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Old 2008-10-19, 01:51
Chichi Chichi is offline
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So like, I'm with this girl now who is quite attractive and she's got a bunch of other guys after her, so it's kind of annoying at times. Like they tell her shit about me that's not true so she'll hate me and fuck them etc. So yeah it's becoming a worry, but I realized that what sets me apart from these other guys is that I loved her before she was hot, you know? She used to be nerdy ad have braces and shit, and I still liked her then, despite being higher in the popularity pyramid (which I'm now at the bottom of for being an emo kid lulz). Anyway none of this is making any sense.

TL;DR: Will she stay with me because I liked her before she was hot, or does that not mean shit?
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Old 2008-10-19, 02:35
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So like, I'm with this girl now who is quite attractive and she's got a bunch of other guys after her, so it's kind of annoying at times. Like they tell her shit about me that's not true so she'll hate me and fuck them etc. So yeah it's becoming a worry, but I realized that what sets me apart from these other guys is that I loved her before she was hot, you know? She used to be nerdy ad have braces and shit, and I still liked her then, despite being higher in the popularity pyramid (which I'm now at the bottom of for being an emo kid lulz). Anyway none of this is making any sense.

TL;DR: Will she stay with me because I liked her before she was hot, or does that not mean shit?
Yeah, I hate that kind of thing too, when you are with a chick and this other dude comes and throws her the wire, tries to steal her...

Look up, straighten your back, raise your chin, look the guy in the eyes and tell them in an aggressive (not violent though, just to make your position clear) to leave your girl alone.

Also, as you do it, walk close into the guy while you look at him in the eyes. It is very important that you dont look away until he leaves, that you walk into him quickly and keep your tone of voice. You gotta make him know his stepping into a war zone and it is a matter of seconds before he gets shot.

and about what to say, leave it clear that she is YOUR girl and that you know what kind of cheap shit he is and what he is trying to do (get laid).
Walk straight into him, head up high, body tense, back straight, deep voice, staring into his eyes and say something like:

What do you want with my girl?

-or simply-

What the fuck do you want?

he may try to say he just wants to talk or something, then you say

We two are busy, piss off.

-or-

She doesnt want to talk to you.

Remember -eye contact, walk him up close until your almos touching him (this makes it clear it is YOUR space), it will intimidate him.

Now, this might get you into a fight sometime, but stay cool, these guys are always cowards. Still, if you know how to fight or you are confident with your strength, it is a big help.
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Old 2008-10-19, 02:40
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Default Re: Would girls see value in this?

First off tell her this and establish some trust. Then kick the guys ass who is spreading bullshit. Thats what I do. But then again, I might be serving some time, so decide for yourself.
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Old 2008-10-19, 02:44
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If you won't get tried as an adult whoop his ass.

Otherwise ignore it, the guys just self conscience.
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Old 2008-10-19, 02:55
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Don't worry about why she likes you, if you do you're gonna start ruining it. Just relax man. If you're really at the bottom of the social pyramid, then she obviously likes you for who you really are, probably not because you liked her before she moved up. If you think about it, liking someone because they liked you a while back when things were different is a terrible reason. There's gotta be something keeping her with you.

As for the guys getting all up in your business, for the most part, just ignore them. Until you really feel comfortable with her to assert that she's yours, by doing the whole public cuddle hold hands, etc, you're gonna have to trust her to not go all crazy. If you're a new couple, people will probably stop hitting on her when things have solidified.

Just relax, be with her, don't think about why.
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Old 2008-10-19, 03:25
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stick with Valentine Smith and me. We know what we are telling you.

Be confident. the girl likes you and she doesnt care what those fuckers say, but you gotta establish some authority and put those douchebags back behind the line.
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Old 2008-10-19, 03:31
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Everyone above me has misunderstood the question and given shitty advice.

If she stays with you it will be because she likes you, not because you liked her before she was hot. If she genuinely cares about you as a person and a partner rather than a guy who paid attention to her when she had low self-esteem, you'll have no problems holding onto her. However, if she just liked the attention she got from you when she wasn't getting it from other people, she's probably going to ditch you as soon as she gets a chance. It has nothing to do with you, or how you've treated her, or what value you have; what does matter is all that time she spent being nerdy and not getting male attention, and now that is considered hot property and can have her pick of any guy, chances are she's going to want to exercise her new-found hotness on guys who are higher up on the social food chain than you are. It sucks, but it happens.
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Old 2008-10-19, 03:39
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girls do not find value in emos. just give up
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Old 2008-10-19, 03:41
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Everyone above me has misunderstood the question and given shitty advice.

