Tommorow I'm going to the cinema with a girl who I know is really into me. When we talked about what to do she suggested the cinema but said she didn't care what we watched - which suggested to me that she wasn't really bothered about the film?

So my question is - do I make a move in the cinema, or do we just watch the film and I make a move after? I'm guessing I'm gunna get alot of responses like "see how it goes" so I'm hoping that means it will be pretty clear whether she is only their to watch the film.

Thoughts on how/when to make the move? Just enjoy the film and make a move after the film? I ask because I don't want her expecting me to make a move and then I just sit there throughout the film. If she had actually suggested what we watch I would be more inclined to believe she was actually going for the film, but now I dunno.

It's not a huge issue, but looking for advice please.

Ty Totse! :D

I'd say go for a drink before the cinema, so you can chat/get to know her a bit better, then see how the cinema works out.

http://www.ucbcomedy.com/videos/play/1498

This.

Tap her on the shoulder, kiss her. MAN UP.

First of all, movie first dates are terrible. You just sit there doing nothing. And she said she didn't care which movie because she doesn't know what you like.

You should take her out somewhere where you can talk and get to know each other better.


*ObZ

Morning all! :D

Ty for all the advice so far. I will update you later today with how it went.

First of all, movie first dates are terrible. You just sit there doing nothing. And she said she didn't care which movie because she doesn't know what you like.

You should take her out somewhere where you can talk and get to know each other better.


*ObZ

Cheers for the suggestion mate, we have already arranged the cinema now but I'll definately take her out for something to eat before the film.

Good Luck Buddy, just remember to go with it all. Don't push anything =)

Small does of X before hand

I'd say in the cinema, start by taking her hand, then see how it goes. By doing that, you're not doing anything she can object to, but you can judge her reaction and see if she wants more or not.

Take the seats that don't have a barrier between you, if possible.

But don't think about it too much. Since she likes you, everything is bound to go fine.

So relax and enjoy your date.

No, dont take her hand, thats a horrible idea. Kiss her before the movie and then you can hold her hand or do what you want(thats ofcourse if you take her out to eat).

If you take her hand during the film, she will get all nervous and stiff and probably pull back after some time, then you will start to analyze why she pulled her hand back.

Having wine at a meal is a superb idea.

Those are all terrible ideas. Answer your phone during the movie then drag her out by her hair.

Thats a manly idea with hair on its chest

why the fuck do u have so much wisdom

i hate u

At the end of the movie, coax her to sit down until every one is gone in the theatre, then make the move;)

Yeah, its so sexy when the employees come to clean up the shit everyone leaves behind while you are making out

Yeah, its so sexy when the employees come to clean up the shit everyone leaves behind while you are making out

The staff doesnt instantly appear you know ,could take from 4-10 minutes.:D