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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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2008-10-22, 00:15
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I think she's playing hard to get!
As most of you know i met this girl at work and we went out on saturday (dinner, make out at my place, and cuddled, no sex). Here it is:http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2166931
I flirted with her today (put my arms around her, slap her ass, etc) and she smiled when i did but she never flirted back  . I asked her today when i could take her out again and she replied "i don't know" and gave me a really strange look (smiling of course), what's that about? I think she's starting to play hard to get (gotta love them games).
What should my next course of action be? This could possibly be my first relationship, so i need some advice!
On saturday when we were cuddling she asked me to tell her something that she didn't know and i told her i was a virgin (which i am). She looked me dead in the eyes and said "that's kind of hot". Does her knowing i'm a virgin have anything to do with anything?
What do i do next???? 
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2008-10-22, 01:06
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
bump
I would like to have a little input so i can get this shit off my mind!
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# 3
2008-10-22, 01:28
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
Dude; just end it. Find another girl. Right now she's in control. You have to change that! PLEASE listen to me, I know what I'm talking about.
She'll come running back if she really was playing hard to get and probably end up doing you.
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# 4
2008-10-22, 01:34
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
Doesn't sound like she likes you dude.
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# 5
2008-10-22, 01:49
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
Don't listen to these jokers; by the sounds of it she likes you but doesn't want to come on too strong; she probably wants you to take the lead, hence the "I don't know..." comment (if she had a smile on her face when she said it, she's obviously flirting/daring you. So don't ask her if she wants to go out, maybe, sometime...tell her that you're taking her out on Whateverday, be confidant, and watch her be wooed by your assertiveness.
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# 6
2008-10-22, 01:54
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
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Originally Posted by Silverfuck
Don't listen to these jokers; by the sounds of it she likes you but doesn't want to come on too strong; she probably wants you to take the lead, hence the "I don't know..." comment (if she had a smile on her face when she said it, she's obviously flirting/daring you. So don't ask her if she wants to go out, maybe, sometime...tell her that you're taking her out on Whateverday, be confidant, and watch her be wooed by your assertiveness.
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Um, I wasn't joking.
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# 7
2008-10-22, 01:55
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
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Originally Posted by Snail Trail
Um, I wasn't joking.
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So you're just full of shit?
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# 8
2008-10-22, 01:56
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
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So you're just full of shit?
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How isn't my idea good? I've been in this situation and done that exact same thing before. She latched onto me more than ever.
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2008-10-22, 01:58
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
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Originally Posted by Snail Trail
How isn't my idea good? I've been in this situation and done that exact same thing before. She latched onto me more than ever.
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latched onto?
what's that animal called, it lives in the water, and it latches itself onto warm-blooded animals to suck blood from?
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# 10
2008-10-22, 01:59
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
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latched onto?
what's that animal called, it lives in the water, and it latches itself onto warm-blooded animals to suck blood from?
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Leech?
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2008-10-22, 02:00 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
Leech?
fuck can't believe i couldn't recall it for the life of me
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#12
2008-10-22, 02:02 |
ihatesawed_off_pump 
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
WHAT THE FUCK MAN
the other guy is right, she's now in control, and you fail. it wont work out, 99 percent sure.
find someone else and learn from your mistakes
dont listen to these cumdumpster sluts trying to tell you otherwise (silverfuck). they're girls, and girls have no idea what they want or what the fuck they're talking about.
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2008-10-22, 02:06 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
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Originally Posted by ihatesawed_off_pump
WHAT THE FUCK MAN
the other guy is right, she's now in control, and you fail. it wont work out, 99 percent sure.
find someone else and learn from your mistakes
dont listen to these cumdumpster sluts trying to tell you otherwise (silverfuck). they're girls, and girls have no idea what they want or what the fuck they're talking about.
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actually i thought silverfuck had a point here
then again i am also female so i could be biased, maybe you guys are right that she's now in control and it won't work
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2008-10-22, 02:06 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
Trust me, I know her type. I had the displeasure of encountering one two years ago.
They pursue some random new guy every week and bitch about him. They drop hints at you like there's no tomorrow when you're alone and then leave you with blue balls for the rest of the night.
