Yesterday I accidently clicked the wrong web link (actually I meant to click totse), and a site for porn popped up. My boyfriend explained he had checked it out earlier that day when I was at work. And instantly I felt immense hurt.

Why do women react like that when they find out their guy watches porn? I hate the feeling and it was completely unjustified. I kept telling myself 'All guys watch porn. It's just what they do. You were at work. It's not a big deal'. But I couldn't get the hurt feeling to go away.

I know I can satisfy him. We have sex 2-3 times a day even when we're fighting. We can't get enough of each other. So I guess what need help with is... Why is hurt/anger/jealous/feeling threatened the intial reaction? Is it just a woman thing I can't change? How can I stop myself from feeling this way?

I don't want him to stop watching porn. He has his vices and I have mine. I just want to feel comfortable with it otherwise he'll feel guilty for something he shouldn't.

Why would he watch porn if his needs were being satisfied?

I wasn't home? He gets sex anytime he asks.

That's weird..I don't think I'd jack it if I was having sex 3 times a day...I doubt I even could. Why do you feel jealous? Perhaps because he's looking at other women while he pleasures himself? Other women that are probably better looking than you and do stuff you won't? Is this really a mystery? There really isn't much you can do though.

I wasn't home? He gets sex anytime he asks.

He couldn't wait until you got home? Porn is fucking stupid.

Porn is fucking stupid.

Shut the fuck up. Your just taking porn and computers for granted. I'm sure that back in the day droves of archaic, hormonal teenagers would have gladly slaughtered both friend and foe for just five minutes with the magical boob box.

OP, your boyfriend looking at porn is completely normal and healthy. I suggest maybe you and him maybe watch some together. The fact that he'll be paying attention to you should ease your worries.

Other women that are probably better looking than you and do stuff you won't? Is this really a mystery? There really isn't much you can do though.

First of all, I'm no fuckin ugly fat beast. Personally, I consider myself attractive. And second of all, there isn't ANYTHING I wouldn't do during sex. My boyfriends know this too. I always tell him 'If you have any fantasies tell me and I'll oblige. If you keep them to yourself your next girlfriend might not be so willing'.

But it's not about why he was watching porn. It's about how I can change my feelings on it.

Porn is a form of entertainment. Realize this. He doesn't sit there and wish he was with those girls, or wish you were like them, it's just entertainment.

You feel hurt because you don't understand his reasons for watching porn. Instead of realizing it lies with him, you look at your self and think it lies with you. It must be you who isn't giving him something. It must be you who isn't satisfying him. etc. Truth is, porn is porn. He's probably head over fucking heels for you, but like was said, you were at work.

Oh and lastly, you get jealous because he pleasures him self to the thought of a woman who isn't you, and you want to be the center of his life. Which is fair if you're in a committed relationship. Chill.

Shut the fuck up. Your just taking porn and computers for granted. I'm sure that back in the day droves of archaic, hormonal teenagers would have gladly slaughtered both friend and foe for just five minutes with the magical boob box.


I am not taking it for granted, I just know firsthand what it can do to you. Not everyone wants to be a slave to fake, commercialized sex.

this.

I am not taking it for granted, I just know firsthand what it can do to you.

What it can do to you? Ejaculation? That's what it usually accomplishes for me.

Not everyone wants to be a slave to fake, commercialized sex.

Your coming off as a Mormon. Not the most respected group of people on &T.

What it can do to you? Ejaculation? That's what it usually accomplishes for me.


I am talking about addiction to porn.

What are your vices? How does he feel about them?

If you don't feel comfortable with it, then you don't feel comfortable. You don't have to force yourself to feel good about it, you just have to accept it.

Try putting it into perspective; think big picture.

Communicate. Be honest. Share.

I am talking about addiction to porn.

You won't even jerk off to porn because your afraid of becoming addicted to it? That's a bit irrational, besides is carpel tunnel really that serious?

You sound like a very boring individual. Yes, that's right. I can distinguish the exciting from the lame based entirely upon what they masturbate too. I for instance jerk off solely to Anna Paquin and Cormac McCarthy novels. Judge me as you will.

You won't even jerk off to porn because your afraid of becoming addicted to it? That's a bit irrational, besides is carpel tunnel really that serious?

