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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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# 1

2008-10-26, 21:56
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Louisiana
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my sister.
not an incest thread, more of a brother-sister relationship thread
anyway, my sister is 16, and she lives with my mother. she's graduating next year. occasionally she comes to my house (i live with my dad) and spends the night and shit. she always looks depressed and sad when she comes over, so i ask her why.. she said because whenever she tries to talk to me (about something i quite frankly couldn't give a rat's ass about or something stupid that she plans to do in her life), i put her down and make sarcastic comments, and whenever she tries to ask me something i cuss her and shit, so she doesn't say anything. We have nothing in common, don't listen to the same music, the way we dress, the way our lifestyle is, our personalities are completely different, and I can't agree with anything she says and most of the things she likes to do. i don't know how to fix this, because when she talks to me i can't just say nothing (i do sometimes), and i can't agree with her. i've already written my mother out of my life and i'm thinking of doing so with my sister, but i don't really want this to happen.
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# 2

2008-10-26, 22:06
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Re: my sister.
so you can only get along with people who are just like you and agree with everything you agree with?
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# 3

2008-10-26, 22:08
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Re: my sister.
Tell her to gehtfuct, amirite?
But seriously, get over yourself and learn to coexist with people who aren't your clones, otherwise it's going to be a lonely ride.
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# 4

2008-10-26, 22:35
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Re: my sister.
Make this a thread about incest and maybe people will give a shit. But in all seriousness, just talk about shit you don't care about.
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# 5

2008-10-26, 22:38
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Re: my sister.
I laughed.
Hard.
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# 6

2008-10-26, 22:41
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Re: my sister.
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Originally Posted by gehtfuct
not an incest thread
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If you change that, you and your sister would have something in common.
As for additional solutions... the common factor in all your disfunctional relationships is you. You don't have to be an ass to her just because she's not exactly like you. Hell, everything you care about is equally stupid, since you're both going to be a nitrogen-enriched soil supplement in about a hundred years anyway, so why not just accept that people's subjective experiences are important simply because it's important to them, and try not to be an ass about it? Empathy is worth something...
...besides, I bet that if you nailed your sister, you'd start feeling a bit more warmly towards her. 'n you wouldn't be so grumpy all the time if you got some without leaving the house. So you see... your sister puts the "win/win" in "wincest."
Go get 'em, tiger.
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# 7

2008-10-26, 22:43
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Re: my sister.
writing your sister out of your life because you two are different is completely retarded. you're both young(im assuming since she is 16) give it some time, you may not get along now but maybe eventually you will be able to mature and appreciate each other for who you are, differences and all. she obviously is still attempting at having a relationship with you even though you two differ so much, so why can't you put forth a little effort too. no reason not to really, unless family is that replaceable for you, and in that case...carry on.
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# 8

2008-10-26, 23:46
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Re: my sister.
you sound like an idiot. this isn't some fucking person you're supposed to get a long with like a co worker or something. its your sister...one of the only people that will ever care about your sorry ass. jeez some people are so fucked up.
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# 9

2008-10-27, 00:06
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Re: my sister.
Do what I did.
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# 10

