So I recently started doing this and I can't seem to achieve orgasm though I can when I masturbate.

HALP

STOP masturbating. Believe me it helps.

If you're using a condom, make sure it doesn't have benzocaine on it. Its for people who can't last in bed and basically numbs your dick to the point its damn near impossible to cum. I always get a few of those in the durex variety pack... and they go straight into the fucking garbage, because thats what they are.

If thats not the problem, maybe you're gay... try men, or close your eyes and think about you boyfriends ass :D

Are you especially nervous? I've seen that create problems before.

You just HAD to bring that up!

You just HAD to bring that up!

AHAHAHAHAHA.

But seriously, it's nothing to be embarrassed about. Just try and relax.

Try using condoms which are of the less thick variety. The Durex extra safe one feels like im having sex with a plastic bag, I may as well be with those fucking things.

Get a hold of some thinner ones, sure to do the trick. I had a time period where I could not come for the life of me, and the old whip-and-whack gets a little old after a while. All due to condoms the thickness of my arm.

Try drinking a little before hand just to loosen up a bit. I had this problem the first time I got head. I was so worried that I would cum in 10 seconds so I tried thinking about other stuff not to cum and then I couldn't....so the lesson is relax.

That's wearing a condom for ya. I have to force myself to cum using a condom. Try fantasizing the same things you do as when you masturbate.

Are you a girl or a guy?

dont wear a condom, thats what i do.

yeah and gets an std retard

yeah and gets an std retard

"yeah and gets an std retard"

Brilliant.

"yeah and gets an std retard"

Brilliant.

Lol. Most of his posts are.

Is it really unreasonable for me to not want to use a condom? I am clean and I trust my girlfriend is too.

She's on the pill too and she just doesn't want to get pregnant but really, call me retarded, but I just don't dig putting a rubber sack over my dick. What is the point of even having sex at all if I can't touch my partner?

It just doesn't feel like so much of a deep connection or expression of love, if you will, when it's so artificial.

However, does it still make sense to use a condom if she's on the pill anyway? Is there some way to convince her that we can do it without one if that is indeed the case?

Just make her sound stupid when she talks about using a condom. Like "why are you wasting all that money on the pill if your gonna make me use a condom?" and tell her its less enjoyable for you and you want to be truly intimate with her and the only way you can do that is without a condom.

Too bad her doctor gave her a free month's supply of birth control pills. She's not wasting any money.

She just doesn't care.

Ah what a cunt. Well I don't know, try getting her really really really horny and get all naked and all that and then right before your about to fuck just be like "oh baby we don't have any condoms" and see if she even cares at that point. If she does....rape?

Let her try it once w/ no condom and you can pull out. I swear she won't want to go back to a condom, girls dislike them as much as guys do from my experiences.

In this situation I think it's totally cool that you guys not use a condom. But if she still feels uncomfortable not using a condom then use one. It's not that big of a deal and you sound like a whiny baby. I've never heard a guy say using a condom makes sex shitty.

I can't tell the difference when he's inside me. The only thing I dislike about condoms is that guys seem to never have them. I always carry them, so that means I'm the one who has to go stumbling around naked in the dark, just when I've just gotten all aroused and shit, to find my purse. Then I get all un-horny and we have to start all over again.

In this situation I think it's totally cool that you guys not use a condom. But if she still feels uncomfortable not using a condom then use one. It's not that big of a deal and you sound like a whiny baby. I've never heard a guy say using a condom makes sex shitty.

You've never heard anyone complain about condoms making sex shitty either because they fuck around and actually have to worry about getting STDs and/or aren't sure if the girls are on birth control or they simply don't mind because at least they are getting some.

I'm not saying that those are bad reasons but I am also saying that the novelty of actually getting any at all just isn't worth it being so... artificial. For me, at least.

It just doesn't feel like so much of a deep connection or expression of love, if you will, when it's so artificial.

Herpes and AIDs aren't artificial. They're pretty real.

Herpes and AIDs aren't artificial. They're pretty real.

Yeah because she has herpes and AIDS, right?

Oh no, sorry, she doesn't. But I do.

You've never heard anyone complain about condoms making sex shitty either because they fuck around and actually have to worry about getting STDs and/or aren't sure if the girls are on birth control or they simply don't mind because at least they are getting some.

I'm not saying that those are bad reasons but I am also saying that the novelty of actually getting any at all just isn't worth it being so... artificial. For me, at least.
I've heard people say they don't like condoms. But I've never heard someone put up as much as a fuss as you are. Just suck it up and use a condom.