You sound like a very boring individual. Yes, that's right. I can distinguish the exciting from the lame based entirely upon what they masturbate too. I for instance jerk off solely to Anna Paquin and Cormac McCarthy novels. Judge me as you will.

I have been addicted to it. This is why I don't like it. It also makes sense to me why a girl would be upset if she found her boyfriend was looking at it.

I don't jerk it to porn any more. Only consensual sex in the missionary position for me.

I don't jerk it to porn any more. Only consensual sex in the missionary position for me.

Why only missionary?

I think it's perfectly healthy for guys to watch porn on a fairly regular basis. Especially if they're in a committed relationship where you see each other all the time. Why? Because once you're in the grips of an intense relationship you lose a lot of personal time and space. That is what porn is for a lot of guys: "Me time".
Don't begrudge him his 'me time' just because you're feeling insecure that you don't satisfy him well enough.
It really has nothing to do with you. I mean fuck, I watch porn on the regular and I'm a girl. I'm sure you do things just for yourself that don't need to include your boyfriend, be they sexual or not, it is still your need for some alone time and personal space.
In conclusion, get over it.

Why only missionary?

The rolling eyes are a hint to his intent of that statement.

The fact he was watching does say something about his lack of feelings for you. if he loved you then he'd know that his watching porn saddened you and he simply wouldn't do it. Especially if, as you say, he has hot and cold kinky sex on tap whenever he wants.

Me and my girlfriend watch porn together... it's fun to mimic it.

Porn is for teenagers and bad marriages. hahahahaha

This.

Except I'd like to add that it seems to me that porn is just...easy. Sex is wonderful, but it takes effort. Porn is just a tool that lets you get off quickly and get on with your life. I don't get offended when my boyfriend watches porn because I know the I do the same thing and it has no reflection on him or our relationship. It's just easy, functional self-indulgence. At first, I'll be honest...it bothered me. Just the mental image of him getting off to other girls...but I got over it. I realized that it doesn't interfere with our sex life in the least, and that he's fully entitled, as am I, to enjoy privacy and fantasy.

Maybe you should try to enjoy porn yourself if you don't already. It will help you to understand that is totally removed from your partner and your relationship; it's a form of entertainment, and a tool. I found that idea to help me to realize that it's really nothing to worry about.

I wasn't home? He gets sex anytime he asks.

nicee lol

My girlfriend watches porn on my computer while I'm at work.

Her porn is pretty weak though.

We have sex 2-3 times a day even when we're fighting.

Jesus Christ...

ahahahah, You will learn to get used to it.
You cant stop males from watching porn.
I used to get all the sex I wanted, and I still watched porn lol
I suggest you and your bf try and make your own little clip. Start with like a bj on camera.

Sex is wonderful, but it takes effort.

If sex is taking effort, you're doing it wrong. But then again, you're a 16 year old attention whore. What the fuck do you know anyway?

Someone wanna explain this to me? I dont see the fun in video taping sex! I dont know, it just doesnt appeal to me.

I am not taking it for granted, I just know firsthand what it can do to you. Not everyone wants to be a slave to fake, commercialized sex.

You sound like a reformed alcoholic who blames alcohol for their addiction.

Sorry, porn is just porn. It can't "do" anything to you. You can engage it to an unhealthy extent, just like anything else, but porn is just porn: it has no intrinsic qualities aside from its subject matter.

Don't blame the drugs because you couldn't stop smoking them.

Someone wanna explain this to me? I dont see the fun in video taping sex! I dont know, it just doesnt appeal to me.

So you can fap to yourself pounding your girlfriend later? Seems pretty straightforward.

Yesterday I accidently clicked the wrong web link (actually I meant to click totse), and a site for porn popped up. My boyfriend explained he had checked it out earlier that day when I was at work. And instantly I felt immense hurt.

What? a web link? why didn't you just type totse.com, its not that hard to do,prbably faster to. See what you dont know, wont hurt you, and you were happier not knowing.

there isn't ANYTHING I wouldn't do during sex. My boyfriends know this too

That was a typo, right?

It sounds like you guys have a pretty healthy sexual relationship. The fact that he watches porn does reveal something shocking about him though. He's male. Don't worry about it. Seriously.

If sex is taking effort, you're doing it wrong. But then again, you're a 16 year old attention whore. What the fuck do you know anyway?

