If there's a girl you can't have it's probably because you think she's too good for you to have her.

Or because she's too bad for you to ever have.

The girl I could have had?

Shes on that america's top dance crew show now....

Donna Hood was her name.

Fuck that though she is 21 and dating her 40 odd year old dance teacher

Same as most of the guys above.

I had her, she was a pretty damn good girl who was a bombshell. Something different about her, she was a sweetheart and she really cared about me and my life. I just blew her off, did drugs, and watched my family fall apart due to all of it's rampant drug use.

I was a dick. Now I think about her everyday. It really makes me sad and sometimes I think I will never get over her. Its been almost 2 years and we dated for a year and 2 months.


Can someone help me change my mindset? I am struggling.

How can a girl be "too good" for a guy? I think any guy can get any girl if he puts his mind to it.

I've never even met a girl who was worthwhile pursuing.

got her =]
only bitch i wouldnt get would be the likes of kim kardashian or adriana lima....

Every girl I ever met.

and bench+curl.

Not so much the girl I could never have, but the one I never approached.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9DIjsEbrmyk

and bench+curl.

Not so much the girl I could never have, but the one I never approached.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9DIjsEbrmyk

I don't see any girls in there.

I've seen you pictures you long haired faggot. Maybe in australia that qualifies as good looking, but hot chicks in america would spit in your face.

How can a girl be "too good" for a guy? I think any guy can get any girl if he puts his mind to it.

That's the point. Are you not so hot with the reading comprehension?

Heck yes, when I was 13, this chick in my class started getting t's'n'a's, and I started masturbating furiously. She was always in the main cast in my masturbation fantasies... She has a kid and a bf now but... Not much else has changed.

Why would you want an arrogant bitch of a girlfriend who goes around thinking she is better than everyone

There's a couple of girls, who I look at and think "Don't be ridiculous, you don't have the social skills to get that girl, she probably has a good looking confident guy chasing her." So I stop myself from ever trying.

Of course there are those girls who I believed I could get with and failed, failed quite miserably. I look at them and get either pissed off with myself or still find them attractive.

The girl you can never have is often one of the most attractive.

On the other hand the girl I thought I could never have is often the one who has come looking for me to shag her.

I've seen you pictures you long haired faggot. Maybe in australia that qualifies as good looking, but hot chicks in america would spit in your face.

I love the way there's a ton of homophobic jock American types on totse who always try and rinse guys for having long hair as "REAL MEN" have short hair. Bollocks. I've got a stoner lion mane on me and I'll shag your mum and your wife.

That's the point. Are you not so hot with the reading comprehension?

haha not today I guess. I'm feeling a bit cold and lonely.

I don't see any girls in there.

lyrics. Listen to them.

I've seen you pictures you long haired faggot. Maybe in australia that qualifies as good looking, but hot chicks in america would spit in your face.

rating boys hot or not is generally a pretty good indication that you're a faggot in australia.. i don't know what kind of faggy games you guys play in the US.

Only on lonely whiskey infused nights.

I'm not hearing those situps!

Not the case in my situation. I went on vacation (to cuba) with some friends and one girl that I really liked, extremely hot... sooo fucking hot, easily a 10 on the hot scale. Blond hair, green eyes, perfect breasts, ass etc etc but thats not the main reason I liked her, plenty of hot girls also came (hell there were beaches full of smokin hot drunk girls), her personality was just awesome. I'm not going to try and describe it because I would do a terrible job, but she was pretty much everything I would want in a girl. I'm a pretty weird/unique/special w/e you wanna call me, but I really only like a very specific type of female personality, not that I don't like other girls, but she just seemed to be the perfect fit. I could tell she also really liked me. We flirted and hung out the entire week. I slept and cuddled next to her most nights. I think she slept in my bed every night actually. We partied and had an awesome time and became friends. We spent pretty much a solid week together, all night through all day. One night we almost hit it off in a different direction if you know what im saying...

