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 #1 
Old 2008-10-25, 22:33
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Default Make Out: Interrupted

Last night I met this hot girl at the bar and I end up making out with her and then her friends come over and cock block me. They like ripped her from me lol. They say they need to leave immediately for some reason (jealousy imo :) ) and I end up getting this girls number before she leaves with them. Should I call her tonight? Also I don't get texts so I got nothing there. What is the etiquette on this?
 #2 
Old 2008-10-25, 23:14
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Groovy.
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Call her tomorrow.
 #3 
Old 2008-10-25, 23:14
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Teenage attention whore.
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You have to wait three days or you'll look desperate EEK!
 #4 
Old 2008-10-25, 23:25
Nameraca Nameraca is offline
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The three day rule is Bullshit. As is the 3 Second rules.

It's just easier to go straight within tjhe first 3 seconds, especially on street pîckup, but if you're congruent enough with yourself, nothing is made of stone, you can make things go the way you want them to.

Anyway, for the 3 Days call, it REALLY depends on the situation.

Don't call for chit chat. Call for a date, organize things before and then call. You'd better not call the same or next day, nor weekends, call on weekdays.
Stand up to be able to put the most energy as possible in your call, sitting will only make you slouchy and having low energy to ''tranfer/connect'' and also DO NOT LET HER speak about shit that's happening to her. Only Bring Positivity.
If she starts talking about negative stuff, to you, she will link you to that negative stuff since you are the one listening, putting yourself in the ''Guy who listen to the crap that happens in my life'' role: You do NOT want that. ;)

Also, don't try making a classic coffee restaurant date. Make one with action, where she can interact with things around her (concert, castle visit at 3AM, limo tour of the city with champagne, salsa concert with a drink witht he musicians after etc) the keyword here is action.
 #5 
Old 2008-10-26, 00:42
dagothnonlik dagothnonlik is offline
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im pretty sure the 3 day rule only works on someone you met and NOT made out with

i reckon she wants you since you guys hooked up in like one night.careful if she says anything about it being a one night stand.
 #6 
Old 2008-10-26, 01:31
Malkog Malkog is offline
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Just wait a couple of days. Etiquette? I don't know. I don't think there's a set system in place anymore. This is not the days of black and white movies. Call her if you want to, do whatever feels right.
 #7 
Old 2008-10-26, 01:53
Nameraca Nameraca is offline
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Actually, it was invented by Mystery of the Mystery Method, but now is dismissed as everyone in Pickup Communities are going natural.
 #8 
Old 2008-10-26, 04:21
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New Zealand
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If she starts talking about negative stuff, to you, she will link you to that negative stuff since you are the one listening, putting yourself in the ''Guy who listen to the crap that happens in my life'' role: You do NOT want that. ;)

Alright, I am hardly a stud, but with all the girls I've gotten with, I had sex with them within a couple of months of the being made the "Guy who listens to crap that happens in my life".

Also, don't try making a classic coffee restaurant date. Make one with action, where she can interact with things around her (concert, castle visit at 3AM, limo tour of the city with champagne, salsa concert with a drink witht he musicians after etc) the keyword here is action.

Sounds like you invest far too much in club sluts.
 #9 
Old 2008-10-26, 04:54
HTS-Noob HTS-Noob is offline
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Alright, I am hardly a stud, but with all the girls I've gotten with, I had sex with them within a couple of months of the being made the "Guy who listens to crap that happens in my life".

This is key.

I'm all for the nice guy/emotional tampon/whatever approach, but it's a long term one and it's risky, making it supid if you're just in it for some quick pussy.
 #10 
Old 2008-10-26, 05:43
whitelightning whitelightning is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Nameraca
The three day rule is Bullshit. As is the 3 Second rules.

It's just easier to go straight within tjhe first 3 seconds, especially on street pîckup, but if you're congruent enough with yourself, nothing is made of stone, you can make things go the way you want them to.

Anyway, for the 3 Days call, it REALLY depends on the situation.

Don't call for chit chat. Call for a date, organize things before and then call. You'd better not call the same or next day, nor weekends, call on weekdays.
Stand up to be able to put the most energy as possible in your call, sitting will only make you slouchy and having low energy to ''tranfer/connect'' and also DO NOT LET HER speak about shit that's happening to her. Only Bring Positivity.
If she starts talking about negative stuff, to you, she will link you to that negative stuff since you are the one listening, putting yourself in the ''Guy who listen to the crap that happens in my life'' role: You do NOT want that. ;)

Also, don't try making a classic coffee restaurant date. Make one with action, where she can interact with things around her (concert, castle visit at 3AM, limo tour of the city with champagne, salsa concert with a drink witht he musicians after etc) the keyword here is action.


dude, you are a grade A pimp. I commend you!
 #11 
Old 2008-10-26, 08:13
Malkog Malkog is offline
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Sounds like you invest far too much in club sluts.

This. Fine if you're in it just for pussy, if that's what you're into.

You don't sound like "a grade A pimp" you sound like a guy who read a manual.
 #12 
Old 2008-10-26, 10:54
Mitchell Y. McDeere Mitchell Y. McDeere is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Nameraca
The three day rule is Bullshit. As is the 3 Second rules.

