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I was once exactly like you. Now everything is going more than great for me. I can help if you want. Can you give me a specific situation where you felt like a total failure from the top of your head?

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aww cheer up SHH. :( You don't have any personality defect believe me. In my opinion, no-one has an "unlikeable" personality; you just need to be with the right people. I've gone through stages of being like you in social situations (that awkward silence thing is horribly familiar) but trust me on this: the only difference between you and all those people you feel alienated by is confidence. You just need to find some people who you have things in common with and can get along with instinctively. If you say it could never happen, then it won't. If you tell yourself it could happen, and you go into new social situations free from pessimism, then it can happen. Magic, see? Once you have got used to talking to people and collected some of that magical confidence-dust, you will find it easier to talk to anyone. People who are "cooler" than you, random people on the street, anyone.

If your appearance bothers you so much, then why the fuck not change it? Get some new clothes, a haircut and an obsessive workout regime and you'd be suprised how much better you'd look. If you hate your course then you should quit that, cos things you hate are generally gonna get you nowhere, but that's up to you.

I always thought you came across like a cool guy in your posts, man. You probably just act too nervous, so no-one laughs at your jokes. The key to making people laugh, or doing anything social, is being confident in what you say. So what do you have to do? Shut the fuck up, pull your head out of your ass and go change some stuff. When it comes to humanity lost causes are non-existant, until you're actually completely incapable of movement and speech and can't interact with the outside world.

Here's the deal: If you kill yourself, I'm gonna do the same. I have a life literally crammed full of prospects, and I am happy with a lot of things in it. But your life is worth exactly the same as mine is, in every way. Sooo if you go and jump off a bridge tonight and waste everything you've ever had, I'm gonna go jump off a higher one, just to prove my fucking point.

My msn list is just people who don't like me and dont talk to me. So I must have some severe personality defects.

I like you, your just never online, oh, and i was in the shower before sorry.

Off the top of my head...I was having a smoke with two guys from my class. No one was really saying anything interesting. Then one of them finished his cig and went back inside. Then it was just me and the other guy, he then just looked at me and threw his (half smoked) cig on the ground and walked from me. Leaving me all alone.

Okay I'm going to type this out for you and only you. If you don't do this, I'll be pissed. It's what I did, and it worked, so just try it. Don't read it and think "Meh, screw it, I like being depressed... it probably won't work anyway". Take my shit into action.

First get someone to take a photo of you without your shirt on - just boxer shorts. Don't shower or comb your hair or anything. Just look natural. This is you today. Stick it up on your wall above your desk or something. A place where you'll always see it.

Oh man 1 sec, I'm so baked. Tell me if you want me to go on. I have to do something first.

Okay I'm going to type this out for you and only you. If you don't do this, I'll be pissed. It's what I did, and it worked, so just try it. Don't read it and think "Meh, screw it, I like being depressed... it probably won't work anyway". Take my shit into action.

First get someone to take a photo of you without your shirt on - just boxer shorts. Don't shower or comb your hair or anything. Just look natural. This is you today. Stick it up on your wall above your desk or something. A place where you'll always see it.

Oh man 1 sec, I'm so baked. Tell me if you want me to go on. I have to do something first.
I'm curious....

I'm curious....

Okay so you've got the photo. Does it depress you when you look at it? If it doesn't, then don't read the rest - You have nothing to worry about, and are overreacting.

If it does - why? What things do you hate about yourself? Your weight? Do you have acne? Tell me what you specifically hate and I have solutions to 'em all. I had horrible acne -- all gone in less than three months.

The journalism course you're doing right now. You hate it right? I want to tell you something that you need to remember.

THE PEOPLE THERE ARE RATS!

They're rats in your experiment! They're your "practice" people. Your going to practice your social skills on them -- don't worry about making mistakes. They won't matter soon anyway. Hey tell me if you have any questions or other problems... Sorry I have to keep stopping but some shit is going down in my apartment.

I had horrible acne -- all gone in less than three months.


I'm curious. I used to have bad acne and it took me a lot longer than three months to clear it. How'd you manage that?

every problem you have SHH i have too :( so i can't really tell you what to do.

I like you though, just can't tell who's who when you have multiple accounts

I'm curious. I used to have bad acne and it took me a lot longer than three months to clear it. How'd you manage that?