Or maybe...just maybe...you have the most boring sex imaginable?

I'm a fit guy. But by the end of a good session I'm cramping in my arse, I almost need to throw up because I feel like I've run a marathon and there's a plethora of fluids every where. Don't try and play your self off as cool with that "If it's effort you're shit" spiel. Sex = more effort than masturbating to porn. Arguing this makes you a total internet dick who argues for the sake of arguing. If that's the case: Shut your cock hole bitch.

Look, if we were going out or even married for that matter... I don't care if we did it 10 times a day... I'd still whack it to porn. Do you do anal? Do you DP? Do you piss in his mouth? Do you do public stuff? Do you use your feet?

These are kinks... aka as KINKY STUFF... understand them, and why your guy looks at porn... he obviously has a kink that you don't fulfill, wether it be through ignorance of the kink itself, or some moral objection... whatever it is though... if he's just watching porn and whacking it to "take care of the kink"... which is VERY REAL and VERY INTRUSIVE thought pattern to have in the male mind... I have my kinks and I know for a fact that if my girl didn't fix ALL OF THEM on a REGULAR BASIS, that I'd have to watch porn to take care of that urge.

Just think of him whacking it to porn like he's stepping out for a cigarette... you go somewhere private for a few minutes and when ya come back you feel much better... that relates to both smoking and whacking it.

Honestly, you should be glad he's getting his kinks out in porn, and instead of on you... do you like having a fist in your ass? What about a fist in your ass AND pussy? What about having him cum in your ass, and you fart that cum out into a cup and then drink it?

watch porn with him?

Or maybe...just maybe...you have the most boring sex imaginable?

I'm a fit guy. But by the end of a good session I'm cramping in my arse, I almost need to throw up because I feel like I've run a marathon and there's a plethora of fluids every where. Don't try and play your self off as cool with that "If it's effort you're shit" spiel. Sex = more effort than masturbating to porn. Arguing this makes you a total internet dick who argues for the sake of arguing. If that's the case: Shut your cock hole bitch.

I hope this escalates!

Or maybe...just maybe...you have the most boring sex imaginable?

I'm a fit guy. But by the end of a good session I'm cramping in my arse, I almost need to throw up because I feel like I've run a marathon and there's a plethora of fluids every where. Don't try and play your self off as cool with that "If it's effort you're shit" spiel. Sex = more effort than masturbating to porn. Arguing this makes you a total internet dick who argues for the sake of arguing. If that's the case: Shut your cock hole bitch.

You get cramps in your ass after sex? Here's a solution for you: stop getting fucked in the ass.

And of course will you get tired, sweaty and puffed. As will you from running. But neither take effort. If you're putting effort in it, you're probably trying to solve calculus problems while fucking. It's the wrong way, buddy.

Good sex comes naturally and spontaneous. If you have to put in effort every time you fuck, sex will become a drag real fast real soon. Have fun with your shitty sexlife and good luck with your sore ass.

You get cramps in your ass after sex? Here's a solution for you: stop getting fucked in the ass.

haha.

You're at work...He needs to shoot a load...He watches a porno. Nothing wrong with that at all.

From what I've experienced, girls feel threatened by anything that isn't them turning their men on. It's pretty normal from what I have seen. I dare say a lot of guys would be pretty pissed off to know their missus was watching a porno of some muscle-bound, Adonis-type guy wanking off or something.

It's all about ego and feeling wanted/needed.

Didn't she cheat on you. Do you think they mimicked porn too?

You get cramps in your ass after sex? Here's a solution for you: stop getting fucked in the ass.

Touche.

And of course will you get tired, sweaty and puffed. As will you from running. But neither take effort. If you're putting effort in it, you're probably trying to solve calculus problems while fucking. It's the wrong way, buddy.

You argue for the sake of arguing even though you're blatantly wrong. I'm going to make this simple...

Definitions of Effort:

1. exertion of physical or mental power

1. The use of physical or mental energy to do something; exertion.

1. An exertion of strength or power, whether physical or mental, in performing an act or aiming at an object; more or less strenuous endeavor; struggle directed to the accomplishment of an object; as, an effort to scale a wall.

First results that showed up in multiple dictionaries. Still going to argue?

Good sex comes naturally and spontaneous. If you have to put in effort every time you fuck, sex will become a drag real fast real soon. Have fun with your shitty sexlife and good luck with your sore ass.