Fuck her, man. And I don't mean that in the literal sense because unless you've got some roofies on hand, it's not happening. Flee right fucking now. Bitches like her are like vampires that suck your time and energy.
In short: you're an emotional tampon.
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2008-10-22, 02:12 |
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DONT WORRY ABOUT IT.
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
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Originally Posted by bonner
Trust me, I know her type. I had the displeasure of encountering one two years ago.
They pursue some random new guy every week and bitch about him. They drop hints at you like there's no tomorrow when you're alone and then leave you with blue balls for the rest of the night.
Fuck her, man. And I don't mean that in the literal sense because unless you've got some roofies on hand, it's not happening. Flee right fucking now. Bitches like her are like vampires that suck your time and energy.
In short: you're an emotional tampon.
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Yea and it doesnt sound like this guy has the power/torque to drive on a girl like this. Really is just making himself/man-kind take a kick in the nutz.
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2008-10-22, 02:15 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
You said the wrong thing.....well for gf material that is. She probably just wants to take your virginity away and think shes a badass.
succubus!
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2008-10-22, 02:47 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
dont listen to these cumdumpster sluts trying to tell you otherwise (silverfuck). they're girls, and girls have no idea what they want or what the fuck they're talking about.
Hey, fuck you, you sack of shit. I've heard too many guys complaining that they can't figure out what girls are thinking, why they do what they do, and how the fuck to deal with them, but when a female tries to lay it out simply for them and the don't like the answer, they get all upset and start busting out the misogyny like it's going to get them laid. If you don't want to know the answer to the question, don't fucking ask it. And calling someone a cum dumpster slut because you don't like their advice is beyond ridiculous. Choke on a bag of dicks you waste of skin.
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2008-10-22, 02:49 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
Hey, fuck you, you sack of shit. I've heard too many guys complaining that they can't figure out what girls are thinking, why they do what they do, and how the fuck to deal with them, but when a female tries to lay it out simply for them and the don't like the answer, they get all upset and start busting out the misogyny like it's going to get them laid. If you don't want to know the answer to the question, don't fucking ask it. And calling someone a cum dumpster slut because you don't like their advice is beyond ridiculous. Choke on a bag of dicks you waste of skin.
That was mean. You should probably apologize. If he kills himself because of that post, you're screwed.
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2008-10-22, 02:52 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
That was mean. You should probably apologize. If he kills himself because of that post, you're screwed.
why would he kill himself? it was a funny read
lol@bag of dicks
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2008-10-22, 02:53 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
why would he kill himself? it was a funny read
lol@bag of dicks
Are you really the girl in your usernotes?
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2008-10-22, 03:02 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
Since you're braindead, I'll make this easy. Fill in the blanks with shit from the parenthesis:
"I want to take you out for _____ (dinner, movie, something specific) on _________ (day). I'll pick you up at _________ (time)."
Do it tomorrow. If it fails, quit talking to her.
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2008-10-22, 03:37 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
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Originally Posted by Fanglekai
Since you're braindead, I'll make this easy. Fill in the blanks with shit from the parenthesis:
"I want to take you out for _____ (dinner, movie, something specific) on _________ (day). I'll pick you up at _________ (time)."
Do it tomorrow. If it fails, quit talking to her.
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I'll do this, it's going to rain tomorrow so im not going to go in (detail shop/car wash) but i'll do it the next day, and if it doesn't work out i'll go on to something else! |
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2008-10-22, 06:22 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
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Originally Posted by Silverfuck
Don't listen to these jokers; by the sounds of it she likes you but doesn't want to come on too strong; she probably wants you to take the lead, hence the "I don't know..." comment (if she had a smile on her face when she said it, she's obviously flirting/daring you. So don't ask her if she wants to go out, maybe, sometime...tell her that you're taking her out on Whateverday, be confidant, and watch her be wooed by your assertiveness.
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WRONG WRONG WRONG! YOU'RE WRONG!!
Don't be a creeper, move the fuck on. |
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#24
2008-10-22, 09:40 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
She is playing.......
She is playing.......
She is playing you for a fool. Either get her in the sack, or just bounce. Maybe some play would suffice, but i doubt she is putting out. Just abort mission.
