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 #1 
Old 2008-10-29, 13:43
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Default maintaining that head-over-heels feeling

The first blush of a new passion, consummated with physical intimacy, is a wonderful feeling. There is no drug in the world that can create the same euphoria.

How long is it reasonable to maintain the "honeymoon" period?

Any tips on how to keep it going?
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Old 2008-10-29, 14:25
Lazarus Lazarus is offline
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There is no drug in the world that can create the same euphoria

Wrong.

But as for your question... I don't even know if it's possible to purposely "maintain" that. If you are right for each other you should be happy anyway.
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Old 2008-10-29, 15:37
BluryVision BluryVision is offline
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Hmm, do Pure MDMA together?
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Old 2008-10-29, 17:43
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The Material Plane
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That feeling will not stay.
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Old 2008-10-29, 19:19
moby_dick moby_dick is offline
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Wrong.



Actually he's quite right. MDMA and opiates etc. might create a more intense euphoria, but they can't immitate that feeling.
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Old 2008-10-29, 23:21
Korivan I'Alagmarae Korivan I'Alagmarae is offline
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It will not last, it never does.
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Old 2008-10-29, 23:33
Pink P&ther Pink P&ther is offline
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Actually he's quite right. MDMA and opiates etc. might create a more intense euphoria, but they can't immitate that feeling.

Wrong again.

Those drugs create the feelings they do BECAUSE they immitate chemicals that create those feelings in you; the human.
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Old 2008-10-29, 23:40
nor`easter nor`easter is offline
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1. Discover new things together.
2. Rediscover the old things together.
3. ????????
4. Profit
 #9 
Old 2008-10-29, 23:48
Pink P&ther Pink P&ther is offline
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Wait what?

Head, over heels?
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Old 2008-10-29, 23:51
ObsdianZ ObsdianZ is offline
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Wrong again.

Those drugs create the feelings they do BECAUSE they immitate chemicals that create those feelings in you; the human.

A real experience creates a combination of chemicals of varying concentrations. While it might be possible to imitate with drugs, it's highly unlikely.


*ObZ
 #11 
Old 2008-10-29, 23:57
Korivan I'Alagmarae Korivan I'Alagmarae is offline
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Default Re: maintaining that head-over-heels feeling

buttsecks, its your only option
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Old 2008-10-30, 00:20
Ed Lister Ed Lister is offline
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When you find the right one you will not have to worry about making it last. It just will.
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Old 2008-10-30, 00:48
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Default Re: maintaining that head-over-heels feeling

Quote:
Originally Posted by Ed Lister
When you find the right one you will not have to worry about making it last. It just will.


This right here is the truth.
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Old 2008-10-30, 01:17
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aliveupboy4mod
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Drugs > anything in real life in regards to euphoria. Bang some hard opiates and tell me your fuck pillow makes you feel better then that.
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Old 2008-10-30, 02:23
Malkog Malkog is offline
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I'd take head over heels.
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Old 2008-10-30, 02:38
Nefret Nefret is offline
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If you stay together long enough it will eventually fade into comfortable stability. Head over heels is just the first faze.
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Old 2008-10-30, 22:20
3.14159265358979323846264 3.14159265358979323846264 is offline
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Default Re: maintaining that head-over-heels feeling

id pay to get that feeling again. sometime.


preferably soon.


ish.
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Old 2008-10-30, 22:39
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Groovy.
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Ed Lister
When you find the right one you will not have to worry about making it last. It just will.


/thread.
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Old 2008-10-30, 23:21
Korivan I'Alagmarae Korivan I'Alagmarae is offline
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Originally Posted by 3.14159265358979323846264
id pay to get that feeling again. sometime.


preferably soon.


ish.



I'll do it for free.

EDIT: I just noticed that you're from Maine. Havn't seen too many folks from 'round here.
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Old 2008-10-30, 23:35
whitelightning whitelightning is offline
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Default Re: maintaining that head-over-heels feeling

Quote:
Originally Posted by Ed Lister
When you find the right one you will not have to worry about making it last. It just will.


spoken from a guy who is probably in love at the moment.

ever hear the saying: "rose colored glasses"?
 #21 
Old 2008-10-30, 23:56
Ed Lister Ed Lister is offline
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spoken from a guy who is probably in love at the moment.

ever hear the saying: "rose colored glasses"?

You're right. I could ramble on how I think this is different... I won't though.

Time will tell I suppose.
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Old 2008-10-31, 02:03
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Teenage attention whore.
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Me and my girlfriend have that feeling on and off, with fights in between that leave you with a sinking chest feeling. You know. Crying and shit.

But I guess having it really good half the time and really sad half the time is better than having a relationship of constant mediocrity Confused
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Old 2008-11-01, 05:29
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the head-over-heels feeling of the "newness" of the relationship will no doubt fade over time, then you either break up from the other person actually showing his/her true self (if they didn't from the start) and fighting all the time, or you stay together because you actually click and grow even more attached to one other.
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Old 2008-11-01, 18:27
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We spent most of the last 72 hours together, much of it in bed.

Yesterday she introduced me to her mother who advised her that since she and I are both firstborn children and somewhat controlling that we would crash and burn as soon as the infatuation wears off and we have our first argument.
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Old 2008-11-02, 02:02
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bangor northern ireland
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Originally Posted by Pink P&ther
Wait what?

Head, over heels?


i think he's gay...

unless SHE is a girl... which is more likely
 #26 
Old 2008-11-03, 17:04
yourfaceisarapescene yourfaceisarapescene is offline
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do what you can to keep things new and exciting. cultivate new memories and experiences and try to introduce new elements to the relationship dynamic. if you two are compatible, things will work out. just try not to let things get old, tired or predictable.
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Old 2008-11-03, 18:07
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Default Re: maintaining that head-over-heels feeling

Ive wondered the same question. Ive only had 1 serious relationship, and it ended up a nightmare. Constantly breaking up and getting together, drunken fights (her getting drunk), Loss of magic, and mediocre sex that slowly didnt happen as much.

We broke up a while ago, and aside from some dates......i have yet to find another relationship. I hope there is a girl where i can find some sort of way to keep that feeling going.

(As for the drug addicts who think drugs can top the feeling go fuck yourself. MDMA does kick ass, and so do a million other drugs, but nothing can bring about the same feeling as infatuation. Of coarse your infatuated with drugs ROFL)
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Old 2008-11-03, 21:50
metaphoria metaphoria is offline
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Default Re: maintaining that head-over-heels feeling

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Originally Posted by Ed Lister
When you find the right one you will not have to worry about making it last. It just will.


This. The head-over-heels feeling either fades with time, or turns into something completely different which is less intense but much deeper...if that makes any sense.
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Old 2008-11-03, 23:15
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Default Re: maintaining that head-over-heels feeling

This. The head-over-heels feeling either fades with time, or turns into something completely different which is less intense but much deeper...if that makes any sense.

Your user name kicks ass
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Old 2008-11-05, 14:49
samthedrunk samthedrunk is offline
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Default Re: maintaining that head-over-heels feeling

This has been worked out, considering things like endorphins: You can expect the infatuation to last for around 18 months, then there'd better to be something else left when it fades.

Of course this 18 month period can be significantly reduced, depending on people. If you don't stay on your toes and slump into a predictable routine and stop surprising each other then you might be looking at a year or so. If you're quite a detestable person and don't cover it up very well, 3-6 months.
 
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