totse.com | Totse, I'm so lonely!

Snail Trail · #1 2008-10-17, 07:06

I'm 19 years old. My girlfriend cheated on me. We had been together for 2 years. I wanted to kill myself, but ending up not doing it (obviously).

She's with him now. I'm with nobody. They're happy, I'm depressed.

I'll never find another girl as good as her who'd actually want to DATE me. I'm not ugly, but I'm not attractive either.

I want to meet girls, but not whore girls. So I won't be going to clubs or anything like that. But where do I go? And what do I do to get over being lonely?

Thanks totse.

PMS · #2 2008-10-17, 07:08

lmfao this is my tl;dr version going in my post, thanks.

frizog · #3 2008-10-17, 07:13

MySpace

Snail Trail · #4 2008-10-17, 07:17

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MySpace

I honestly thought about it. But every girl is too fake on MySpace. I've heard so many stories of guys meeting girls but it turned out they were fat or something. Not to mention it isn't very social, and sitting on the computer 24/7 chatting up chicks would make me even more depressed. I need to get out there, man!!!

a drifters life · #5 2008-10-17, 07:40

Ummmmm well, getting off totse would be your first step.

Then you're probably going to want to start being social with girls that you are attracted to.

If you suck at being social, I would download a long e-book on social skills and read the whole thing.

Follow these steps, and you'll eventually find a girl that won't feel the need to ditch your ass.

Snail Trail · #6 2008-10-17, 07:45

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Ummmmm well, getting off totse would be your first step.

Totse is okay in moderation. I come here for information, not to make pointless threads and jack off (As lots of people do here).

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Then you're probably going to want to start being social with girls that you are attracted to.

If you suck at being social, I would download a long e-book on social skills and read the whole thing.

Follow these steps, and you'll eventually find a girl that won't feel the need to ditch your ass.

Where are these girls? It's such a challenge... I don't understand how so many people are in relationships. Where do they find each other?!

a drifters life · #7 2008-10-17, 07:50

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Where are these girls? It's such a challenge... I don't understand how so many people are in relationships. Where do they find each other?!

:O

Dude, fucking look around!!!!!!!!!

You just need to stop being a pussy and fucking talk to them.

Simple. As. That.

and PS: I would recommend the social skills ebook... no offence.

Snail Trail · #8 2008-10-17, 07:55

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:O

Dude, fucking look around!!!!!!!!!

You just need to stop being a pussy and fucking talk to them.

Simple. As. That.

and PS: I would recommend the social skills ebook... no offence.

Today I was on the train and I was thinking about talking to a girl. She was kind of looking at me, and sitting near me, even though there were plenty of other seats. BUT... what the hell do I say? How weird is that? She'd probably think I'm weird, and I may have to see her again the next day. That's what I'm afraid of... seeing her again. I'd be fine if I was in another country asking out chicks.

a drifters life · #9 2008-10-17, 08:15

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Today I was on the train and I was thinking about talking to a girl. She was kind of looking at me, and sitting near me, even though there were plenty of other seats. BUT... what the hell do I say? How weird is that? She'd probably think I'm weird, and I may have to see her again the next day. That's what I'm afraid of... seeing her again. I'd be fine if I was in another country asking out chicks.

Dude, you can't go into the situation with the mindset that it's going to be weird. If you do that, then yes, it will be. Your best bet to overcome this is right when you see a girl that is approachable just say "how's it going?". If you sit there tossing ideas around in your head, all you're going to do is build tension.

Why would a girl think you're weird for asking her how it's going?

Seriously man, do some research on social skills. It's learned skill, just like everything else.

Snail Trail · #10 2008-10-17, 08:19

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Dude, you can't go into the situation with the mindset that it's going to be weird. If you do that, then yes, it will be. Your best bet to overcome this is right when you see a girl that is approachable just say "how's it going?". If you sit there tossing ideas around in your head, all you're going to do is build tension.

Why would a girl think you're weird for asking her how it's going?

Seriously man, do some research on social skills. It's learned skill, just like everything else.

You're right man. I'm gonna do it. I'll be working out all weekend to boost my confidence though. Thanks.