2008-10-27, 00:36
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Re: my sister.
i cannot get along with my sister for shit because shes a dumb fuckin cunt whos a fuckin SNITCH AND were only like 2years apart.
I HATE THAT HOE, her room and shower is dirty as fuck CONSTANTLY while outside house, shes an A student and pretends to be all nice and shit when in the house, DISGUSTING AS FUCK.
also she snitches on me for every single shit i do and goes on to cry on mom.
though i dont beat that bitch up anymore, i dont talk to her WHAT SO EVER, because i hate fuckin snitches.
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#11
 2008-10-27, 00:42
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Re: my sister.
You should kill her.
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#12
 2008-10-27, 00:53
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The Material Plane
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Re: my sister.
You're a prick, me and my sis are very, very different and we get along fine. You don't deserve a family.
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#13
 2008-10-27, 00:57
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Re: my sister.
oh well you didn't say anything about her being a snitch. your options are either a) talk to her and really try to connect b) reject your own family. which will you regret on your death bed?
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#14
 2008-10-27, 01:08
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Re: my sister.
give her peanut butter, then she can't talk back
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#15
 2008-10-27, 02:24
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Re: my sister.
Alright, it's not just that we don't have anything in common, it's mostly that her and my mother are fucking bums, and everytime I talk to them or see them they always ask for food, clothes, a car or a house, or make references to them (hint hint), and they're pretty ungrateful. Like the other day I gave my sister a nice real leather jacket that is probably worth a few hundred dollars, I call her the next day and ask her if she liked it, she said "I didn't try it on, it's not really my style."(pix at bottom) So last night, at around 7PM, she calls this guy and talks on the phone with him until 2AM, on MY computer, looking at jackets and clothing and shit, and says "I need a new jacket..". I'm like "You had one." and she looks away. I guess she's never heard "you don't look a gift horse in the mouth.".
And the guy that's on her birth certificate (let's call him Q), the one that pays child support (he doesn't), and he's never really had anything to do with her and he didn't raise her, my dad raised her until she was about 4. Anyway, she referred to him as "daddy" last night, while holding the phone he bought her, and this is after my dad bought her a brand new computer for $800 and that same day she said she wasn't ever going to talk to Q ever again, and that she loved my dad and said he is her father. Playing both ends toward the middle much?
pixhttp://i36.tinypic.com/u4w03.jpg
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#16
 2008-10-27, 03:47
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persiaprince 
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Re: my sister.
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Originally Posted by gehtfuct
Alright, it's not just that we don't have anything in common, it's mostly that her and my mother are fucking bums, and everytime I talk to them or see them they always ask for food, clothes, a car or a house, or make references to them (hint hint), and they're pretty ungrateful. Like the other day I gave my sister a nice real leather jacket that is probably worth a few hundred dollars, I call her the next day and ask her if she liked it, she said "I didn't try it on, it's not really my style."(pix at bottom) So last night, at around 7PM, she calls this guy and talks on the phone with him until 2AM, on MY computer, looking at jackets and clothing and shit, and says "I need a new jacket..". I'm like "You had one." and she looks away. I guess she's never heard "you don't look a gift horse in the mouth.".
And the guy that's on her birth certificate (let's call him Q), the one that pays child support (he doesn't), and he's never really had anything to do with her and he didn't raise her, my dad raised her until she was about 4. Anyway, she referred to him as "daddy" last night, while holding the phone he bought her, and this is after my dad bought her a brand new computer for $800 and that same day she said she wasn't ever going to talk to Q ever again, and that she loved my dad and said he is her father. Playing both ends toward the middle much?
pixhttp://i36.tinypic.com/u4w03.jpg
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Fair enough.
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#17
 2008-10-27, 04:14
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Re: my sister.
Your sister sounds like a manipulative tit. I wouldn't cut off all communication with her but make your feelings and position very clear. For example, "you're a bitch so either change your behavior or don't talk to me. Q.E.D., motherfucker."
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#18
 2008-10-27, 04:32
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Re: my sister.
First, i really don`t think your differences are that important. My sister is liberal and i`m not, shes a pacivist (sort-of) and i`m definitely not and we don`t dress the same, but we are very close and we don`t trust anyone more than each other.
I don`t think that should get between you and your sister.
Also, try not to think of her as beeing like your mother. She may have simularities but shes differant from you mom. My father thinking my sister is a lot like mom, even though they are nothing alike, has caused problems with them, that might be part of your problem too.
Don`t worry about the jacket, she didn`t like it, its not a big deal.
Its not unusual for her to call both of the father-like-guys in her life dad, i get what your saying but i doubt shes trying to be manipulative, and don`t down talk to her like that man.
Just be nice to her (even when shes not nice to you), try to have an attitude of you guys being a team or at least protective friends and find something you guys can do while your hanging out.
Good luck man.
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#19
 2008-10-27, 07:25
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Re: my sister.
I came.
Hard.
Fixed. Oh, wait... :(
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#20
 2008-10-27, 07:25
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Re: my sister.
Do what I did.
His sister? 
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#21
 2008-10-27, 07:33
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Re: my sister.
get out of my thread ugly ass bitch
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#22
 2008-10-27, 16:12
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Re: my sister.
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Originally Posted by mrgrape2
i cannot get along with my sister for shit because shes a dumb fuckin cunt whos a fuckin SNITCH AND were only like 2years apart.
I HATE THAT HOE, her room and shower is dirty as fuck CONSTANTLY while outside house, shes an A student and pretends to be all nice and shit when in the house, DISGUSTING AS FUCK.
