Ok, so normally I can figure out if a girl likes/isn't interested in me just by talking to her and observing her body language for like an hour or so, but this one girl I've been going on dates with for the past 3 weeks is confusing me. She always acts awkward around me, it seems like she doesn't even want me to touch her(not sexually), but whenever I hug her or put my arm around her at a movie, she gets all happy and cuddles up next to me and all that bullshit. We've also made out a few times.

I can understand her being like that on the first 2 dates, but we've gone on 4 dates now and she keeps acting like this. I think that she's interested in me because she always comes and sees me at work and always gets excited when I ask her if she wants to go do something. Maybe she's just shy, who knows. Its gotten to the point where I don't even know if I should keep trying.

So what do y'all think? Is she interested in me, playing hard to get, or what? Should I keep going with it, or just say fuck it and find another girl.

If you cant figure this out, it means you're gay.

She's just shy.

Keep trying if you think it's worth it/want to have a future with her.

Shy girls can be fun in bed so I say go for it.


PS: "Nowhere" is one word.

This. Just take it slowly, but be very confident about what you do.

" but this one girl I've been going on dates with for the past 3 weeks is confusing me. "

All you need for logic. Failboat if a girl is reserving time for you and you cannot act with the duty of a man to take care of business. Learn your fucking role kid.

She sounds like shes young, or younger than you. Younger chicks always seem to be like this, they lock up and just dont know what to do. Thats why i stay away from them..like taking a manican out in public with you.

If she acts really awkward around you that could be a good thing. It means she's worried about impressing you or looking like an idiot. She's into you man. You just need to be the direct one in the relationship because I don't see this chick taking any risky moves.

Also she may just be inexperienced.

By the sounds of it, you make her nervous and she's shy.

I like girls like that. Makes the courting game so much more fun...

She's just shy, and has a crush on you.

I was with a guy like this a while back and it was frustrating as hell. He wouldn't make a move unless I made it extremely obvious I wanted him too (telling him to hold my goddamn hand etc.).

You'll just have to always make the first move.

Thanks for the advice everyone, it's helped out a lot

As a personal philosophy I would cut her off if I went three dates without sex, but she might just be shy and you might not be direct.

I'd give it a 50/50 chance. Don't invest too much time in this one.

She likes you and doesn't want to come off as slutty or too eager, thus blowing her shot and being considered girlfriend material. Don't push her, but keep doing what you're doing and you will be rewarded.

Don't push her, but keep doing what you're doing and you will be rewarded.

Wrong. You need to be more aggressive.

As another general rule, don't ever take relationship advice from other women (see above).

Wrong. You need to be more aggressive.

As another general rule, don't ever take relationship advice from other women (see above).

If a guy told me what I was going to eat and what movie I was going to see, I would turn around and leave. Your advice is shit.

If a guy told me what I was going to eat and what movie I was going to see, I would turn around and leave. Your advice is shit.

No sweetheart, I make your reality. The only thing you would see is confidence, I can present my intentions in a way that would make them appear not the slightest bit arrogant or controlling. To the contrary, you can't hide insecurity or indecisiveness.