I don't understand where people get off using another person. It's really fucked up. I've create situations now where I purposely set myself up to be used, to see if the person is worth my time, lol. It's like a test. It's not whether they take advantage, but how they act about it, is what I use as criteria. I'm a generous person, but I want someone who is appreciative to that generosity, not someone who takes it for granted.

Last night this happened. I met this Girl on the net, and we we're going to go see the UFC tonight at a bar. The only problem was that she had to babysit her cousins. The only option was for her other cousin to look after them and then she could go to the bar tonight. So I agreed to pick her cousin up and bring her to the house where she was babysitting, and then we were supposed to meet, etc, before we went to the bar tonight. She didn't really ask me to do this, but she basically manipulated the conversation so I would offer. Being the curious little bastard I am, knowing this, I offered, just to see what would happen. I had money and time to waste anyways, so I thought it could be a fun little social experiment to pick up a complete stranger and give her a ride. Her cousin was nice, and I'm really outgoing and personable, so the trip was pretty pleasant. We get to the house, but the girl I was supposed to go out with wasn't there. She was at her Grandparents house. Basically, I ended up waiting around for a couple hours in my truck, cause why the fuck not, as I have the net on my phone and had fuck all else to do. I got a whole bunch of stupid stories, she kept avoiding giving me her grandparents address, and then tried to tell me her phone was fucking up. It was quite funny really, as I was already suspicious and knew she was bailing on me right from the beginning, lol.

Eventually I said fuck it, this is boring, and went home. I was actually home for about an hour, but still telling her I was waiting in my truck, lol. I chatted with her a little on windows live for a bit, and then called her, but the conversations were awkward.

What this girl didn't realize is that right from the beginning I was profiling her. I ask random questions, not cause I care about the answers, but how she'd answer and word things. Liars follow a pattern, especially really shitty ones. I make a person weave a huge web, that way I have more to work with to spot the lies. I even found a little blurb she wrote about going to watch the UFC with a guy named william, which isn't me. People are so shitty at covering their tracks, especially with technology these days.

Some might wonder why I'd go through all of this if I knew she was likely full of shit and trying to take advantage. For one, it's fun. Also, I would have never known whether my intuition was correct or not unless I saw it through to see if it was. It was, as usual.

What I want to know is, where do people get off using others? What kind of person does that? I'm not hurt in any way cause I knew the whole time, but what the fuck is wrong with people.

I'm going to play the rest of this out tonight to see if I can fuck with her head now, lol. If possible, I'm going to see if I can get her to admit to the whole plan that she thought was so deceiving, lol. I'm so evil, lol. I'm going to make her feel like total shit. Maybe pretend that I'm suicidal, and make her think I've killed myself because of her. It's going to be epic. I wonder if I can record my phone calls, so I can put them on youtube, lol.

You sound like a very lonely man.

You do sound lonely. I say that because I am intensely lonely and the whole idea sounds brilliant. Well, maybe not the last bit. I'd draw the line at emotional bullying.

Does'nt sound fun at all Infact, it sounds like you're not bothered that you get used... which you probably are. What did she even use you for? A ride for her friend? Wowza you got pwned!!!!11 Who says she gets off on using you, anyways? You sound really bitter. Stop being so pathetic you schmuck.

Same.

The reason they use others, is because they get shit done for free.

That's all there is to it, I believe.

I don't understand how he can go from not sounding bothered to sounding bitter?

easeoflife is my hero.

dude just make her feel like complete asshole.

He's making it sound like hes not bothered and is bitter about being used. Read !

i enjoy it when somone does something for me out of kindness rather than because i minipulated the situation to make it difficult for them to say no. I hate people that do that, i used to do it ALL the time so i can spot it.....however now i get paranoid about every request of me so ...