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At least give him some time to get more comfortable with the idea, don't nag him every time you have sex or some shit.QUOTE]

I don't really think I nag him and I don't think I'm demanding. Yes, I have very strange requests. Yes, maybe I'm just some fucked lil nympho bitch. But I can only be me and my boyfriend knows and appreciates that. We have very open conversations. I just wanted a little understanding on why he says no sometimes. I mean obviously I think my ideas are great, but then again I don't have a dick.

Well, maybe you don't nag him or are demanding. I really don't know, the only things I know about you are in one post.

Anyway.

If you do have open discussions about it and such, that's good. Just realise that some people just aren't comfortable with some things.

And don't discriminate, I have a dick and the ideas don't sound bad to me, but some people are pretty conservative, especially sexually.

Judging by your description of his reactions, don't ever even hint that you want another guy to fuck you and expect him to be okay with it.

is it really that weird?

Yes ripstick, it's rearry that reird.

I will never make that mistake. It took him awhile to agree to letting another woman fuck me. There's no room for an extra penis in this relationship.

if you want to be watched. then get a webcam and give totse a live stream.

^^^ This could be possible. Maybe he'll agree if there isn't an audience directly in the room.

:D

Delivery?

i can't believe i'm hearing this.. totseians bitching at a girl who's just said she gets other girls into bed with her and her boyfriend. is that not just about everyones fantasy?

he should shut it and do as he's told.

Or if he doesn't agree to you using a webcam. just do it anyway for the lolz and for totse

The new political slogan - "Totse first"

Do it. Make it happen

Don't ask him.

You can both win. You can get what you want and he wouldn't care if he didn't know.

-F☺rd

Don't ask him.

You can both win. You can get what you want and he wouldn't care if he didn't know.

-F☺rd

Not to mention , we win as well :D

if u want to be watched by one, then surley thousands would be better?

vids or gtfo

You get him to try new things that a lot of guys probably wouldn't want to do, but when it comes to one thing he doesn't want to do, you're going to basically demand it?

I wouldn't have a problem personally, but I can see why someone would.

Lulz.

I'd find it a little creepy having some guy watching me have sex, probably getting off. What if he whipped it out and started fapping?

Actually, if that happened I'd probably laugh uncontrollably and go flaccid. Disappointment all around.


*ObZ

If he doesn't want to do it, he doesn't want to do it. He has that right. Ask most girls about anal and it's the same scenario. Most guys know to drop it, depending on the reaction. Accept that he has a right to say no.

Or just do it anyway.

I will never make that mistake. It took him awhile to agree to letting another woman fuck me. There's no room for an extra penis in this relationship.

Man, you totally sound like a whore. Hopefully your bf gets rid of your skank-ass.

It's funny how the first half of thread is like "respect his limitations", and as soon as a live feed is considered everyone's like "DO IT DO IT DO IT"

Pics first, I don't want to be scarred for life.

If you want to try new and exciting things, do things that you both can agree on and try not to push each other.

schweet

The world needs more chicks like the OP.

What are your feelings on having someone watch you and your girlfriend have sex? Are most men going to oppose this?

Personally, another bloke in the same room as me whilst I'm shagging my girlfriend is going to get a kicking.

Fuck that for a game of soldiers.

But, still each to their own, it if is something you wish to try and your boyfriend is uncomfortable with it, you may have to abide by his decision.

/2 cents

I've fucked and jacked off on cam countless times but always for women. It'd be the same with having someone watch in person. Women, yeah. Dudes, no. Who would you be getting to watch?

Also, I second the boundaries theory. If he doesn't want to do it, don't push him. Otherwise, he'll just fuck off.

just do it in public, then people can watch you but its not as awkward and forced.

Who would you be getting to watch?



I was thinking another couple.

I was thinking another couple.

Girlfriend swap!

Well most of you have been helpful, aside from the occassional person calling me a whore. But whatever, I've been called worse and technically since I'm asking for more people in my bedroom I am a whore. So no worries.

I'll respect his boundaries like most of you said. I think I may have been pushing him too hard with kink and shit. So no live feed for totse anytime soon. Maybe pictures. Thanks for the input guys.

But whatever, I've been called worse and technically since I'm asking for more people in my bedroom I am a whore.

You are only technically a whore if you take money for sex. If it's free it's cool. :)

Also! I'd like to congratulate you on having been selected for auditions to be featured in the 20th Anniversary Totse 2009 Calendar by the 20th Anniversary Totse 2009 Calendar committee!

All you need to do now for this to go forward is:

a). Sent a photo of yourself to agent008t@gmail.com. It can be any photo at all, no special requirements at this stage. This is purely to see if you're the kind of a model we're looking for. There is competition, but it's not fierce, so no need to worry. :)

b). Choose a month you'd like to represent.

c). Make a stylish photo of yourself, that would associate with the month you've picked.

And that's it! Insta-legendary status on Totse.

You can find out more information about the project here: https://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2165673

Once again, congratulations, and good luck!

At least you admit you are a whore. Thats a start.

I would let your bf know that you wouldnt mind bringing another male into the bedroom, if you knew he would be ok with it. Im sure this is something he would want to know, no matter what.

How about I fuck you and he watches?

edit: I read every post and mine is the most beneficial

The thing is, if you want to slit a pig's throat and have a blood covered, homosexual swingers orgy, all the more power to you. You just need to make sure you're with some one who has similar sexual interests.

You wanting to bring another person into the bedroom doesn't make you bad. Your partner not wanting it and you persisting is what makes you bad.

This, although that's obvious.

It probably makes him feel like he isnt good enough. find better stuff for you and him to do OR leave him and come see me, I'll show you things that you cant even imagine...

Lol, you know who I am, are you who I think you are?

J girl, I didn't even need to know your username to know that this was you.

Do I get to be the other girl?

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Do I get to be the other girl?

not too sure what you're asking captain. you want to watch me have sex or do you want to join in? i'm not sure our friendship is to the point of trading pussy juices yet. make me a mixed cd first then we'll talk.

not too sure what you're asking captain. you want to watch me have sex or do you want to join in? i'm not sure our friendship is to the point of trading pussy juices yet. make me a mixed cd first then we'll talk.

You know me, I take what I can get.

Lol, I'd be happy to just watch. I've only ever watched people having sex once, and it was exciting, not necessarily arousing, but exciting. They were outside by their pool nSpain and she looked like a chick from a porno and was bounching up and down on his willy and her boobies were bouncing. I felt like a total creeper but it was hawt.

:)

Oh, yeah, and good advice. Don't force him to do anything he really isn't comfortable with. Respect his limits and remember that wild filthy kinky sex isn't always the best sex. Sometimes good ole fashion soul rubbing aura touching love humping is pretty dandy and special in it's own way.

It's ok for him to have limits too, I mean some things just don't arouse some people. It doesn't mean that he's a prude necessarily. It just means that whatever, he's not into it.