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Old 2008-10-21, 00:49
OxyDust OxyDust is offline
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For people not following my situation, i met this girl at my work and we both like each other. I took her out saturday night and went to dinner and then back to my place. We made out and cuddled for 8 hours but nothing more. When i saw her today i tried to kiss her and she gave me the cheekMad. She said that she doesn't want to do that at work because she doesn't want people talking. Should i try and be more assertive or not?

I'm just starting to get into the dating game and need some advice! I asked her today if she wanted to play some pool/mini golf tonight and she said that she had to clean her room because it was really dirty. I told her that i would call her tonight but i don't know if i should. Should i call her or not?

We still flirted which each other today but i didn't get to kiss her. How should i act tomorrow when i'm around her? Should i try and set up another date? What do i do if she turns me down?
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Old 2008-10-21, 01:05
ihatesawed_off_pump ihatesawed_off_pump is offline
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don't call her

when you see her at work, be playfully mean/flirty but dont talk to her too much, and don't even mention hanging out again, see how she reacts to that

the first few weeks of dating, it's always mindgames
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Old 2008-10-21, 01:10
callumpimp callumpimp is offline
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jesus christ i hate that shit...........just be friendly polite and a bit cheeky.....there u go u win.
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Old 2008-10-21, 01:21
OxyDust OxyDust is offline
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I'm not going to call her anymore and i'm not going to ask her out again for a WHILE.

I really pisses me off how we make out and cuddle for 8 hours but then i can't even get a kiss when i see her. It's not like i couldn't take her some place where no one is around!Mad
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Old 2008-10-21, 03:11
reborn thief reborn thief is offline
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how old are you guys that she has to clean her room?
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Old 2008-10-21, 03:15
wallstreetshuffle wallstreetshuffle is offline
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Follow your cock!

She appears to care about what others think, time will tell, stick around, tell us how it goes, i feel that things will work out for you though.
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Old 2008-10-21, 03:20
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Originally Posted by OxyDust
I'm not going to call her anymore and i'm not going to ask her out again for a WHILE.

I really pisses me off how we make out and cuddle for 8 hours but then i can't even get a kiss when i see her. It's not like i couldn't take her some place where no one is around!Mad


Retard. You don't do that shit at work, you do it when you're in private. If you end up dating for a while, it will be fine at work. For now, don't be stupid. If she doesn't want it anywhere at work, leave it at that. Take her out after work instead.
 
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