I started going out with this girl about two weeks ago, we went to the movies and stuff and she seemed pretty into me, but lately, and it might be that she is a bit shy, but shes not like she was before, its like shes lost interest and shes only staying with me because she doesn't want to break my heart(yet).

Plus I have been hearing from people that she is going to dump, for some reason unknown, until today when this dickhead in my class kept on going up to her and asking whether she had dumped me yet. The the dickhead asked me and started saying shit like there gonna get together.

Then though I started speaking to her on msn and she asked me had the dickhead said anything to me, and I said yes, then she said do I believe it, then I said that it only reinforces what I have been hearing from other people. An so she suddenly had to go.

I want this girl really bad, she broke up with guy before me, then I asked her out, and now if this is true she is going to break up with me and go out with the dickhead. But the thing is shes not the sort of person I think who likes to play with guys and hurt them, I just think she doesn't know what she wants, cause I know for sure that dickhead is a dumbshit, fuck face show off .

Communication, really. I think the only thing you can do is just sit her down and talk to her, in person and in private, and ask her what it is she wants/is looking for. That should clear the air and stop any 'rumours' that might be floating around, for whatever reason.

Good luck, deary

Oh and she just kissed another chick at a party?

And that's a bad thing? At least you know she's the type willing to do new shit.

Two weeks is what stuck out to me, sounds like it ain't gonna last if you're already having problems or are in doubt. Also too soon since she split with some one else. Fuck her n leave her dude, it'll be better for you in the long run.

Also break that dickhead's nose, put him in line for chatting shit.

No, no his house I think might accidentally be burnt down, yeah I am cool with kissing, but yeah two weeks(first real high school relationship, with what looks like a bitter end).

Wow, okay first off, I know you are sprung on this girl. I'd try to take a step back. Things aren't looking too good for this situation. Like others have said, try to talk to the girl and get a straight answer out of her.

But the way things are looking. She pretty much brushed off you asking her about these rumors that she is going to dump you. At worst, the rumors are true, maybe they are just rumors. What isn't cool is that she just kind of brushed off your questions. Almost seems like she's trying to mess with your head or testing you.


Wish you the best of luck

Hahaha. You are a fucking idiot man. Dump her before she dumps you. This relationship was fail from the start, and the only thing you can do now is get her before she gets you...Meaning you "win" in a way. (It's pretty much the best you can hope for.)

Or just disregard my advice, get dumped and look/feel like a loser.

Agreed with above poster.

I know it's hard to be conscious and not act under the emotion, but you must do what must be done FOR YOU.

If you're sure she's staying with you to not break your heart, then you only postpone the inevitable. You will probably feel bad, but breaking up, you will feel alot better in a couple of weeks, when you realize how much you learned.

Did you make a move yet, is the sex nonexistant? Did you kiss her or do anything yet? Girls love that attention even if they won't let you go all the way. loved = a guy who is willing to give her attention anytime she want. If you aren't there for her, emotionally or physically, when she wants she'll start looking at other guys who will.

I still feel for you though, classroom drama sucks and i completely avoided it in school.

In a relationship NEVER trust any rumours, what any of your/her friends tell you, etc. Only trust your partner. If you don't trust her, you shouldn't be in the relationship in the first place.