also she snitches on me for every single shit i do and goes on to cry on mom.
though i dont beat that bitch up anymore, i dont talk to her WHAT SO EVER, because i hate fuckin snitches.
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wholy fuck this sounds almost exactly the same as my sister. the only differences are that she is 8 years younger than me, i dont think shes an A student, I dont beat her ass up, and I dont think that I hate her as much as you hate your sister. But seriously telling her to fuck off is fine but beating your own sister that pretty fuckin low.
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#23
 2008-10-27, 16:20
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second star to the right.
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Re: my sister.
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Originally Posted by gehtfuct
Alright, it's not just that we don't have anything in common, it's mostly that her and my mother are fucking bums, and everytime I talk to them or see them they always ask for food, clothes, a car or a house, or make references to them (hint hint), and they're pretty ungrateful. Like the other day I gave my sister a nice real leather jacket that is probably worth a few hundred dollars, I call her the next day and ask her if she liked it, she said "I didn't try it on, it's not really my style."(pix at bottom) So last night, at around 7PM, she calls this guy and talks on the phone with him until 2AM, on MY computer, looking at jackets and clothing and shit, and says "I need a new jacket..". I'm like "You had one." and she looks away. I guess she's never heard "you don't look a gift horse in the mouth.".
And the guy that's on her birth certificate (let's call him Q), the one that pays child support (he doesn't), and he's never really had anything to do with her and he didn't raise her, my dad raised her until she was about 4. Anyway, she referred to him as "daddy" last night, while holding the phone he bought her, and this is after my dad bought her a brand new computer for $800 and that same day she said she wasn't ever going to talk to Q ever again, and that she loved my dad and said he is her father. Playing both ends toward the middle much?
pixhttp://i36.tinypic.com/u4w03.jpg
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That is a fucking ugly jacket.
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#24
 2008-10-27, 16:27
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Re: my sister.
That is a fucking ugly jacket.
it looks like something a middle aged biker broad worn out by years of meth and gangbangs would wear
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#25
 2008-10-27, 17:52
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dark-easterbunny 
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Re: my sister.
Stop giving her shit. She's spoiled as it is
And instead of being an asshole try constructive criticism
Normally i would say nothin you can't bang outta her, but since it's your sister. Show her that her time can be spend way more intresting then whining for or pursuin useless crap.
I'd tell you how, but then i'd have to reveall so much bout my own life i'd have to kill every person registered
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#26
 2008-10-27, 18:16
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Re: my sister.
do you have AIM or MSN?
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#27
 2008-10-27, 18:19
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Re: my sister.
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Originally Posted by gehtfuct
Alright, it's not just that we don't have anything in common, it's mostly that her and my mother are fucking bums, and everytime I talk to them or see them they always ask for food, clothes, a car or a house, or make references to them (hint hint), and they're pretty ungrateful. Like the other day I gave my sister a nice real leather jacket that is probably worth a few hundred dollars, I call her the next day and ask her if she liked it, she said "I didn't try it on, it's not really my style."(pix at bottom) So last night, at around 7PM, she calls this guy and talks on the phone with him until 2AM, on MY computer, looking at jackets and clothing and shit, and says "I need a new jacket..". I'm like "You had one." and she looks away. I guess she's never heard "you don't look a gift horse in the mouth.".
And the guy that's on her birth certificate (let's call him Q), the one that pays child support (he doesn't), and he's never really had anything to do with her and he didn't raise her, my dad raised her until she was about 4. Anyway, she referred to him as "daddy" last night, while holding the phone he bought her, and this is after my dad bought her a brand new computer for $800 and that same day she said she wasn't ever going to talk to Q ever again, and that she loved my dad and said he is her father. Playing both ends toward the middle much?
pixhttp://i36.tinypic.com/u4w03.jpg
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http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=skid
Skids having little shit skid offspring.
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#28
 2008-10-28, 07:06
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Re: my sister.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=skid
Skids having little shit skid offspring.
Heh.
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#29
 2008-10-28, 19:09
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Re: my sister.
tl;dr no incest fuck
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#30
 2008-10-28, 20:59
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Re: my sister.
First of all, that jacket sucks.
Secondly, you should try being more supportive of your sister. Yeah, she seems like she's being a little cunt, but she's a teenage girl man with a complicated family situation. She's probably dealing with a lot of complex emotional issues.
Instead of cutting into her every time she has a bad idea or says something inane, give her constructive criticism.
Either that, or admit that you don't really wanna be a part of her life.
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#31
 2008-10-28, 21:24
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Re: my sister.
do you have AIM or MSN?
The fact that you own a jacket like that (let alone gave it to a girl) just shows you're the problem
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#32
 2008-10-28, 22:48
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Re: my sister.
Stop being such a dick and your problems will fix themselves. The appropriate way to deal with things like messiness, inconsiderateness, and stupidity is teasing, not bitching at her about it.
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#33
 2008-10-28, 23:02
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Re: my sister.
Lucille Ball likes Padaminanenanin.
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#34
 2008-10-28, 23:39
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Re: my sister.
faggots
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#35
 2008-10-28, 23:48
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Re: my sister.
saw the jacket and thought you gave it to her as a joke
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