You sound like a fucking whore, first you bitch at people for trying to help you 'get a man to like you' now you're saying this.

Have fun with your shitty life.

I can't have both?

If I was married I'd like to think I wouldn't.

I'd also not immediately ditch anyone I was with in a long term relationship, it'd be rather unfair. I'm pragmatic, I'd have to see how I felt at the time.

Maybe if you weren't so ugly (and asian), you'd find a man who likes you for who you are.

the grass is always greener on the other side, as soon as you go over you'll probably find that he is actually a small-penised goatfucker. but how is this an issue for you WAN you should take what you can get

/thread

I would never trust you as a person. One, you dream of being a prostitute/golddigger (same thing) And you would ditch someone just because you think your more compatible with someone else. What kind of friend/girlfriend would you ever measure up to be. Its not like you have money or live on your own. And i dont even know if your hot. What do you have going for you? Personality? i dont think so.

This.

When you're in love, there's no "better". You already have the best.

This about sums it up.

When you're in love, there's no "better". You already have the best.

I don't know about that. Sure, if you love someone they might be the best for you at that time, but then someone who is in every way better comes along. If you're dealing with a highly romanticised, highly media influenced view of love, then sure, what you're saying is probably accurate.

But just because you love someone doesn't mean they're the best.

And just because they're the best doesn't mean you'll love them.

Because at the end of the day, they're just a person, just as fallable as anyone else, and just as changing as anyone else. Who you love today you might not love tomorrow. That's all I'm trying to say. So the idea of love as this once only miraculous event (which it might feel like) I think is flawed in a lot of basic ways. Just look at the divorce rate, and most of those people were probably in love when they got married.

If loving someone meant they were the best, it would mean that love would last at least your lifetime, or close to it. Because if you love them and they love you, then you're the best for each other and surely that means you shouldn't live apart from one another.

So I don't think that when you're in love you already have the best. You have something that you love, sure, and this doesn't necessarily justify ditching them when Partner v2.0 comes along, but I just cannnot agree.

A promise is a promise. You're fucking married, deal with it.

Though I do think that it is possible to be in love with more than one person.

I can understand some of the New Arrival and Accolate's responses posts in this thread, but how can some of you Regulars not have well recognised WAN as being nothing more than a TROLL here on &totse?

A little, ugly 12 y/o boy troll at that.

Shame on you, and shame on me as well for tossing yet one more crumb under the bridge.

Let this stop... NOW !!!

Love is not a business contract. You don't leave because someone makes you a better offer.

Also, why does WAN still get serious responses?


*ObZ

Umm, if you're truly in love with someone, someone better wont come along, because the best person is the person you're already with.

Besides, you can't tell someone is "more compatiable" with you from meeting them and deciding it, it takes a long time to "know someone".

Also, why does WAN still get serious responses?


That's because my topic is debate-worthy.

It doesn't matter if i am a troll, as long as (some of) my posts are quality, people will responde.

It's pretty simple, people do this all the time for instant gratification. They have loved someone for years and still enjoy them greatly, but meet someone slightly better for 2 weeks and suddenly think they are better. Never do they take long-term considerations into play. Likely you had the same exciting feelings at first with your current partner and these new, exciting feelings for this new person would eventually fade a bit too. People really underestimate how hard it is to love and enjoy someone in the long-run, are you willing to risk what you've already found for something that is very unlikely to work out in the long haul? Not I.

Poligymy!

Shame on you, and shame on me as well for tossing yet one more crumb under the bridge.

..i'd rather you all kept responding to it so i could keep laughing..