It's just easier to go straight within tjhe first 3 seconds, especially on street pîckup, but if you're congruent enough with yourself, nothing is made of stone, you can make things go the way you want them to.

Anyway, for the 3 Days call, it REALLY depends on the situation.

Don't call for chit chat. Call for a date, organize things before and then call. You'd better not call the same or next day, nor weekends, call on weekdays.
Stand up to be able to put the most energy as possible in your call, sitting will only make you slouchy and having low energy to ''tranfer/connect'' and also DO NOT LET HER speak about shit that's happening to her. Only Bring Positivity.
If she starts talking about negative stuff, to you, she will link you to that negative stuff since you are the one listening, putting yourself in the ''Guy who listen to the crap that happens in my life'' role: You do NOT want that. ;)

Also, don't try making a classic coffee restaurant date. Make one with action, where she can interact with things around her (concert, castle visit at 3AM, limo tour of the city with champagne, salsa concert with a drink witht he musicians after etc) the keyword here is action.


You try too hard.

Also, kudos on thread title.
 #13 
Old 2008-10-26, 11:17
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Teenage attention whore.
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Holy fuck.

I just realized.

Look at the way this thread was written. You're just bragging you fuck Mad
 #14 
Old 2008-10-26, 14:12
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sydney Australia
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I hope that you ignore the advice in this thread -bar one line.

"everyone is going natural"

Its about fucking time, i can pick the guys who are playing 'the game' from a fucking mile away - and i aint making it easy for them, its too fucking fun to barge on in and call them on their bullshit.

I fucking hate bullshit.
Get a goddam personality, thats what this PUA shit is about - they just want you to adopt someone elses more successful personality, you wont get very far doing that.

Develop your own life, personality and qualities - takes alot longer, requires more than just reading a book but it means you have real ownership over your life. Your not some faggot who read a book and can be ruined at any moment by a stronger person whos read the same book.

I subscribe to the theory of know thy enemy, fortunately my enemy is neither skilled nor truly confident in what he is doing.

Start riots like limp bizkit.

Also for OP: Make the call when you want to- i dont know what your deal with this woman is, you should know more about it than someone on the internet in a different country.
 #15 
Old 2008-10-26, 15:03
Nameraca Nameraca is offline
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Default Re: Make Out: Interrupted

1:

Alright, I am hardly a stud, but with all the girls I've gotten with, I had sex with them within a couple of months of the being made the "Guy who listens to crap that happens in my life".

I never it wasn't possible. I say it isn't ideal to me. But if it works for you, then :) .


2:


You don't sound like "a grade A pimp" you sound like a guy who read a manual.


When did I say I was a pimp?
Rock Concert, Castle visit at 3AM, limo tour of the city with champagne, salsa concert with a drink witht he musicians after etc) ALL THESE HAPPENED TO ONE GUY, AND HE PAID 0$ FOR THESE. That guy isn't me, he is a much more experienced Seductor.

And they all happened like a coincidence.
The salsa group was his sister's, the limo belonged to a friend, he got the rock concert tickets from the singer, who was being taken in photo by the same photographer who took a few pics of the Seductor in question.


3

Its about fucking time, i can pick the guys who are playing 'the game' from a fucking mile away - and i aint making it easy for them, its too fucking fun to barge on in and call them on their bullshit.
You are actually so right, and you gave me a new outlook of things! But these guys you barged and screwed their pickup probably weren't seductors, only average guys! :D But I appreciate that you teach them were to sit to leave the place to the true!

For true seductors, there is no game.
They are the game. It exudes from them, within them. They don't get their ''mojo" from other people: From Inside!

Get a goddam personality, thats what this PUA shit is about - they just want you to adopt someone elses more successful personality, you wont get very far doing that.

And yes, I don't think my personality is fake! I appreciate social interaction, wether its with women or man, I learn something in every one of them! You just taught me how to ruin them for my advantage, your attitude is great! :D

Thanks!
 #16 
Old 2008-10-26, 16:27
perfect chaos perfect chaos is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Xerxes35
Last night I met this hot girl at the bar and I end up making out with her and then her friends come over and cock block me. They like ripped her from me lol. They say they need to leave immediately for some reason (jealousy imo :) ) and I end up getting this girls number before she leaves with them. Should I call her tonight? Also I don't get texts so I got nothing there. What is the etiquette on this?


She could have had a boyfriend and her friends were stopping her doing something she'd regret. She could have not had a boyfriend and her friends were stopping her doing something she'd regret. Call her and find out.
 #17 
Old 2008-10-26, 17:26
ViperX202 ViperX202 is offline
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Alright, I am hardly a stud, but with all the girls I've gotten with, I had sex with them within a couple of months of the being made the "Guy who listens to crap that happens in my life".



Sounds like you invest far too much in club sluts.

this. rabbit is becomin a god! lol
 #18 
Old 2008-10-26, 17:55
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dodging the rain and tractors
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You trying to piss me off boy?

Only ameritarded teenies 'make out'
 #19 
Old 2008-10-26, 19:56
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dioudngin
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"everyone is going natural"



He is right don't wear a condom
 
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