But I never had a chance. She had a boyfriend, and it was her first boyfriend. They had been dating for 2 years. He didn't come on the trip. In a way I am kind of glad she remained faithful because it just proved my point, she was really the type of girl I want, but that also depresses me because I know I didn't have a chance and I probably never will. I doubt I will ever see her again. When we got back she went off to college and I haven't seen her since... Its painful because I know we both wanted to hook up badly but it wasn't meant to be. I would really like to see her again even as nothing more than a friend. I think that if I got to know her more I easily could have fallen in love. And that may sound cliche considering my age and situation, but I don't connect well to people. I hate most people... But I really did, and still do, care about her after knowing her for only a week.

To be honest silverfuck, you remind me of her in some ways. As creepy as that may sound... (I can also see some huge differences too.)

I miss that week... I miss her...

There was one, for me. It wasn't the fact that I never thought I could get her, it's the fact that I let her friends being my friends and all of what they would think stop me from ever approaching her like that. Psyched me out, I guess you could say.

Hopefully though, another chance is coming this weekend. And I promise that I will go out of my way to make something happen if there's an opportunity.

...:(

There was this girl in high school who was perfect, not only beautiful and had everything(face,body,tits) but she wasnt a conceited bitch. We made out once, but mostly was in the friends zone and plus she was always into those guys who bossed her around and made her not chill with guys(and she listened), she would sneak around sometimes and I always loved when she did.. I do sometimes think what if and all of that but she seems to be pretty happy now..Come to think of it, if I had a chance right now I would be all over that, shes just one of those girls

I've seen you pictures you long haired faggot. Maybe in australia that qualifies as good looking, but hot chicks in america would spit in your face.

lol okay?

On a side note, on this holiday I've hooked up with like 6 north American girls. They're the easiest of them all. So basically what you're saying is if I cut my hair I'll get more girls? Sweet, thanks for the tip bro.

Why are you browsing my photos? lawl fag.

I've seen you pictures you long haired faggot. Maybe in australia that qualifies as good looking, but hot chicks in america would spit in your face.

I've done a fair bit of travelling in my time and without a doubt, hands down, American girls are the... 'quickest into bed'... Not sluttiest, but they definitely settle for less than other cultures (in my experience).

"Hot chicks in America would spit in your face." Hahahaha. I've never seen the guy but I really doubt it. I'm an Australian and mate, they just love the accent. Don't be angry because you can't get them.

Not the case in my situation. I went on vacation (to cuba) with some friends and one girl that I really liked, extremely hot... sooo fucking hot, easily a 10 on the hot scale. Blond hair, green eyes, perfect breasts, ass etc etc but thats not the main reason I liked her, plenty of hot girls also came (hell there were beaches full of smokin hot drunk girls), her personality was just awesome. I'm not going to try and describe it because I would do a terrible job, but she was pretty much everything I would want in a girl. I'm a pretty weird/unique/special w/e you wanna call me, but I really only like a very specific type of female personality, not that I don't like other girls, but she just seemed to be the perfect fit. I could tell she also really liked me. We flirted and hung out the entire week. I slept and cuddled next to her most nights. I think she slept in my bed every night actually. We partied and had an awesome time and became friends. We spent pretty much a solid week together, all night through all day. One night we almost hit it off in a different direction if you know what im saying...

But I never had a chance. She had a boyfriend, and it was her first boyfriend. They had been dating for 2 years. He didn't come on the trip. In a way I am kind of glad she remained faithful because it just proved my point, she was really the type of girl I want, but that also depresses me because I know I didn't have a chance and I probably never will. I doubt I will ever see her again. When we got back she went off to college and I haven't seen her since... Its painful because I know we both wanted to hook up badly but it wasn't meant to be. I would really like to see her again even as nothing more than a friend. I think that if I got to know her more I easily could have fallen in love. And that may sound cliche considering my age and situation, but I don't connect well to people. I hate most people... But I really did, and still do, care about her after knowing her for only a week.

To be honest silverfuck, you remind me of her in some ways. As creepy as that may sound... (I can also see some huge differences too.)

I miss that week... I miss her...

Ahh, fuck you, fuck you for almost making me cry...:)

Thats cool about the girl, that she did not cheat. I think that gives all women +1.