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2008-10-23, 01:15 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
One more thing, when i see her next i'm going to ask her out to a specific place and time and if she turns me down should i give her the cold shoulder? How should i act? Friendly or not?
thanks for the help!
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2008-10-23, 05:27 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
Hey, fuck you, you sack of shit. I've heard too many guys complaining that they can't figure out what girls are thinking, why they do what they do, and how the fuck to deal with them, but when a female tries to lay it out simply for them and the don't like the answer, they get all upset and start busting out the misogyny like it's going to get them laid. If you don't want to know the answer to the question, don't fucking ask it. And calling someone a cum dumpster slut because you don't like their advice is beyond ridiculous. Choke on a bag of dicks you waste of skin.
hahaha, owned.
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2008-10-23, 08:02 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
hahaha, owned.
I'd agree with him.
The girl is fucking with him, and he's getting fucked.
(oww, it's 4am and the lack of diction hurts my brain)
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2008-10-23, 10:15 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
Hey, fuck you, you sack of shit. I've heard too many guys complaining that they can't figure out what girls are thinking, why they do what they do, and how the fuck to deal with them, but when a female tries to lay it out simply for them and the don't like the answer, they get all upset and start busting out the misogyny like it's going to get them laid. If you don't want to know the answer to the question, don't fucking ask it. And calling someone a cum dumpster slut because you don't like their advice is beyond ridiculous. Choke on a bag of dicks you waste of skin.
first off, i wasn't the one complaining or asking for your advice, that would be the OP
second, it's the internet, no need to get all butthurt over a "cumdumpster slut" comment
sounds like someone has daddy issues
oh, and go make me a sandwich... cocksucking whore
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2008-10-23, 10:19 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
Should i give her the cold shoulder or not?
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2008-10-23, 11:54 |
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Teenage attention whore.
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
girls have no idea what they want or what the fuck they're talking about.
There are no exceptions to this rule.
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2008-10-23, 12:41 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
first off, i wasn't the one complaining or asking for your advice, that would be the OP
second, it's the internet, no need to get all butthurt over a "cumdumpster slut" comment
sounds like someone has daddy issues
oh, and go make me a sandwich... cocksucking whore
Being on the internet doesn't mean you should be rude to people for no good reason.
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2008-10-23, 12:49 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
Being on the internet doesn't mean you should be rude to people for no good reason.
coming from a guy who calls me chink ( i think, not sure. so many ppl call me chink i have lost count of who they are)
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2008-10-23, 13:23 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
coming from a guy who calls me chink ( i think, not sure. so many ppl call me chink i have lost count of who they are)
I've told you twice already that when I choose to call people names, I'm more creative than that.
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2008-10-23, 21:36 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
So should i just not flirt with her anymore but still be nice and not ask her out again?
Next, basically!
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2008-10-23, 22:37 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
This is why I suck. I'd have left it, got drunk, and moved on.
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2008-10-24, 00:23 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
Should i give her the cold shoulder or still be nice in hopes of getting some?
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2008-10-24, 00:52 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
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Should i give her the cold shoulder or still be nice in hopes of getting some?
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Treat her like a guy friend. |
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2008-10-24, 01:14 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
Maybe you could start showing some interesting in your other employees to see if she's still on the ball.
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2008-10-24, 01:20 |
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within the subliminal
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
She does'nt like you, probably. Maybe you had bad breath or something first time you met.
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2008-10-24, 01:42 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
I've told you twice already that when I choose to call people names, I'm more creative than that.
That's still being rude to someone though, which is against your own advice.
Hypocrite much?
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2008-10-24, 01:51 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
That's still being rude to someone though, which is against your own advice.
Hypocrite much?
Where was I being rude?
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2008-10-24, 02:22 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
Where was I being rude?
IF you are being rude to me, you will be going against your own advice.
But you haven't so I guess your fine.
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2008-10-26, 00:25 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
I hope this is a troll. If not, you're a real ass.
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2008-10-26, 00:53 |
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Re: I think she's playing hard to get!
Just go up to her and say " Nice shoes. Lets fuck." I garentee she will be over-powered by your ultimate manliness and give you dome(head) instantly.
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