If she stays with you it will be because she likes you, not because you liked her before she was hot. If she genuinely cares about you as a person and a partner rather than a guy who paid attention to her when she had low self-esteem, you'll have no problems holding onto her. However, if she just liked the attention she got from you when she wasn't getting it from other people, she's probably going to ditch you as soon as she gets a chance. It has nothing to do with you, or how you've treated her, or what value you have; what does matter is all that time she spent being nerdy and not getting male attention, and now that is considered hot property and can have her pick of any guy, chances are she's going to want to exercise her new-found hotness on guys who are higher up on the social food chain than you are. It sucks, but it happens.
Don't tell me I give bad advice woman! The answer is ALWAYS fighting. Always! Look it up (see WW1 and WW2).
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Old 2008-10-19, 04:31
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girls do not find value in emos. just give up
No you fooooool.

Everyone here is emo. Me, the girl and the guys trying to hit on her. The only difference is I used to be topshit, now I'm not. And she used to be nerdy, now she's a hot emo (LOLOL OXYMORON).

But yeah one of the dudes has fucked off already. There's like two to go.
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Old 2008-10-19, 04:39
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Default Re: Would girls see value in this?

Everyone above me has misunderstood the question and given shitty advice. .

This.


if she just liked the attention she got from you when she wasn't getting it from other people, she's probably going to ditch you as soon as she gets a chance.

And this.

No matter how much you care about a girl, 99.999999999% you've gotta be focused on your own interests.

Welcome to humanity.
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Old 2008-10-19, 04:45
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First off tell her this and establish some trust. Then kick the guys ass who is spreading bullshit. Thats what I do. But then again, I might be serving some time, so decide for yourself.


I swear that every post ive seen by you today, in no matter what forum, has had something to do with fighting people.
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Old 2008-10-19, 04:47
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When I get high I get high on speed!!Top fuel funny car's. A drug for me.
My heart, my heart. Kickstart my heart!!!

...


When i'm enraged
Or hittin' the stage
Adrenalin rushing
Through my veins
And i'd say we're still kickin' all that mother fuckin' ass
 #14 
Old 2008-10-19, 04:57
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Oh I get it Motely Crue lulz.
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Old 2008-10-19, 05:00
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Default Re: Would girls see value in this?

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Originally Posted by Stinky Spic
When I get high I get high on speed!!Top fuel funny car's. A drug for me.
My heart, my heart. Kickstart my heart!!!

...


When i'm enraged
Or hittin' the stage
Adrenalin rushing
Through my veins
And i'd say we're still kickin' all that mother fuckin' ass


Are you interested in Knocking people dead...Kid?
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Old 2008-10-19, 05:09
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Are you interested in Knocking people dead...Kid?

Now that you've brought it up, beating someone to death with my fists has been a ... well... I kinda wanna say fantasy... but that doesn't sound right. I wanna beat the shit out of some people to the point where they never look the same again, if thats what your asking. But these people deserve it, trust me, im like batman. I only pick fights with bullies.

Theres some people I know (that are notorious for brutally jumping younger kids), that I would LOVE to be trapped in a room with. I would do such horrific things to them, if I even talked about it you would probably be repulsed. Just a side note, I know quite a bit of martial arts, both standing and on the ground, but I wouldn't even use that once they were dominated. ie, I would Knock someone out, get top mount and, well I'm not even gonna say cuz youll think im insane. But yeah, some people deserve to have terrible things done to them. Like guys that randomly jump a 100 pound kid for no reason. It infuriates me knowing that shit happens.

And I've been drinking tonight, thats why I'm talking about fighting more than usual.
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Old 2008-10-19, 05:31
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Now that you've brought it up, beating someone to death with my fists has been a ... well... I kinda wanna say fantasy... but that doesn't sound right. I wanna beat the shit out of some people to the point where they never look the same again, if thats what your asking. But these people deserve it, trust me, im like batman. I only pick fights with bullies.

Theres some people I know (that are notorious for brutally jumping younger kids), that I would LOVE to be trapped in a room with. I would do such horrific things to them, if I even talked about it you would probably be repulsed. Just a side note, I know quite a bit of martial arts, both standing and on the ground, but I wouldn't even use that once they were dominated. ie, I would Knock someone out, get top mount and, well I'm not even gonna say cuz youll think im insane. But yeah, some people deserve to have terrible things done to them. Like guys that randomly jump a 100 pound kid for no reason. It infuriates me knowing that shit happens.

