this shit
 #8 
Old 2008-11-02, 04:28
Malkog Malkog is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: ex playing games (wall kinda)

She still still won't make a decision man, trust me. Get your shit together, grow a sack and tell her that you won't do this shit anymore. And fuck her if you can.
 
To the best of our knowledge, the text on this page may be freely reproduced and distributed.
 

totse.com certificate signatures
 
 
About | Community | Bad Ideas | Drugs | Ego | Erotica | Fringe | Society | Technology
Hot Topics