... He has pix in the "post pix of yourself" thread.

I really hope that some of these comments were not serious.

how about you just stfu homo

Just be there. Tell her if she needs anything call u at anytime, and you will be there. when you are with her just try to have a good time, maybe not sexually but just try to get her mind off of things if at all possible. If she cries, hold her. If she talks, listen. If she falls apart, put her back together. If i was in your shoes I would not even worry about the relationship you all have, I would try to just help her through this time of need no matter how she wants to go through it. Be positive, let her know you feel her pain, and that she isn't alone. Tell her that you will make things alright, but only do this if you can and will do it.

Very touchy subject, she might get pissy man.......have patience. If you hate your life just think of it as a shitty job, and think about how your relationship resume will look a lot better with "helping a girlfriend through family/mother's death"

I have never experienced death like this, If my mom or dad died I would crumble, and I haven't seen either of them in some time. mom has been over a year. Just do what you can brother.

threesome

Just leave her. You don't need that shit. Girls are emotional bags of annoyance.

Start looking for a new GF.

Anyone who dumps a girl for stupid shit is a fucking fagbagged retard.

Be a man, be there for her, and make her comfortable. You will be rewarded in the long run. When she is overwhelmed by the klowledge of how comforting and understanding you can be, she'll do anything for you in return.

Trust me, I have experience with this.

Although you are 16 and the probability of a successful relationship is low, give it your best shot.

Wow, I'm really sorry. :(
Me also being a girl and being at that exact age, If I were to lose my mother right now I would completely lose it. No doubt that she will be crying, A LOT. Don't say much. Don't make it awkward by just sitting there and letting her cry. Hold her head in your chest and just keep telling her that your there for her, that your not going anywhere and that we can get through this, because that's what she's going to need to hear the most. Wipe her tears away and brush her hair out of her face while she's crying and just hold on to her tight. I can't even imagine what she's going through right now, but you sound like a good guy, and by you being there for her through this will make your relationship stronger. She's more than likely trying to figure out what she did wrong or why her mother decided to do this, she might even be feeling guilty or feel like she's somewhat responsible. No matter what, don't leave her, she needs you the most right now.

Her relationship with her mother was not like many others, she was unusually close with her, they lived together just the two of them since her dad and her split up. Her mom also has a history with this kind of stuff, and she tried it once while I was there, and my girlfriend freaked out and froze up while I had to call the 911 and try to keep her mom awake until they got there (pill overdose), so I saved her once already, but she had to move back in with her dad, and her mom was left alone for a bunch of days, and I guess thats why she did it.

This, of course, no matter HOW MUCH I try to tell her its not, makes my girlfriend think that its all her fault for not being there for her mom.

Shes probably going to become very attached to you, so if your really serious about her then stay with her,,,, if your not serious about a long term relationship, end it soon otherwise i guarantee she will be a pain in your ass for a long time to come....But even if you do dump, still be somone she can talk to being that shes in a rough time right now...goodluck and sorry to hear that

yea you should try to talk to her and show her your there for her but don't over do it.. if she on the other hand talks to you about it ALWAYS be there for her.. that way she'll know you're there but at the same time you wont over do it

Just hold her. If you're just going to say something stupid and to fill the space. Don't say anything, you dont need to.

Let her cry all up in yo grill

My friend, you were right.

Shes completely fubar now, theres nothing anyone can do.

We broke up a month ago, but she wanted to remain close friends because it was just a "break", but shes already dating all sorts of other guys and treating me like the dirt under her shoe. And shes just absolutely nuts too.

the_chad is out of love.

edit saw your breakup

My friend, you were right.

Shes completely fubar now, theres nothing anyone can do.

We broke up a month ago, but she wanted to remain close friends because it was just a "break", but shes already dating all sorts of other guys and treating me like the dirt under her shoe. And shes just absolutely nuts too.

the_chad is out of love.

lol, just remember that these dudes are just using her and you're far better than anything she'll get.

i love it that this is the type of totse response people bitch about... and it turned out to be the only advice worth hearing.

classic.

Stay with her?

Stay with her?

How do you stay with what you aren't already with?

How do you stay with what you aren't already with?

I thought it was your girlfriend or summin'...

Tell her that her mum took her life because she had such a failure of a daughter.

I thought it was your girlfriend or summin'...

Is that so?

Stay with her?

2 months late...Not good...

2 months late...Not good...

You have a firm grasp of the obvious.

http://www.nofactzone.net/wp-content/images/love-guru.jpg

Silly acolyte.