Hey guys,

So awhile back I had erection problems due to performance anxiety, eventually I found a steady girlfriend and I overcame my nerves after a while with her. We had sex with condoms for awhile but then she went on the pill.

When she first went on it, I couldn't get myself in. My dick would just stop when it hit the lips, then after thrusting, it would give out and I would go to a partial erection. Eventually we figured out two ways to over come this problem. The first was to have her blow me right before, and her saliva would provide lubrication for me to just slip in. The second was to have me spread her lips with my fingers while I dug in.

Anyways, we've since broken up but I've always been wondering if that's a normal occurrence. So fellas, is this normal? Or are my erections not as strong as they should be?

Its quite normal. Sex without foreplay requires lube. Even with foreplay the vag can only produce a limited amount of moisture.

Have you had sex with any other girls since, and if so, did you have the same problem? It seems more likely that the issue is with the girl (such as, she has problems naturally lubricating. SHE'S A MAN!!!), but without further info no-one can really tell you what's wrong.

me and my ex always had to do some kind of oral before hand or else it was too rough.. she wasnt dry or anything, cuz shes ruined sheets before, its just some girls are different i guess

Edit: she ruined em not me =/

haha if you hit the lottery of women you will find one where all u gotta do is whisper ur dirty thoughts into her ear and she will be ready

I have absolutely no idea why, but this gave me a mental image of shouting "WACKY WAVING INFLATABLE ARM-FLAILING TUBE-MAN!" at her to turn her on.

Weird.

I could click my fingers and my ex was wet... seriously... it was the weirdest thing, but definitely useful.

I have absolutely no idea why, but this gave me a mental image of shouting "WACKY WAVING INFLATABLE ARM-FLAILING TUBE-MAN!" at her to turn her on.

Weird.

I'm hard as a rock ;)

I just look at my girlfriend and she gets wet.


True story.