And I've been drinking tonight, thats why I'm talking about fighting more than usual.

You should go to the cities by night, where all those drunk, thugs try to get into fights.

Where I live, guys around my age group have found glory in being in "gangs" and dressing "hiphop" and picking fights. It's pretty gay, I want to lead a horde of madenned headbangers armed with molotovs and battons to end the trend.

By the way, I wasnt really asking if you wanted to knock people out, I was hinting at another motley song.
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Old 2008-10-19, 06:07
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No you fooooool.

Everyone here is emo. Me, the girl and the guys trying to hit on her. The only difference is I used to be topshit, now I'm not. And she used to be nerdy, now she's a hot emo (LOLOL OXYMORON).

But yeah one of the dudes has fucked off already. There's like two to go. Mad

I already told you. Maybe you dont still get it because you are emo. Im not trying to get you off that wave, I respect your free will, but sometimes you have to show some POWER. Im still not saying you have to fight. just follow my first post, It might get you into a fight or it might not, but you have to show supremacy over those two fools.

Now, about the fight, you love your chick, dont you? you want to keep her and protect her nice person and hot, cute fine body (i suppose thats how she is) right? Sometimes you have to fight. Sad and scary but true. humans are still animals and sometimes they will just not listen to reason. what is left? instinct. Which instincts? Violence and Fear. You have to show violence to make them fear, then they will respect you and your chick (respect is brought by two things, reason and fear).

There wont be any better help than this. Just do as I tell you and thank me later.
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Old 2008-10-19, 06:54
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I already told you. Maybe you dont still get it because you are emo. Im not trying to get you off that wave, I respect your free will, but sometimes you have to show some POWER. Im still not saying you have to fight. just follow my first post, It might get you into a fight or it might not, but you have to show supremacy over those two fools.

Now, about the fight, you love your chick, dont you? you want to keep her and protect her nice person and hot, cute fine body (i suppose thats how she is) right? Sometimes you have to fight. Sad and scary but true. humans are still animals and sometimes they will just not listen to reason. what is left? instinct. Which instincts? Violence and Fear. You have to show violence to make them fear, then they will respect you and your chick (respect is brought by two things, reason and fear).

There wont be any better help than this. Just do as I tell you and thank me later.

I'm not scared to fight, they are. That's the problem; they never do shit when I'm there, so I can't call them on it. And the one who stopped didn't just leave her alone on his own accord, I fucking made him. Just clearing that up.
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Old 2008-10-19, 06:59
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Girls dont give you any credit for what you did in the past. They examine only their current situation when thinking about who to be with.

Eventually she will leave you for someone who is more advantageous to be with. You have to be the best person for her to be with.

She'll feel guilty as hell while she's breaking up with you since you loved her while she was a fatty, but that wont stop her from actually breaking up with you.

What may happen is that shell leave you, be with someone else, and hell treat her like shit after dogging her real good. Then she'll come crawling back.

ugh used merchandise.

Hopefully for you she's not that type of girl.
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Old 2008-10-19, 07:02
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Stick with everyone except Silverfuck and Motley Crue, screw those guys, or anyone who agrees with them. They're all closet homos anyway, and they're all playing seven minutes in heaven with eachother.

Stay with her man, even if you end up getting hurt, you're gonna regret it more if you don't get involved.

Beat the fuck out of anyone who comes near her. Nobody threw a punch in the Cold War, and look how much that fucked everyone over. Challenge people until they hit, and if they don't, fuck it you won anyway.
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Old 2008-10-19, 08:27
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the popularity pyramid (which I'm now at the bottom of for being an emo kid lulz).

OWNED!

Cheer up emo kid. :)
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Old 2008-10-19, 09:05
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Stick with everyone except Silverfuck and Motley Crue, screw those guys, or anyone who agrees with them. They're all closet homos anyway, and they're all playing seven minutes in heaven with eachother.

Stay with her man, even if you end up getting hurt, you're gonna regret it more if you don't get involved.

Beat the fuck out of anyone who comes near her. Nobody threw a punch in the Cold War, and look how much that fucked everyone over. Challenge people until they hit, and if they don't, fuck it you won anyway.


Didnt say that he couldnt get her now, said that shit he did in the past probably wont be accounted for, you know, directly answering the question he asked rather than jumping ahead of the game and telling him to "fuck them up and win her over".

