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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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2008-10-22, 05:30
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How can this even happen to someone?
My girlfriend goes through way to much loss, its not even fair.
Timeline:
7th grade:
Her close cousin is killed by a drunk driver
Her somewhat close friend hangs himself
8th Grade:
Her best friend, like crazy good friend, blows his brains out on video, she watches it not knowing what it was.
Quote from him "I carved your name on the bullet, I wanted you to be the last thing that goes through my mind"
11th Grade:
Two best remaining Friends die in a car accident from a drunk driver.
Gets an abortion (not anyone elses fault but mine and hers, just adding it)
Her other very good friend accidentaly takes the wrong perscription from his med cabinet, overdoses and dies, yesterday. Just as she was feeling better about the car accident.
How is this possible? What the fuck can you say to someone that goes through this? It just depresses my sooo much when I think about the fact that this happens to people.
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# 2
2008-10-22, 05:32
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
GET. THE. FUCK. OUT...
There's a common denominator here: Her. She has the midas touch, but instead of turning shit to gold she turns them to dead!
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# 3
2008-10-22, 05:45
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
Dude her gay friend said to her this morning "Damn how many of you friends have died, like 3? Fuck I should get away from you!" Shes never talking to him again. That was BEFORE she heard of the OD.
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# 4
2008-10-22, 05:49
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
Maybe she should cry a river.
She's young.
She's (presumably) healthy.
She's obviously not horrible looking, unless you have disgustingly low standards.
She lives in a country where she' assured food, clean water, shelter and the like which is more than can be said for a good 1/3rd of the earth's population.
People die. It sucks, but it happens. And by the law of probability, to some people it will happen to more than others.
Also, this isn't your blog.  |
# 5
2008-10-22, 05:52
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
Fuck, your a faggot.
Plenty of people have seen much worse, shit i think the bitch might be less sensitive and sheltered than you.
Props on the abortion though , absolutely no need to pass on genes like that, do the world a favor and follow the trend.
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# 6
2008-10-22, 05:52
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
Yeah I know its not my blog, I am just baffeled, I have never meet anyone that has gone through this much death of friends. Family members, yeah, but friends never.
Shes doing pretty good, not killing herself and all, however.
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# 7
2008-10-22, 05:55
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
dude she needs better friends
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# 8
2008-10-22, 06:03
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
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True, the most recent one doesnt apply, but generally yeah.
Fucking emo kids, they're decent friends to her, but really putting that shit on the people around you is so pussy. (about the suicide that is)
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# 9
2008-10-22, 06:07
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
life sucks, end of story. its how you overcome the obstacles in it that make it worthwhile. yeah, she may feel like the saddest person in the world right now, but she's gotta pick herself up and go on.
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# 10
2008-10-22, 06:43
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
Big fucking deal.
People die, she should stop picking shitty friends (referring to the asshole with the bullet carving quote), and start making friends who wont kill themselves.
Also, friends killed by drunk drivers: learn to fucking drive. When you see a car coming at you at 110mph+, turn. I've had at least 4 complete drunk off their ass drivers get close to hitting me, but it's called actually paying attention to what is going on around you.
I hate people.
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#11
2008-10-22, 07:14 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
You should kill yourself and continue the tradition.
Have you ever thought.... that maybe.... she's just such a horrible person that she drives everyone to death? Maybe you should ask her this, and if she's ever thought about it. Maybe you should ask her if she wonders if she's responsible for their deaths. While asking, make sure to imply that it is indeed her fault.
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#12
2008-10-22, 07:27 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
Final Destination.
You have to figure out the pattern. Figure out who's next.
Hint: It's you.
*ObZ
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#13
2008-10-22, 07:39 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
If you start thinking about killing yourself or dying in general, come to us OP; we can help.
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#14
2008-10-22, 07:42 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
I have never meet anyone that has gone through this much death of friends.
Say that to all the people in the military who have watched their friends get their legs blown off.....
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#15
2008-10-22, 07:43 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
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Originally Posted by Pink P&ther
If you start thinking about killing yourself or dying in general, come to us OP; we can help.
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#16
2008-10-22, 10:19 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
there are people worse off than her, you might not think it, but there truly are
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#17
2008-10-22, 11:17 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
You're right guys. Sorry to make such a pussyish post, but I've never known, let alone loved, someone going through something like this. It really gets to me when she said shit like "They aren't really gone, are they?" and having to tell her the truth.
If you start thinking about killing yourself or dying in general, come to us OP; we can help.
I don't know if that was supposed to be sarcastic or not lol, but no worries, I'm not suicidal. I haven't been for years.
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#18
2008-10-22, 11:35 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
i think he meant help you commit suicide, knowing half the people here...
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#19
2008-10-22, 13:59 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
It's already been said, but my friend, it seems you're dating The Grim Reaper herself.