Thanks for the sex lesson, now if you're done being a douche can you stop spewing your "my-e-dick-is-bigger-than-your-e-dick" bullshit out of that fuck-hole that you call a mouth (figuratively of course). Thanks!

You get cramps in your ass after sex? Here's a solution for you: stop getting fucked in the ass.

That.


..Lawlz

If sex is taking effort, you're doing it wrong. But then again, you're a 16 year old attention whore. What the fuck do you know anyway?

How could it not take effort? It's a lot more exerting than sitting/laying and moving your wrist for a few minutes.

And if I'm as much of a whore as you seem to think I am, I would certainly know all about it. It's not attention whoring to discuss sex in a forum about Sex and Affection.

Or maybe...just maybe...you have the most boring sex imaginable?

I'm a fit guy. But by the end of a good session I'm cramping in my arse, I almost need to throw up because I feel like I've run a marathon and there's a plethora of fluids every where. Don't try and play your self off as cool with that "If it's effort you're shit" spiel. Sex = more effort than masturbating to porn. Arguing this makes you a total internet dick who argues for the sake of arguing. If that's the case: Shut your cock hole bitch.

Thanks, I really couldn't have said that better myself.

You get cramps in your ass after sex? Here's a solution for you: stop getting fucked in the ass.
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that was funny

but the rest of it was full of fail, just like everything you shit onto your keyboard

Touche.



You argue for the sake of arguing even though you're blatantly wrong. I'm going to make this simple...

Definitions of Effort:







First results that showed up in multiple dictionaries. Still going to argue?



Thanks for the sex lesson, now if you're done being a douche can you stop spewing your "my-e-dick-is-bigger-than-your-e-dick" bullshit out of that fuck-hole that you call a mouth (figuratively of course). Thanks!

Oooh figuratively speaking... of course! You still fail. You're making it sound like sex is a Cooper test. Sounds to me like you're trying too hard to have ZOMG AWZOM SEX0RZ and failing incredibly at it.

Unless you're a homo. In that case, I completely support your opinion. Faggots make steamy gay sex all the time.

How could it not take effort? It's a lot more exerting than sitting/laying and moving your wrist for a few minutes.

And if I'm as much of a whore as you seem to think I am, I would certainly know all about it. It's not attention whoring to discuss sex in a forum about Sex and Affection.

You're an attention whore. Attention whores are usually fugly virgins. You whore for attention all over the place.

that was funny

but the rest of it was full of fail, just like everything you shit onto your keyboard

Careful, I might just shit on your tits. I'm not exactly into that sort of thing... oh who am I kidding?! I'm totally into that sort of thing. Get ready for the steamtrain. PooPoo!!

Well I guess it's a good thing that I'm neither fugly, nor a virgin. That would've been a shame.

Says the attention whore. I will need to see an extensive dossier about your vagina, with a shitload of pictures before I come to any type of unbiased conclusion.

Well a lot of you didn't get it but the ones that did were helpful.

I DON'T want him to stop watching porn. I understand it's a guy thing, he needs his space, I wasn't home and he wanted to get off. Awesome. That's ok.

I just didn't want to feel so shitty about it because there was no reason to feel shitty.

Some of you truly helped put it in better perspective. Thank you.

Maybe he was studying for you?

I am not taking it for granted, I just know firsthand what it can do to you. Not everyone wants to be a slave to fake, commercialized sex.

If you are scared of letting yourself become 'a slave to fake, commercialised sex', then you are a pathetic, weak person.

Oooh figuratively speaking... of course! You still fail. You're making it sound like sex is a Cooper test. Sounds to me like you're trying too hard to have ZOMG AWZOM SEX0RZ and failing incredibly at it.

When typing to people like you, you need to add in things like "Figuratively" because you're a pedantic little prick who will just be like "ha lawlz! i uzed mi fingzers not mi mouf!". Faggot. Now you're arguing the definitions the ENGLISH SPEAKING RACE has put on ENGLISH WORDS. Who's the one failing incredibly? You are!. You cute little troll...

Now you're arguing...

You got the roles all mixed up here, queerlet. You're the one who is arguing with me. If I'm not mistaken, you're the one who came running up to me, all sweaty 'n' shit, trying to convince me that AWEZOM SEX0RZ takes REEL EFFORTZ. Sounds to me like you're trying to score points with that ugly little cockslut Silverfuck. Poor little damsel in distress being flamed by mean ol' Snoopy?

