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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2008-10-27, 00:17 |
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 I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
I lied. I promised, and I broke it. And now I never want to do it again.
I promised I would quit. And I did. And I promised to never smoke again.
And yesterday night I did. I had two with my friend. He asked me why I quit, so I made up some excuse. He wouldn't understand that it was for not only her sake, but mine. So I gave in, "for old times's sake" as he put it. And after that, he told me that it was hard to quit "cold turkey", but that he thought I could do it.
After that, I felt sick to my stomache. I got heart palpitations for the next three hours. I realised what I had done.
Now I have to talk to her. I don't know if I should just pretend this never happened, or if I should tell her.
I'm going to marry this woman one day, and she's the one. That's why I feel so bad, and I really don't know what to say.
Edit: Should I feel as bad as I do? I'm in tears writing this. I'm only eighteen.
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#2
2008-10-27, 00:28 |
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Re: I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
honestly i would just talk to her about it, i would feel bad if i was you, but i wouldnt feel AS sad, i mean if you did something like cheated on her, THEN i would be in tears, but i think you are just being a little too emotional *hugs* there there :)
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#3
2008-10-27, 00:36 |
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Re: I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
Just don't tell her. Don't do it again unless you feel like it. It's not really a big deal.
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#4
2008-10-27, 00:48 |
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Re: I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
This thread had better be about crack or meth.
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#5
2008-10-27, 00:50 |
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Re: I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
Jesus christ man get ahold of yourself! Women are simply useless flaps of skin that have no real meaningful opinions or ideas and it feels good when you put your weiner in them. THATS IT! Trust me. You're freaking out because you made a stupid little mistake when 10 years from now when your married she's gonna be a cheating menacing whore. YOUR A MAN, DONT LET THE BITCH CONTROL YOU LIKE THAT!!!
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2008-10-27, 01:39 |
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Re: I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
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Originally Posted by voodoonirvana
Jesus christ man get ahold of yourself! Women are simply useless flaps of skin that have no real meaningful opinions or ideas and it feels good when you put your weiner in them. THATS IT! Trust me. You're freaking out because you made a stupid little mistake when 10 years from now when your married she's gonna be a cheating menacing whore. YOUR A MAN, DONT LET THE BITCH CONTROL YOU LIKE THAT!!!
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Before considering this guy's opinion, you may want to take into account the immense bias of his position.
By the way, it's a smoke, get over it, just talk to her about it. |
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#7
2008-10-27, 01:52 |
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Re: I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
Before considering this guy's opinion, you may want to take into account the immense bias of his position.
By the way, it's a smoke, get over it, just talk to her about it.
No, he's quite right about everything he said. If he finds a woman that is actually trustworthy, he achieved something you nor I may never see.
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#8
2008-10-27, 02:05 |
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Re: I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
Worse things could've happened. People relapse, you are a human, not built on your promises. I don't think your girl would lay this one on you, and you'd probably feel better about your slip if you told her what had happened. Not saying that you should, but that it may ease your mind a bit.
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#9
2008-10-27, 02:31 |
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Re: I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
I have actually been in the exact same situation before, the first time I smoked after I promised her I would quit I decided to tell her. She was disappointed, but she forgave me. The second time I didn't tell her I smoked, but she found out and broke up with me on the spot.
So just tell the truth and all will work out
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#10
2008-10-27, 02:55 |
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Re: I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
Thank you all for your replies. I felt a LOT better after reading them (I know I was overreacting, but I seriously wanted to throw up yesterday I felt so bad). I think the severity of how terrible I felt proved how much I love her.
Well, I just told her, and like we all probably knew, it worked out. I did not tell her of how bad I felt though.
I feel a lot better now, and after reading some stuff on Erowid about quitting, felt even better and have more willpower now.
She was disappointed, no doubt. And especially disappointed because I haven't kept promises in the past. She was glad I told her though, and I made it clear to her that nothing of the sort would happen again.
I threw all out of my pills while I was on the phone to her to prove it. And I'm quitting drinking for a while too.
Thanks for your opinions guys.
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#11
2008-10-27, 02:59 |
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Re: I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
What fucking drug was it!?
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2008-10-27, 03:12 |
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Re: I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
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Originally Posted by rabbitweed
What fucking drug was it!?
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teH nicOtINEs!!!!  |
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2008-10-27, 03:12 |
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Re: I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
If you're girlfriend's worth anything she'll realize how difficult quitting anything is, and she'll be there to support you even when you relapse, just so long as you're trying. Good on you for telling her; it really builds trust when you know your partner will tell you what's going on even if it might be upsetting. Just keep it together; it sounds like you've got a decent girl, and having a reason to quit will make it so much easier.
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#14
2008-10-27, 03:13 |
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Re: I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
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Originally Posted by rabbitweed
What fucking drug was it!?
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#15
2008-10-27, 03:56 |
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Re: I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
She was disappointed, no doubt. And especially disappointed because I haven't kept promises in the past. She was glad I told her though, and I made it clear to her that nothing of the sort would happen again.
You're a pussy, and I say that with all the best intentions. You had a couple cigarettes for old times' sake and got way too fucking emotional, now you're willfully giving this girl control over you. That's what needs to not happen again.
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#16
2008-10-27, 04:07 |
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Re: I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
teH nicOtINEs!!!!
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#17
2008-10-27, 04:21 |
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Re: I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
OP, I think you did the right thing by telling her, only because you specifically made a promise. Otherwise, I wouldn't have thought it was worth getting as bothered by it as you did.
Oh and to the people giving this guy shit just cause his addiction isn't as 'hardcore' as you'd like, fuck off.
Quitting cigarettes is fucking hard, because people are doing it around you all the time and everyone you hang out with does it all the time too. Every addiction and habit presents difficulties and trials that are tailored to the particular individual. So fuck off with your blanket statements that nicotine isn't hardcore enough and thus quitting smoking is no big deal; this guy is having a tough time with it but he's trying..
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2008-10-27, 06:27 |
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Re: I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
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Originally Posted by Breakthrough
I lied. I promised, and I broke it. And now I never want to do it again.
I promised I would quit. And I did. And I promised to never smoke again.
And yesterday night I did. I had two with my friend. He asked me why I quit, so I made up some excuse. He wouldn't understand that it was for not only her sake, but mine. So I gave in, "for old times's sake" as he put it. And after that, he told me that it was hard to quit "cold turkey", but that he thought I could do it.
After that, I felt sick to my stomache. I got heart palpitations for the next three hours. I realised what I had done.
Now I have to talk to her. I don't know if I should just pretend this never happened, or if I should tell her.
I'm going to marry this woman one day, and she's the one. That's why I feel so bad, and I really don't know what to say.
Edit: Should I feel as bad as I do? I'm in tears writing this. I'm only eighteen.
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2008-10-27, 07:22 |
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Re: I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
OPs a PUSSY WIPPED BITCH
Don't lie to your girl but don't feel bad.
Say "Yeah so I smoked again, too bad. I'll do better next time." Why the fuck would she get mad?
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#20
2008-10-27, 10:18 |
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Re: I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
It was tobacco, right?
*cue "ride of the valkyries"*
THE END IS NIGH!!!
*gallops off into the horizon*
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#21
2008-10-27, 11:50 |
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Re: I feel terrible. And I don't know what to tell her.
Youll feel better once you steal her purse
That usually where they keep your balls
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