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#20
2008-10-22, 14:13 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
You're right guys. Sorry to make such a pussyish post, but I've never known, let alone loved, someone going through something like this. It really gets to me when she said shit like "They aren't really gone, are they?" and having to tell her the truth.
I don't know if that was supposed to be sarcastic or not lol, but no worries, I'm not suicidal. I haven't been for years.
I think it's really cute that he thought Totse was actually concerned that he was suicidal and wanted to help. :)
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#21
2008-10-22, 14:29 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
Get off mah totse and console her. With your penis.
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#22
2008-10-22, 17:38 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
Isn't it obvious?
You need to kill her to stop the curse or you will surely die as well!
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#23
2008-10-22, 17:43 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
that bitch is cursed, run far away, avoid cars and medication.
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#24
2008-10-22, 18:30 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
So I guess I always fucking having to be the voice of sympathy..
OP, just be there for her. Go to thier funerals with her, hold her, let her cry.
This basically happened to me in the span of 6 months once, and I lost it a bit.
If she calls you at 4am crying cause she had a horrible dream and just wants to make sure you are okay, dont get upset.
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2008-10-22, 20:46 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
i think he meant help you commit suicide
I think it's really cute that he thought Totse was actually concerned that he was suicidal and wanted to help. :)
These.
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#26
2008-10-23, 00:41 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
Suicide's for n00bs.
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2008-10-23, 00:51 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
Her best friend, like crazy good friend, blows his brains out on video, she watches it not knowing what it was.
Quote from him "I carved your name on the bullet, I wanted you to be the last thing that goes through my mind"
We've all been in the dumps from a girl...but seriousely. I'd make an emo reference, but you know...he actually did it.
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2008-10-23, 01:12 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
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Originally Posted by w_s_t
My girlfriend goes through way to much loss, its not even fair.
Timeline:
7th grade:
Her close cousin is killed by a drunk driver
Her somewhat close friend hangs himself
8th Grade:
Her best friend, like crazy good friend, blows his brains out on video, she watches it not knowing what it was.
Quote from him "I carved your name on the bullet, I wanted you to be the last thing that goes through my mind"
11th Grade:
Two best remaining Friends die in a car accident from a drunk driver.
Gets an abortion (not anyone elses fault but mine and hers, just adding it)
Her other very good friend accidentaly takes the wrong perscription from his med cabinet, overdoses and dies, yesterday. Just as she was feeling better about the car accident.
How is this possible? What the fuck can you say to someone that goes through this? It just depresses my sooo much when I think about the fact that this happens to people.
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She knows five people who have died. Whooped da fucking do.
I'm not saying her life has been great but maybe yours has been a bit fortunate over the years. People close to me have been dieing since the beginning. Thus is life. All you can do is comfort her, but don't smother her she needs to work through some things solo. |
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#29
2008-10-23, 02:43 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
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Originally Posted by theheadbanger
Fuck, your a faggot.
Plenty of people have seen much worse, shit i think the bitch might be less sensitive and sheltered than you.
Props on the abortion though , absolutely no need to pass on genes like that, do the world a favor and follow the trend.
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please tell me you're sterile. the thought of you reproducing leads me to believe that darwins survival of the fittest theory was incorrect. |
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#30
2008-10-23, 02:53 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
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Originally Posted by w_s_t
My girlfriend goes through way to much loss, its not even fair.
Timeline:
7th grade:
Her close cousin is killed by a drunk driver
Her somewhat close friend hangs himself
8th Grade:
Her best friend, like crazy good friend, blows his brains out on video, she watches it not knowing what it was.
Quote from him "I carved your name on the bullet, I wanted you to be the last thing that goes through my mind"
11th Grade:
Two best remaining Friends die in a car accident from a drunk driver.
Gets an abortion (not anyone elses fault but mine and hers, just adding it)
Her other very good friend accidentaly takes the wrong perscription from his med cabinet, overdoses and dies, yesterday. Just as she was feeling better about the car accident.
How is this possible? What the fuck can you say to someone that goes through this? It just depresses my sooo much when I think about the fact that this happens to people.
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It's possible because she hangs out with a bunch of suicidal weirdos and had unprotected sex. And car accidents are one of the leading causes of death in the entire WORLD, drunk driver related or not. There you go. |
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2008-10-23, 03:01 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
8th Grade:
Her best friend, like crazy good friend, blows his brains out on video, she watches it not knowing what it was.
Quote from him "I carved your name on the bullet, I wanted you to be the last thing that goes through my mind"
That one is pretty intense, but pathetic at the same time.
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#32
2008-10-23, 03:36 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
please tell me you're sterile. the thought of you reproducing leads me to believe that darwins survival of the fittest theory was incorrect.
I like this guy:D
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2008-10-23, 04:16 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
she sounds white trash as hell.
