how do i get what i want and the way i like it without making him feel inadequate? Ladies and Gents i need your help. i just cant bring myself to tell him how i like it because i think that he will feel like he is not enough.

Well, what do you want and how does it affect him?

Well, I imagine your a woman, who wants her man to do something specific in bed.

So, for one you could just take control if it's a position that you could get into.

Or you could just tell him. If my girl wanted me to do something in bed, I would want her to tell me, and she does. It doesn't make me feel inadequate, because I want to please her as much as I want her to please me.

You might want to be a little more specific, we're all adults here.

I don't see why girls ever feel like this. As long as you're not telling him he's inadequately sized or you want a 3-some with another guy involved, you won't offend him. Guys love to get tips and told what their girl likes, I hate that they see advice as a bad thing. Just tell him exactly what you want and how you want it and he'll be happy, because he'll be pleasing you.

Sex.

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well first off, he hasnt had much experience prior to being with me, and i on the other hand have a bit more than him. i want him to finger me but he doesnt feel comfortable doing it because he doesnt know what he is doing. i have tried to help him before and he gets upset and just wants to stop all together. and then the other thing is i love dirty talk like really dirty and the last time i did that during sex he got all weird and just ended our session right then and there

Tell him "do it like this if you wanna make me whirl" or something.

If he seriously gets hurt over something that petty, find someone else. Otherwise this will be permanent.

That's like basic internet sex info. Two fingers + palm up + come hither motion. As for dirty talk, that might be bringing him outside his comfort zone. Get him drunk/stoned and he'll do it, after that it'll be like second nature to him no matter how sober.

Haha, sounds like you're dating an eleven year old.

Tell him to stop being a pussy would be my advice.

He believes he is inferior cause you have more experience. It's a shame, i'm afraid the answer to this is not nit picking semantics, but spiritual, access to the now, opening the heart. All these things. Oh.. and Arrogance.

Cut his dick off and fuck yourself with it if he's too pussy to do it right or goes cold too easily.

BTW what do you look like?
That may be the problem he has, post a pic with tits and vagoo showing and I'll be able to advise you further and seriously.

take his hand and put it where it should be.

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Wait for the right moment and then try: "Hon, you're a little large, y'know? Larger than my last boyfriend. Us girls need to be loosened a bit before we can take a big cock comfortably. You need to use your finger first"

In your own words of course but by hinting he's large, larger than your last, then you've put him in the right frame of mind. Men can be incredibly easy to manipulate at times.

Oh and if he isn't that large then just say "wide".

Have you tried asking him, "what's up?"

Fuck, I'm good.

But srsly, something unusual is afoot if he acts so weird about these sorta things.