I say go look for her, not in a creepy way, maybe over the net, i bet she still thinks about that week as well. If you really want something the whole universe will conspire to help you.

To the OP, no, i get what i want. You just have to try really hard:).

I had some girl pickup on be back years ago, i was a chump then and knew nothing about game plus had really no confidence. Only real bad (-) on my resume

The moral standing = DONT GET ELIMINATED!

I had some girl pickup on be back years ago, i was a chump then and knew nothing about game plus had really no confidence. Only real bad (-) on my resume

The moral standing = DONT GET ELIMINATED!

http://www.nasugumi.com/image/blog/20060311_mxc1.jpg

"Hot chicks in America would spit in your face." Hahahaha. I've never seen the guy but I really doubt it. I'm an Australian and mate, they just love the accent. Don't be angry because you can't get them.

I'll have to pretend to be Australian if I ever go to Americksland. I'll make it really ridiculous; talk about life growing up on a kangaroo ranch, how I once had to kill a rabid wombat armed only with a boomerang, etc etc.

I'll have to pretend to be Australian if I ever go to Americksland. I'll make it really ridiculous; talk about life growing up on a kangaroo ranch, how I once had to kill a rabid wombat armed only with a boomerang, etc etc.

I tell you what, they love the English accent even more. If they hear you talking, they would stop you in the street and ask you to say something to them, no joke. And then you can just talk right ol' bollocks to them, as long as you have that accent.

No idea how that works, but it's true.

I tell you what, they love the English accent even more. If they hear you talking, they would stop you in the street and ask you to say something to them, no joke. And then you can just talk right ol' bollocks to them, as long as you have that accent.

No idea how that works, but it's true.

That sounds better. If I spoke 'normally', they'd probably take me for english rather than australian, since i done speak so educated n all, enunciating n shit.

I could create an awesome mix of foppish 19th century gentleman and cockney, with lots of "innits" thrown in. They'd love that shit.

I say dear, I shan't take the escalator but shall fortwith make haste up the apples n pears, innit bangin massiv.

I'm thinking about her now.

Great, huh? :(

thats me down to a science

That sounds better. If I spoke 'normally', they'd probably take me for english rather than australian, since i done speak so educated n all, enunciating n shit.

I could create an awesome mix of foppish 19th century gentleman and cockney, with lots of "innits" thrown in. They'd love that shit.

I say dear, I shan't take the escalator but shall fortwith make haste up the apples n pears, innit bangin massiv.

No wait.. They don't really dig cockney. From my experience, it has to somewhat resemble Queen's English to work.

Edit: Think James Bond.

To be honest silverfuck, you remind me of her in some ways. As creepy as that may sound... (I can also see some huge differences too.)

I miss that week... I miss her...

Hey, no worries. I'll take it as a compliment.

It's too bad that things didn't work out; she sounds like a grade A classy lady.

it happens bro :(, time and reformat lol

it happens bro :(, time and reformat lol

Stop typing "lol" at the end of your ever post, it's annoying and makes you look like a moron.

I'll be one of the first guys in this thread to admit that there were a couple of hot popular girls I wanted in highschool but absolutely never had a shot at due to the fact that I was a loner, nerdy kid with absolutely no game. Luckily, I don't think about them at all due to the fact that my girlfriend now owns them. Hard.

This, on all counts.

The thing about my girl now though, is that at first she was one I couldn't have either. When she first caught my eye, the first week of college, I was stunned by her looks. I wanted to talk to her, but she had her boyfriend with her.

Fast forward a semester, I run into her and we start hanging out, we really hit it off well. I find out her and her boyfriend have broken up, but she put me in the friends zone anyway. I was stuck, it sucked. We flirted here and there, but I always thought she was just joking around, because nothing ever came of it. I could never stop thinking about her or admiring her looks. I settled for hooking up with girls I didn't necessarily like in the meantime. It was not enjoyable. Even when I got laid it was meaningless, not even fun, my mind was always on that one girl, and I always just wanted to leave.