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2008-10-23, 05:20 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
This thread is full of fail.
Not the OP, but the men-children trying to be hard by pretending it's not big deal.
It is a lot of loss, and as for the person talking about the military, that's in no way comparable you retard. Signing up to play soldier is an invitation for death.
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#35
2008-10-23, 10:47 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
yeh emo kids are pretty fucking weird. its sad that our youth is portraying this live beautiful, die young thing. people are like sheep, they're always going to follow groups, i could never fathom why kids wanted to be punk rockers, emo, or goth, or even rockabillys. what is really so appealing about dressing black and being different, these groups represent individuality, yet they all follow into these fades and trends.
it happens though, wrong place at the wrong time. there are people who cause trouble, there are people who seek it, and there are people unfortunate enough to find it. i've only had about one friend die, and maybe known another or two, so i wouldnt know how to deal with it. but it seems to me your gf is a pretty strong person, all she could do to honor her dead friends memories is live healthy, and have a happy life.
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2008-10-30, 22:03 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
Ok, fuck the majority of you.
Her last remaining friend just died of internal bleeding.
He got his girlfriend pregnant, and came to see her to take care of the kid and support her. She wanted nothing to do with him and threatened that if he came near her shed get her new BF to kick his ass. Well he still showed up, and was beat to death.
What. The. Fuck.
I promised her he wouldn't die in the ICU :(
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2008-10-30, 22:18 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
OP, that's nothing. Your girlfriend is a whiny bitch. My mom's dad died when she was 12, 5 years later her older brother died in a freak electrocution accident.
Look at where she is now, making 6 digits amongst NASA. People make what they have for themselves. Not what others make for them. Your girlfriend's going to have to toughen up.
This whole 90s generation don't understand a hard day's work.
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2008-10-30, 22:37 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
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OP, that's nothing. Your girlfriend is a whiny bitch. My mom's dad died when she was 12, 5 years later her older brother died in a freak electrocution accident.
Look at where she is now, making 6 digits amongst NASA. People make what they have for themselves. Not what others make for them. Your girlfriend's going to have to toughen up.
This whole 90s generation don't understand a hard day's work.
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Fuck off, you piece of shit. It's easy for you to say that anonymously, but really would you say that to someone who was going through it? Or someone who knew someone that was?
What the fuck does your fucking moms salary have to do with this? Don't pretend you'd ever be able to deal with it like it was nothing. And compare two events that wouldn't have nearly the same impact as this. |
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2008-10-30, 23:08 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
This whole 90s generation don't understand a hard day's work.
You're mostly right, but there are a few. Your sweeping generalisations expose you as the moron you are. So shut the fuck up, I'm sure it was tough as shit growing up with a parent making six figures and getting all kinds of cool NASA toys and shit.
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2008-10-31, 00:53 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
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Originally Posted by theheadbanger
Fuck, your a faggot.
Plenty of people have seen much worse, shit i think the bitch might be less sensitive and sheltered than you.
Props on the abortion though , absolutely no need to pass on genes like that, do the world a favor and follow the trend.
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Apparently some Afghan who lives near me saw his 2 older brothers get executed when he was 8, that's why they fled to England :/ |
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2008-10-31, 00:57 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
Apparently some Afghan who lives near me saw his 2 older brothers get executed when he was 8, that's why they fled to England :/
An Afgan who I worked with had a dad who was the target of taliban attacks and after a bomb blast in his house walked into his little sisters room to find her in many...many parts all over the walls/floors/roof.
People see some crazy shit. Don't even get my started on the Palestinian dude I met. Fuck. Talk about crazy.
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2008-10-31, 01:25 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
Her last remaining friend just died of internal bleeding.
My troll senses are tingling
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2008-10-31, 03:17 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
An Afgan who I worked with had a dad who was the target of taliban attacks and after a bomb blast in his house walked into his little sisters room to find her in many...many parts all over the walls/floors/roof.
I lol'd
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2008-10-31, 03:20 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
I lol'd
He didn't. When he talked he had an empty stare and his voice just sounded of hate. It was sad to see in some one so young.
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2008-10-31, 03:51 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
Her best friend, like crazy good friend, blows his brains out on video, she watches it not knowing what it was.
Quote from him "I carved your name on the bullet, I wanted you to be the last thing that goes through my mind"
Now that is fucking gay, does that kid listen to shit like H.I.M. or something? Fucking pussy, can't handle reality.
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2008-10-31, 04:59 |
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Re: How can this even happen to someone?
Now that is fucking gay, does that kid listen to shit like H.I.M. or something? Fucking pussy, can't handle reality.
Yeah dude its fucked, I never knew him but I hate him for it. Sure he was passed along a couple foster homes but who gives a fuck, you don't do shit like that to people around you.
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