Sup S&E...


So my girlfriend is into getting tied up for sexin'. She has also enjoyed being blindfolded. She has just expressed an interest in being gagged.

This is all majorly hot, and I want ideas for getting to the next level without having to ask her. A surprise if you will.

Suggestions?

a lot of women (although not all) who like to be tied up also like domination or pain. make sure you discuss it with her to make sure it's ok first.

i suggest whips, nipple/clitoral clamps, love rope, and all around sex toys. probably start with rubber whips first since leather ones are a bit intense and make sure you look up how to properly use one. you can't just swing it around, you can do some serious damage. also with nipple clamps make sure they're ADJUSTABLE. i can't stress that enough. other then that...

it always a nice surprise to be tied up and have your boyfriend whip out a new toy. a strong bullet or pocket rocket is always good.

Start with spankings, biting and hair pulling. These are things you can work into your regular sex easily. If she seems to enjoy them it's time to sit down and talk about the heavy duty shit. This isn't something you can just do safely, you've gotta talk about it first.

Hot wax.
Safety word.
Have fun. :)

i suggest choking her. nothing is quite as empowering as fucking someone whilst cutting off their oxygen supply. just make sure its ok first and remember to let go as dead bodies are fairly difficult to dispose of.

I can't work out whether this is sarcasm or not but she's actually into some light choking.

Fucking awesome.

I miss choking my ex....... (sigh).

Find out if she's into sadism and masochism. My boyfriend and I are heavily into it. One time in the car he bit my nipple pretty hard and I got really turned on, later that evening when we were fairly drunk we discussed what we liked and dove right into it. He slaps me, spanks me, choking me till I pass out, scratches my back till I'm bleeding all over, burns me with cigarettes, candle wax, cuts me with knives, whips me with belts etc, plus more. When you have been mucking around for a bit, after a little foreplay, suggest something to her, she will either want to try it out, or she will say no. Worth a try though.