It'll be hard to score points with a name like arquin though. Perhaps if you were playing Dungeons & Dragons...

Also, how's your anus holding up? Have those aches gone away?

theYou got the roles all mixed up here, queerlet. You're the one who is arguing with me. If I'm not mistaken, you're the one who came running up to me, all sweaty 'n' shit, trying to convince me that AWEZOM SEX0RZ takes REEL EFFORTZ. Sounds to me like you're trying to score points with that ugly little cockslut Silverfuck. Poor little damsel in distress being flamed by mean ol' Snoopy?

It'll be hard to score points with a name like arquin though. Perhaps if you were playing Dungeons & Dragons...

Also, how's your anus holding up? Have those aches gone away?

Are you the Snoopy, you know, the Snoopy, if you are, i dont know why the hell he would even try to argue wih you, its like pointless.

Oh yeah, just remembered why i started writing this.
For fucks sake, take it somewhere else!!!!

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Are you the Snoopy, you know, the Snoopy, if you are, i dont know why the hell he would even try to argue wih you, its like pointless.

Oh yeah, just remembered why i started writing this.
For fucks sake, take it somewhere else!!!!

What is "the Snoopy"?

Are you the Snoopy, you know, the Snoopy, if you are, i dont know why the hell he would even try to argue wih you, its like pointless.

Yes he is, and the legend is bigger than he is.

What is "the Snoopy"?

Fuck you, you know what i'm saying, so dont act like a highschool virgin.
And its not "the Snoopy" its just the Snoopy.

I'm ok with my boyfriend watching porn as we're in a long distance relationship.

I was a bit upset when I found out he was watching porn when we were living together. We were having sex once or twice a day, so I didn't understand why he felt the need.

I'm still not totally ok with him doing it if when we're living together, I just feel inadequate if he does.

Fuck you, you know what i'm saying, so dont act like a highschool virgin.
And its not "the Snoopy" its just the Snoopy.

Well pardon my faulty italics. You're quite the angry feller, aren't you?

OP: you need to take control. Slap him around a little bit and tell him he can't watch porn.

Why is he watching porn? To wack off. Why is he wacking off? That could be any number of reasons, most likely that he just feels like it. I'm a man, I would know and that shit just happens.

But you're not happy about this, otherwise I wouldn't bother. It sounds to me that you want sex more than he does, which tells me that he's going to eventually dump you and therefore you should move in with me because I'll give you all the sex you could ever ask for ;)

But you're not happy about this, otherwise I wouldn't bother. It sounds to me that you want sex more than he does, which tells me that he's going to eventually dump you and therefore you should move in with me because I'll give you all the sex you could ever ask for ;)

Honey, I doubt you could give me all the sex I could ever ask for. I've been with 11 men and my recent boyfriend is the only one that can even come close to giving me enough sex. And when he does he's fuckin out for the rest of the day. If I had it my way, I'd have a penis in my pussy all day.

Here's an idea: make porn for him!

^^^^ Working on it!

Guys (myself included) are hardwired for variety. it helps sustain the human race. this makes some men with less self control cheat while others just watch porn. so just be thankfull that hes wacking it onto his keyboard instead of another girls face

Working on it!
i could help you with that

Honey, I doubt you could give me all the sex I could ever ask for. I've been with 11 men and my recent boyfriend is the only one that can even come close to giving me enough sex. And when he does he's fuckin out for the rest of the day. If I had it my way, I'd have a penis in my pussy all day.

:) :) :)

Surprisingly, this.

honey, i doubt you could give me all the sex i could ever ask for. I've been with 11 men and my recent boyfriend is the only one that can even come close to giving me enough sex. And when he does he's fuckin out for the rest of the day. If i had it my way, i'd have a penis in my pussy all day.

ready to fufill your needs.

Honey, I doubt you could give me all the sex I could ever ask for. I've been with 11 men and my recent boyfriend is the only one that can even come close to giving me enough sex. And when he does he's fuckin out for the rest of the day. If I had it my way, I'd have a penis in my pussy all day.

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...and you don't need to get up, with sperm dripping down your legs, and go make it a sammich.