Fast forward again to summer, we decide to take a road trip to the big six flags in NJ and ride Kingda Ka, as we found out we were both roller coaster junkies. She spends the night at my house, we end up making out outside in a killer thunderstorm at 2am, and fell recklessly, madly in love. Turns out she had had a crush on me ever since she met me, but was too scared to make a move. D'oh!
I guess the moral is that the friends zone isn't always what it seems, and a lot of the time you CAN have that girl you are dreaming of.

There's an important distinction to be made here. When a girl puts you in the friends zone, what it implies is that she's decided for one reason or another that you're too much of a faggot and would make an unworthy mate, but that she would like to avoid any hostility that might come with her decision. NOT that she's actually secretly had a crush on you for ages but didn't have the guts to initiate things, etc.

Breaking out of the friends zone, no matter who you are, is almost impossible. Once a girl's made up her mind about you on this issue, there's no changing it, unless you vanish from her life and end up meeting her years later, hopefully after she's forgotten about you. Anything you do immediately after she has friends zoned you will seem transparent to her and is only bound to drive her further away and cause you more emotional pain. Trust me, if she puts you in the friends zone, it's OVER. MOVE on, asap.

You seem like you are the pro on the subject, happened more than once?;)

I dont agree with you. I think you can "break out", (i fucking hate using that term, it feels like i am writing for fucking cosmo) but for that you need to use your head. Hang out with the girl only tet a tet, take her places she has never been(now dont try too hard though) and take little steps, then one evening you will feel that she is ready.

Of course, for that to work you can't be too ugly and have to have self confidence, and most of all you cant believe that there is a thing called "friends zone".

You seem like you are the pro on the subject, happened more than once?;)

I dont agree with you. I think you can "break out", (i fucking hate using that term, it feels like i am writing for fucking cosmo) but for that you need to use your head. Hang out with the girl only tet a tet, take her places she has never been(now dont try too hard though) and take little steps, then one evening you will feel that she is ready.

Of course, for that to work you can't be too ugly and have to have self confidence, and most of all you cant believe that there is a thing called "friends zone".

Of course it's happened to me. It has happened to every guy who's ever had the balls to approach women on a regular basis. Hands on experience, and the fact that I'm just generally knowledgeable on the subject are why I know that chasing a girl who's already made the point that she doesn't want to be with you is a very detrimental idea, especially for someone who lacks experience with women. The very idea of coveting one woman and one woman only is a poor state of mind to be in. It projects a needy, beta-male attitude that will repel women faster than terrible body odor.

Look, I'm not saying that any of these rules are absolute and that there can be no exceptions. Occasionally some chump will catch a lucky break. That's exactly what breaking out of the friends zone is. A lucky break. An anomaly. Once a girl has convinced herself that you aren't boyfriend material, she WON'T just come around. Have YOU ever had a change of heart about the hairy 300 pounds beast of a woman who tries to flirt with you in math class? It can be a difficult proposition for guys to accept, especially since personality and character traits are subjective, whereas an ugly appearance is clearly visible, but the reality is that sometimes you're about as attractive to the girl of your dreams as those whales are to you. C'est la vie. Move on, for your own good.

Just thinking that any girl, is a girl you could never have is what makes me better then you

while your staring at her in class growing a boner over her pretty out of your league face

im the one thats sitting next to her conversating with her and taking her home.

in short, mind over matter.

Yeah, I remember her...

I don't have very many memories of her as a girlfriend, but I do think about her all the time. Just wondering how she is and how her life's going. It doesn't bother me as much as it used to. I guess the only reason I still think about her is because I feel like I left so much unfinished.

Oh well. I was a loser then anyway, probably still am a bit of one.

conversating

Try concentrating instead you stupid fuck.

Just thinking that any girl, is a girl you could never have is what makes me better then you

while your staring at her in class growing a boner over her pretty out of your league face

im the one thats sitting next to her conversating with her and taking her home.

in short, mind over matter.

Sean Connery, is that you?

That sounds better. If I spoke 'normally', they'd probably take me for english rather than australian, since i done speak so educated n all, enunciating n shit.


Then you could take 'em out for some fush and chups aye bro?