I think he's made it pretty clear that he's capable of doing that already.
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Old 2008-10-19, 10:38
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OWNED!

Cheer up emo kid. :)

Yeah I didn't make that very clear either.

Yes, I'm considered an emo kid, but so is everyone else who is a part of this problem, and I'm still above them in the pyramid. "Hot" doesn't equal "popular".

But that's not even important...:(
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Old 2008-10-19, 10:41
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First off tell her this and establish some trust. Then kick the guys ass who is spreading bullshit. Thats what I do. But then again, I might be serving some time, so decide for yourself.


Good idea...But he's an emo.

OP...Do you trust her?
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Old 2008-10-19, 11:00
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Good idea...But he's an emo.

OP...Do you trust her?

Oh my gawd. The guy who I told to stay the fuck away from her has a black fringe and a lip ring. I am MASCULINE. Mad

And I don't trust her entirely, no. Therefore? Confused
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Old 2008-10-19, 13:16
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Try not being an emo. What good does it do? You have to listen to shit music, be sad all the time, get flamed on totse and have everyone look down on you in real life. Be something else? :)
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Old 2008-10-19, 16:10
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In your situation I would stand my fucking ground. The distance is already getting further between you cuz she knows she can get better.


emu
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Old 2008-10-19, 17:23
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So like, I'm with this girl now who is quite attractive and she's got a bunch of other guys after her, so it's kind of annoying at times. Like they tell her shit about me that's not true so she'll hate me and fuck them etc. So yeah it's becoming a worry, but I realized that what sets me apart from these other guys is that I loved her before she was hot, you know? She used to be nerdy ad have braces and shit, and I still liked her then, despite being higher in the popularity pyramid (which I'm now at the bottom of for being an emo kid lulz). Anyway none of this is making any sense.

TL;DR: Will she stay with me because I liked her before she was hot, or does that not mean shit? :(


Well sir, either get them to fuck off, or prove you are worthy of her with male dominence, you could always let her know how you feel, or you could molotov everything.
thats about all the options..or you could do nothing, which I dont reccomend.
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Old 2008-10-19, 19:04
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TL;DR: Will she stay with me because I liked her before she was hot, or does that not mean shit? :(

Depends on her personality. If she's the shallow kind and only cares about the newfound attention she's receiving then probably not and if that's the case, you are better off finding someone more sincere. If she's not the shallow type, then my guess is she'll be flattered by the attention but know that you're the one she wants to be w/ because you like her for HER, not what she looks like. That's more valuable in my book.
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Old 2008-10-19, 23:36
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Oh my gawd. The guy who I told to stay the fuck away from her has a black fringe and a lip ring. I am MASCULINE. Mad

And I don't trust her entirely, no. Therefore? Confused

If you dont love her enough to trust her then let her go.
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Old 2008-10-20, 03:27
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If you dont love her enough to trust her then let her go.

Well shit dude, we've been together a month. It's not like we have that kind of extreme closeness yet.
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Old 2008-10-20, 03:43
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Tell her you slept with Miley Cyrus.

Bitches see value in that kind of shit.
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Old 2008-10-20, 09:22
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There's only one guy left to go. Mad
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Old 2008-10-20, 13:54
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There's only one guy left to go. Mad


You should kill him as an example to the other would-be suitors.
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Old 2008-10-20, 18:20
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She'll dump you because you're emo.
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Old 2008-10-21, 02:41
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There's only one guy left to go. Mad


Well done, im proud of you, after you have accompleshed your goal, and proved your dominence, she'll be all yours, you are becoming an alpha male.
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Old 2008-10-22, 15:54
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Well done, im proud of you, after you have accompleshed your goal, and proved your dominence, she'll be all yours, you are becoming an alpha male.

Shut up acolyte. hes just being lucky. he is not even keeping him off himself. His chick is doing it for him. not pretty much of an alpha.
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Old 2008-10-23, 02:24
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Shut up acolyte. hes just being lucky. he is not even keeping him off himself. His chick is doing it for him. not pretty much of an alpha.

Nope, I actually did what you said. But thanks for being a meanie Mad
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Old 2008-10-23, 05:52
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Oh my gawsh. That's all of them. I'm so happy. I love u gais :o
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Old 2008-10-23, 12:40
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Good job man..
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Old 2008-10-19, 02:44
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If you won't get tried as an adult whoop his ass.

Otherwise ignore it, the guys just self conscience.
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