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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2008-10-25, 23:27
Cymru Cymru is offline
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Default Bad First Date?

All went well, meal and cinema. Talking and getting along fine.
Dropped her off at home, walked her to door. So we kissed but it was really awkward and she turned away after ~5 seconds. Then didnt look at me. I reckon its cos i was shit. I swiftly fucked right off feeling like a prick.

Gotta see her monday. Am i just thinking too much into it or did it really go shit?
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Old 2008-10-25, 23:36
Nameraca Nameraca is offline
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You should have... how should I... See, women don't want you for your money.

You did what a regular guy would have.
She probably didn't have her standard really high, and where you screwed was probably more on sexual tension/connection, mental connection.
You need to make her feel things. That is how you pickup women.

Advice for next time? A date where she watch and is a spectator, is normal. She can get that off anyone. Take her somewhere SHE INTERACTS with whatever/wherever you've gone out to, and it should links to her interests.
Action is the keyword here.
A date with you must be something she cannot get with anyone else (especially since you seem unable to put sexual tension/connection, less mental.)

Experience comes with doing.
In doubt, act.
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Old 2008-10-25, 23:36
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Originally Posted by Cymru
All went well, meal and cinema. Talking and getting along fine.
Dropped her off at home, walked her to door. So we kissed but it was really awkward and she turned away after ~5 seconds. Then didnt look at me. I reckon its cos i was shit. I swiftly fucked right off feeling like a prick.

Gotta see her monday. Am i just thinking too much into it or did it really go shit?


Your attitude is shit. "Meal and cinema"? "Recokn its cos i was shit"? You sound like one of those fellars that dress in cardigans, comb their hair, and wear glasses.

Lighten up a bit, get a sense of humour and grow some balls. Oh, and always feel positive, no matter what.

Oh, and you're gonna be alright. See her monday, and be positive. There is something to bet on, and you've got nothing to lose.
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Old 2008-10-25, 23:53
Cymru Cymru is offline
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Just wanted to know if id really fucked it up or not but yeah, fuck it. If we get along well monday then all good, otherwise ill move on.
It was just down to to being anxious i think anyway, she is gorgeous.
 
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