I'm 18 and my girlfriend is 17 she is a senior in high school, we have been together for 4 months. Anyway, she asked if I could go with her to homecoming and at first I told her I could. A bunch of bullshit went down with me and I recently told her I wasn't going to go. She seemed cool with it until yesterday when she asked me if I would be cool with her going with a "friend" (a guy of course) I don't know what I should tell her. I don't really care, but if she ever fucks around on me I won't ever go back with the bitch again. Ideas?

If you dont care, then let her go. It seems simple enough.

Oh come on, whenever someone says they don't care they never mean it.

Four months isn't that long. There is still room for her to have an amazing time with this guy and make a 'mistake'. It's happened before. Dances usually get people in the mood to do other things.

Oh come on, whenever someone says they don't care they never mean it.

People who dont say what they mean piss me off.

She's testing you. She might not be doing it consciously, but she's doing it. If you tell her you don't want her to go, you'll be controlling and possessive. If you reluctantly tell her to go ahead, then you're weak willed and will let her do as she pleases. You should stay totally neutral, tell her it's up to her to make the right choice. As long as you appear ambivalent, you have the power, and what she does will show what you kind of person she really is.

this^

This is what I was thinking, it looks like a lose lose situation and I'm starting to think I should just break up with her. But I honestly haven't even fucked her yet so then it was four months for nothing. She sent this all via text message "how mad would you be if a friend took me to my homecoming?" I still haven't even responded to such a bullshit text.
Is it really that easy to 'stay neutral' or should I just break up with her for asking?

I would just play into her little test even more and show up with a different girl. LULZ would ensue.

This is what I was thinking, it looks like a lose lose situation and I'm starting to think I should just break up with her. But I honestly haven't even fucked her yet so then it was four months for nothing. She sent this all via text message "how mad would you be if a friend took me to my homecoming?" I still haven't even responded to such a bullshit text.
Is it really that easy to 'stay neutral' or should I just break up with her for asking?

She is really trying to push your buttons. take that into consideration considering she is a fuckin skank.

Go, it could be fun!

Just go to the fucking homecoming whatever with her.

You never said why you couldn't?

I would just play into her little test even more and show up with a different girl. LULZ would ensue.

Haha, do this.

Or just go and get her really drunk. Then finally fuck her.

I found out she wants to go with some fag I don't like so I think I'm going to break her off.

Don't do it!

She's doing that because she wants you to be jealous so you'll ask to go with her instead, or at least show that you care.

Don't be such a dumb fuck, she likes you. Just go with her you fucking wanker.

Don't do it!

She's doing that because she wants you to be jealous so you'll ask to go with her instead, or at least show that you care.

Don't be such a dumb fuck, she likes you. Just go with her you fucking wanker.

This is probably true. Actually, probably way more true than what I said.

If my boyfriend said he wasn't coming to my prom/homecoming/random senior year important event, I would be pissed. I would want to show him that if he can't make the effort to come, there are other guys willing to take his place.

Fail, women need to be told how to act.

It sounds like you don't like her much, seeing as you're considering dumping her for a really shallow reason.

If you don't wanna go out with her than don't.

roofies are a hell of a drug

Just take her to homecoming you dumb fuck.


She should break it off with you for telling her you would go and then changing your mind.


Dick.

Text back saying 'Yeah that's ok, but if you're going with a friend then so am I' and see what she says to that.

Either take her yourself or tell her that it's her desicion and that she knows you could get angry (thus the 'how mad would you be') so why would she want to risk you being angry.

You're a dick for not going and brought this situation on yourself.

Yea, go to the fucking dance you pussy.