So me and this girl hooked up once at my friends house while we were kicking back. She didn't say much but i didnt think anything of it. I got her number and a month later her best friend started working with me so us two are close now. I haven't see this girl in a while but have stayed in contact, last night she sent me a message to see what i was doing. I told her to come to the beach because me and a few mates were drinking.

So her and her friend come and the thing is i can talk to this girl's friend just fine. But when i try to talk to her she seems bored, inattentive and cold. And i don't know why. When I ask her something she will give my one word answers and the like. Now I wqould understand this if if she had no interest at all but than why would she meet up with me.

Any help guiz?

her friend convinced her to go, and she felt like getting ill anyways

You know how there are awkward guys who would do what she's doing? There are probably girls who are really awkward to be around as well.

What do your mean by "stayed in contact"? Do you mean texting twice a week, talking on the phone every night, emailing? What?

I mean just chatting on msn and the occasional message. She came over to my house once in this period and came out with my friends, same demeanor.

Call it quits with this girl, she's not interested. Is her friend that you work with hot?

Go for the friend.

Sometimes shy people come across like that, and they don't know they're doing it. You should just ask her if shes intreted in you or whatever and find out. She can't beat around the bush then. Or go with her friend, whichever one of better looking.

period

lol :)