Well...
basically as i said in one stupid thread i had this long friendship and romance with this girl.
she basically left me for my former best friend (bout a year and a few months now)
she messaged me last night saying she was sorry for hurting me and she had spilt up with her boyfriend.
i asked how she was and then she had to go jst like tht.
Today at school she was really upset and we met eyes a few times in one of our classes (she was on the verge of crying, it was killing me inside) and i failed to say anything to her the whole day now im kicking myself for it.

i dont know if i want a relationship with her or just settle this vendetta that we have with eachother.

i have real strong feelings for this girl even though one of us messed things up and ended up hating eachother.

as much as i would give to go out with her again i dont know if i would be comfterble with it knowing she (99% sure) lost her virginity
(since i am 1) to this asshole and knowing they have been with eachother.

God what to do?

please help! :(

I have no idea what this thread is about but I heard a funny story from my friend yesterday.

When he was at a party with one of his ex-gfs, they took the couch and around 3am the party was over. So drunk, they start to fuck (she loses her virginity at this point). She gets a little uneasy and asks that he stop. He replies with:

"well fuck, if you've gone and thrown your virginity away on matt's couch we might as well finish".

He didn't finish :(

Raw hijacked!

Heh.

OP: don't give this chick a shot. She split with the guy she ditched your ass for, and now she says she's sorry? Was she ever sorry while she was taking this dude's dick? No. Now that she doesn't have some dude's shaft inside her, guess what she's looking for? Or maybe she's just come to the realisation that what she did affected you. Either way, preoccupy yourself elsewhere, she's not worth the trouble.

It's your call, since we arent in your position.

It'd be best to talk about it, and explain your side of things to her.

If she's feeling legitimately sad she may have just realised what she fucked up.

God's speed

as much as i would give to go out with her again i dont know if i would be comfterble with it knowing she (99% sure) lost her virginity
(since i am 1) to this asshole and knowing they have been with eachother.

God I fucking hate this shit.

What? So she goes out and fucks someone else because you were too pussy to do her yourself, so now you're bitching that you feel inadequate? Fuck you. Man the fuck up.

seriously dude get over her, if you want tell her hey im here for you if you need to talk..if you wanna take that avenue...or you could be an ass and say hey it sucks when someone shits on your feelings huh? kinda for revenge aka now u know how I feel shit...if you wanna be her friend tell her if you are doing this or feeling this way because you still "like" her then fuck some random girl and move on?

Why would her lack of hymen bother you?

But basically the best advice would be

Run Away!

Run AWAY NOW! Spraying an Uzi in your fleeing path!

She's on the rebound thats all, a whole heap of regrets and she's desperate for 'confirmation'.

Start up with her again and you're on the fast track to a world of pain, boy.

Not worth the effort, little man.

She's left you before. For your best friend, no less. Now she's broken up with him, she's knocking at your door again.
She's looking for some fast comfort...A friendly, familiar face. So she turns to you. Mr Reliable. With possibilities of friendship, love, romance... But you have to remember, she's fucked with you before. For that she shouldn't be forgiven. And you should definitely not give her the chance to do it again.

Forget her mate. It's just not worth the hassle and heartache.

same situation with my second last ex
It only has to be awkward if you have to stay friends, otherwise just shut down and move on

It aint worth it, believe me bro. if she did it once she'll do it again

i bet she'll let you do anal

God what to do?

please help! :(

Put on a leather jacket if you own one.
Smoke a cigarette if you own one.
Listen to a sad breakup song if you own one.
Then go tell the bitch to GTFO your lifes.

Okay Guys
Thanks for all your suggestions.
were going to be frineds
she came over today and relises the errors of her ways.
im really glad to have her back as 1 of my best friends.
She the real shit.

Ends Thread! :D

shoulda gone for anal

I had this situation once and i failed miserably even though i got free sex for about 3 months. If you start talkin to her again its like pushing the reset button on your break-up feelings. When she leaves you will probably feel even worse than you imagined because not only will she be gone forever again, you will feel used and betrayed. fuckin skank.



i suggest fucking her then telling her to get out of your house.

This girl left you for your best friend and she breaks up with him a year later and calls you and now you want to go back with her?

Dude think about how stupid that is.

You are being used.

good call, fuck this is starting to sound exactly like my second least ex. The only difference was that the break up was more or less mutual.

She ditched you for your 'best friend'?

I wouldn't bother, sounds like she is good at manipulation.

you should coerce her into having anal sex with you, bust a sloppy load in there and then immediately grab your stuff and leave, and never call or answer her phone calls again.

Well...shes seriously messed up and i deserve better
im over her
vomplete!
she can go fuck herself
but i can get sick pleasure out of her pain if she needs someone to talk to!

"vomplete" sounds brilliant.

Dont get back together w/ her. Shes alone and being alone sucks......trust me i know from experiance. And you are currently the best ticket for a quick sense of security and relationship she currently has. If something comes along thats better she would do it again in a heartbeat.