Accutane! The side effects were worth it. XD

PS: There's lots of different brands. The doctors say they all work the same, but from personal experience, the red ones are stronger/quicker.

Accutane! The side effects were worth it. XD

PS: There's lots of different brands. The doctors say they all work the same, but from personal experience, the red ones are stronger/quicker.

Ah, the Tane. I probably should have just done that. The side-effects seemed a bit extreme. For another thread, anyway. I won't hijack this lad's one.

Go into college drunk (but not to the point where you're stumbling or slurring your words too much) or high, you'll make friends more easily; college is full of wankers and some decent people.

Use the wankers for shit like notes (I take no notes in college at all, just either get the teacher's notes or log on someone else's account and look at theirs and edit them a little bit to be better), this'll give you more time to do the shit you actually enjoy doing o to have more of a social life. I do no college work AT ALL, other people are pretty much doing it all for me, I'm gonna cheat the tests when they come anyway.

Cheating your way through college is fun in itself and gives you more time to socialize and have fun (while drunk and high). Also mix with your own kind and social groups, example: if you're white don't hang around with a group of pakis or niggers, yeah socialize with them when you have to but don't stick with them, you'll hate it.

Seriously just go out though, join a boxing club or some shit where you'll meet other people.

Don't look to be funny and don't think too much, it's like when you go into town on a Friday looking for pussy, it's more likely to happen if you don't go looking for it and don't care if you get it. You'll be more funny if you're not even intending to be funny.

For work just offer to do voluntary labour work and just get on with it, seriously just do it, even if they think you're weird they won't give a shit as long as you work hard. They may take you on and start paying you later as well; voluntary work looks good on a CV/resume as well.

Maybe you should replace your computer chair with a treadmill, so you're walking while using it. Posting pictures of yourself nude for lots of girls online would help you to be more comfortable with how you look. A lot of girls aren't as picky as you might think but you'll need to include your face in the pictures. You're bound to find one that's attracted to you. You may even find hot ones that are attracted to you. It can happen, girls are weird. You can be like Kip from Napoleon Dynamite. Trying to be funny is a bad idea but developing some special skills might help.

I'm curious. I used to have bad acne and it took me a lot longer than three months to clear it. How'd you manage that?

Mine went away after I cut all meat/dairy out of my diet. You'd also be healthier and lose some weight if you munch on veggies, fruit, rice, and beans/tofu. Then again no one wants to hear my vegan rants.

Back on topic. It's really not that important to have a huge social network to be happy. I have millions of friends, girls seem to like me, and I'm super fit. It all feels fake, I'm still depressed as fuck, a junky, and I always feel like I'm annoying people.

How can they not hire you because of your personality? Maybe try going to a place where they hire just about anybody (McDonalds) for a little bit just to get around people with so called "social problems" like yourself.

I don't know what else to say. Just try to use your extra time to better yourself, and stop worrying about other people who care about nobody but themselves.

Btw for acne just get some Oxytetracycline 250mg; works perfectly along with some Clearasil face wash.

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STOP FUCKING SMOKING WEED YOU STUPID FUCK IT CAUSES DEPRESSION AND MAKES YOU THINK EXACTLY HOW YOU ARE THINKING RIGHT NOW.

I haven't smoked weed in about a week and I've only felt worse since then.

You have curly hair? I see only one option - dreadlocks.

No matter how fugly or ghey you are, people ALWAYS like people with dreadlocks and with your curly hair it should be piss easy for them to form by themselves.

I haven't smoked weed in about a week and I've only felt worse since then.

...and i didn't even know you smoked weed.

Moving on, I'm also very unattractive. I'm over weight, have curly hair and am very pale. I always look tired and have those black shadows under my eyes. I'd post a picture, but I know I'll just quickly regret it.

actually curly hair and pale skin are very hot

or Retisol (tretonoin? forgot the name)

it's prescription only tho

dont try and be funny
dont think a lot, thinking is bad, thats why your in college, so you have something to think about

dont try and do anything, dont have expectations, thats where you get into trouble, if you have expectations and dont meet them you feel like a failure, make your expectations things like finishing school and getting a job, dont set social goals because trying to make friends and trying to get a girlfriend will happen naturally

what else

if you dont like your curly hair then cut it, lose weight, i find weed to be a good appetite controller as long as when your really baked you can make yourself stop eating