No this isn't your usual "waaah I have no friends or life" thread. This a thread about my true feelings about socializing and life. I think why I haven't really become really social and talkative is because I'm simply not interested in people. I can see other people carrying on conversations and laughing and having fun which I do with my friends. But when I meet someone I really can't take an interest in what they are all about.

Its just for some reason I don't feel the need to go out and socialize with everyone like some do. I would call myself somewhat of an introvert, I do enjoy my time alone but also I get restless and want to go do something. I think how other people have so many friends and do so much stuff socially is because they actually care and are genuinely interested in them. But when I talk to somehow I don't really know I just don't care really what they do and they most of the time just don't interest me.

Maybe thats why I haven't really had a lot of success with girls, I'm not a virgin but its just I don't really like to make a lot of effort going around chasing tail like a lot of people. I can trouble to find conversation talking points, not because I'm shy but because I want to actually hold a conversation where I'm interested but really I don't care most of the time. I don't know really how to 'woo' a girl and make them want my dick like crazy.

Basically I just don't care so much about socializing because really a lot of the people that you meet really have no value to me. It's just my group of friends and cool people that I actually am entertained by being with them is who I enjoy to hang out with. I just haven't felt the need to go and make many new friends or hang out with people cause for some reason it's just not the greatest thing in the world for me.

TL/DR:
I don't put a huge emphasis on my social life because I'm not interested in what people do and if they don't really entertain me then I won't really talk to them. I'm not a loser I just don't care.

im kind of in the same boat but not really. every time i really get to know a person i start to hate them, because people suck.

I have the same mentality

Yeah pretty much, I just find myself to be interested in things that aren't relevant to them. Mostly because a lot of people aren't intelligent and are easily amused.

Learn to love hearing yourself talk. That way if you hate what they are talking about or bore you, you can just go off on a random Larry David-style tangent or story and keep yourself amused. Amuse yourself first and others will be amused, then you won't have to listen to their idiotic ramblings.

Basically I just don't care so much about socializing because really a lot of the people that you meet really have no value to me.

Don't group me in with you, faggot. Just kidding, I agree with most of your post, a lot of the time I feel that the conversation between me and another person is completely useless, then i act all awkward because i wear my hear on my sleeve. Sometimes I have great convos with random people and sometimes they are even very very attractive girls. So I don't really see a problem with your situation, just do what feels right.

actually. i like what this guy said better, don't even listen to me.

I generally dont like meeting new people because they annoy the piss out of me. But I do enjoy being with my friends and being loud and outgoing. I do just as well or even better alone though. So I can definitely relate to your mentality.

So...remind me what the point of this thread is? OP doesn't like people? Cool. It was totally necessary to make a thread.

I agree with u a lot. i dont feel the need to be social or "outgoing" but then again thats when im low in money...
when im high in money i go out because i wanna go out and have some fun.

Yeah. Most people are complete tards. I don't know if it ever improves or if it's different anywhere else, but almost everyone I meet is a complete spaz. I think a lot of totseans feel this way.

I think you've just described what most totseans feel like.

I'm alright with initiating conversations, and keeping them going - and I'm happy to chat to someone who's not the overly normal boring individual.

Normally, the conversation would start, then I'd ask the person I'm talking to something - and immediately lose interest, because I couldn't care less what they answer.

Then I'll try to shift the conversation into more interesting areas - but they usually start spewing such banalities and things that I've heard a thousand times before (as opposed to sharing some fresh perspective of their own), that I start thinking "Goddamn, if it drags any longer I'll die of boredom. There are so many things that are more fun I could be doing right now".

And at this point I try to get out of the conversation as soon as possible.

Yeah people take themselves too seriously also, they just need to chill out and realize it doesn't matter. It's just hard to find cool people in this world.

welcome to the hidden generation of socially maladjusted internet fuck ups... which i am fully a member of along with everybody else in this thread it seems like.

I'm not interested in most people that I meet, so that's why I act really weirdly to some people, just to see what they're like. You should try it, it's fun. Just pretend to be a complete spacker and see what people come back with.

mmhhmm ..
Good people are few and far between, but when you find them it's great .. good friend of mine said that while other people collect cards/stamps etc he collects good people :)

You say we are fuck ups, I say they are fuck ups.

the key is to meet a lot of people, and screen the idiots out of your life while holding on to the ones that really are worth it. Yes people are for the most part fucking morons, but that's what you have to deal with if you want to live on this planet.

Agreed.

didn't know being informed, having critical thinking skills, and thinking for myself was being "maladjusted" and "fucked up."

people like you are the exact people we are talking about. people with absolutely no intelligence or common sense whatsoever.

sounds like depression

sounds like depression

Sounds like one the tards earlier discussed

sounds like depression

That's what I thought as I read it. Minor League Depression.

didn't know being informed, having critical thinking skills, and thinking for myself was being "maladjusted" and "fucked up."

people like you are the exact people we are talking about. people with absolutely no intelligence or common sense whatsoever.

what i meant was that the internet has created a a definite segment of kids who have done a lot of there own education (b/c education now is so much bullshit) through the internet because all that information is right fucking there in an environment where there is pretty much free reign on expression and speech (like totse). the problem is that this doesn't do a hell of a lot of good in terms of building social skills or establishing direct face to face contact with people who aren't intelligent or knowledgable or interesting enough (ex. im not that interested in people) as opposed to the olden days where information didn't travel nearly as fast b/c most of it was all word of mouth.

that's pretty much been my life experience & i'm not saying its good or bad, but it does have certain consequences, like not being that interesting in people in general. now maybe world of warcraft has given you excellent personal communication skills, but i find that my knowledge base makes it difficult to initiate & maintain conversations sometimes (hence why i am a socially maladjusted internet fuckup).

I'm in the same boat as everyone else. Most people are fucking useless, and I treat them as thus. When a person comes along with an original idea, even if it's a shitty original idea, I respect them for at least trying. Most people are simply parrots these days, and only repeat what someone smarter than them has said, usually without understanding what they're actually repeating. When I do me dumb asses nowadays, I tend to just mess with their heads, just to get a reaction of them spinning their wheels in the mud trying to comprehend an abstract thought from a mind greater than their own. Fools I say, absolute fools. They haven't two cents between them all. It's always good to meet another thinker though, especially when they think differently than myself, as that sparks good conversation.

You're an elitist cunt; you're not better than everyone else and you're probably no more intelligent than anyone else. You don't find people interesting because they don't like what you like? That's what I got from reading that. With that attitude you couldn't have friends even if you tried and you are a loser.

You're an elitist cunt; you're not better than everyone else and you're probably no more intelligent than anyone else. You don't find people interesting because they don't like what you like? That's what I got from reading that. With that attitude you couldn't have friends even if you tried and you are a loser.

Ok obviously you are not smart enough to understand my point you kidiot. I didn't say I was better than everyone else and everyone sucks and blah blah blah. I said I'm just not interested in people and don't really care what a lot of people have to say. I'm not a fucking loser its just some people I don't feel the desire to spend my time with because I just don't think it would be worth my time to associate with someone I'm not really interested in talking to. Dumbass.

Heh. I'm not interested in most people and what they think.
So I came here to tell people what I think and see if they're interested in me.

Totseans are mostly cool.