So I'm a virgin at 18. Seriously, is it such a big deal? The people that I talk to, it seems like as soon as they find out I'm a virgin they completely negate my opinion on any matter, because I'm just that immature virgin. People bring it up all the time, even on matters that aren't related to sex and I really don't understand it. At first I just played it off as if I didn't care, because it really wasn't a big deal to me, but now it almost seems like a big deal just because everyone is making it out that way. Every time the people I'm talking with bring up sex or anything sex-related (being 18, that's 50% of all conversation I hear), I become completely uncredible and basically have to shut the hell up for fear of being labeled as "oh he's a virgin; he wouldn't even know".

Has anyone gone through something like this?

You're a virgin, what do you know about sex other than what you've heard/read?

So I'm a virgin at 18. Seriously, is it such a big deal?

Fuck yeah it is

Lol, pwnt.

Get a hooker.

I think it's more of a big deal for women, after I started having sex my inner sex goddess came out and I grew up a lot. My physical appearance also became more sophisticated and sexy.

Pre-sex, I was kind of homely.

I have a friend who's a virgin at 27. Shit, I can't even begin to imagine how he feels. All because he's fat and sort of weird looking with a big head. On the other hand, he's extremely intelligent, accomplished and funny as all hell to be around. Always has an opinion on everything.

It pains me that someone so cool isn't able to find himself a piece of ass. Don't be like my friend. Lose that cherry and be quick about it.

It depends if it's by choice or not. Seriously though girls can be very shallow if not more than guys.

I said i was a virgin one day and people were surprised. i then lost it to a girl who overheard. Im confident like carl creative like kyle.

It just means that you've closed yourself off to a part of life. You're inexperienced in a facet of life and there are very few good reasons for a person not to have had sex.

Virgin bullshit

Fixed.

You must have some shitty friends. I WAS a virgin when I was 18 but lost it about 2 months in. I mean I would get the occasional 'lulz your a virgin' from my friends if I was arguing with them but if it had nothing to do with the subject it usually wouldn't be brought up. But then I decided I would quit being a bitch and I found some slut to fuck me. It was super easy.

^This. Pretty similar for me too.

It really is that you're just inexperienced at this part of life. No big deal. Don't get too wound up about it.

Man, who cares. I waited til I was 21 and in a good relationship with a girl I knew was CLEAN and not going to end up preggo. It's better to be safe and enjoy your first time than get drunk and fuck a random girl with nastiness all between her legs. Don't be pressured by jackass friends like all the other little conformist kiddies out there. Just do your own damn thing and never conform to societal/cultural expectations.

It's okay, you're not missing anything.

Jerking it probably feels better anyway.

When I was 18 few of the people I knew my age range had had sex. So, it didnt really get brought up. Oh well

Okay I'm going to give you some advice, that if you listen to, will make you so fucking appreciative of me. Seriously.

Okay, I'm a PUA and first let's start with kino...

Just kidding, that shit is retarded.

Real advice: lose your virginity to someone you care about. Yeah, sounds gay as fuck, I know. I'm a pretty normal guy, I have NO problem with one night stands, I'm not a romantic at all - nearly everyone that knows me well, knows me as the 'lovable asshole who's really just an asshole'... but I deeply fucking regret losing my virginity to some cumdumpster slut. Sure, it got things over with and it's not like I had a bad experience, but...

I don't know how to explain it. Just lose it to someone who matters, you'll have plenty of opportunities for meaningless sex later on in life. You'll thank me later for that one.

So what youre basically saying is, youre a whore.

seriously, do this, there are so many sluts you will encounter...


i wanted to pull tonight....not fot the sex, but just so that i could get a confidence boost on "taking over" a random girl in one night. I could just walk for 1 minute to some girls room and fuck her......right now....but i dont want to....why? because its not just about the sex which gets people off.

So what youre basically saying is, youre a whore.

Nope, I am saying that from a women's point of view, sex is an element of one's self that comes with some maturing. If you are ready for sex, you are ready to mature that part of yourself. My sexual history is actually quite surprising giving the experience I've gained, I've had 2 partners total.

What I am saying is that when you start having sex, you learn what sex appeal is. Basically.

^So you like the cock?