Fuck your all so shit....

Why even make this thread, seriously if you need advice on how to get some guy WHOS REALLY DONE NOTHING WRONG YOUR JUST A INSECURE FUCKTARD, BUT HEY YOU KNOW YOU AINT GIVING HER WHAT SHE NEEEEDS SO DAMN SHE GOTTA GET THAT SHIT SOMEWHERE!!

Fuck PMS your living up to your name you whingy fucking bitch - BE A MAN.
Talk to your girl, TAKE CHARGE, find out about this guy - what will anonymously beating him achieve? Huh??

And if you beat me up talking to some girl at uni id go to the cops if you were lucky - i mean fuck man for all you know hes not saying shit and your girl is trying to make you jealous.

And sharpe you can punch people in the temple IT IS ONE OF THE SOFTEST PARTS OF THE HEAD. But hitting someone there does fuck them up.
It is the crown/forehead area that is the hardest. Hitting someone there will fuck you up.


this was a very senseful post, thanks.

but yeah basically i later found out that she was seeing this guy since school started (3 weeks) and she supposedly made out with him.. so fuck her and the 2 years of my life that i wasted with her...

i shouldnt have to settle for this shit.. she dorms at a uni and im at a CC, transferring soon.. this relationship started in high school.. spilled into college for a year and now ended here.

basically the first year of college i pretty much restricted her from partying and drinking and now she is doing all that and going crazy.

you see we met in high school and the reason i liked her was because she didnt go out (restricted by parents) and seemed to have her head in the right place. She liked me because I fucked around in high school and went to lots of kickbacks with my friends and what not.

So now comes college, she is free as a bird and literally goes crazy with freedom. Goes out everynight- every other night, parties, clubs you name it..

this really started to kill the relationship, as I was 30 mins away at CC and she was at uni and the only way she wouldnt dance with guys was if i went to clubs and parties with her...

I hate clubs and parties and didnt have time for the matter since i am taking 6 classes and working as well as involved with clubs on campus..

I am transferring to a uni and she is already there, I am working towards my aspirations, she is already there. She is a sociology major, and I am a bio major. She is taking photography 1, german 1, and a soc class, I am taking an Anthro, music, nutrition, human sex, tutor, and math class.. I will be taking calc and bio and chem classes very soon (time consuming!!) she just writes essays and has free time to fuck around (clubs parties etc), so she expects me to be there with here, and it really fucked with my sleep and school schedule.. and ofcourse my grades dropped since i was not able to study and maintain a social night life.

so fast forward to today, I find out she has been talking to another guy for 3 weeks since school has started, she wanted to take a break and all i could do was oblige.. She made out with the guy, and i have no say since we were on a break.

I love (loved?) her, and she really hurt me but I can not give her what she needs (time to go out etc), we have conflicting interests ( i want to focus on school and move on, she wants to have a social life since she was restricted from it since i never had time to go out with her).

we dont RELATE... isnt that the root word and foundation of the word RELATIONSHIP?... to relate..

in highschool it was fine cause she never did anything, but now she is going crazy with freedom.

I admit i fucked up by not giving her what she wanted (time and security by being there), but then again, why should my studies have to suffer... they affect my future right?

sorry for this long ass post.. i just needed to vent.. its going to be hard to let go of 2 years... prom king and queen, i mean shit, we did so much together. Seeing her with another guy is crushing me.. first love, gf and everything

fuck my life.


any one have any reflections.. help me get past this hole i dug myself into.. i am constantly thinking about her now and it sucks cause everywhere i look i am reminded of the good times, even though there were many bad times aswell...

i cant stop sulking... why was i so naive in high school, thinking a relationship like this would work...

i dont think i would want her back if she was to come back after the shit she did to me ( i found out about this guy from her cell phone btw after reading messages in front of her when i confronted her, she told me they made out and i was like fuck this and just left her alone)

TL;DR version from snail trail

I'm 19 years old. My girlfriend cheated on me. We had been together for 2 years. I wanted to kill myself, but ending up not doing it (obviously).

She's with him now. I'm with nobody. They're happy, I'm depressed.

I'll never find another girl as good as her who'd actually want to DATE me. I'm not ugly, but I'm not attractive either.

I want to meet girls, but not whore girls. So I won't be going to clubs or anything like that. But where do I go? And what do I do to get over being lonely?

Thanks totse.

damn i dont know what to say, this pretty much answers my question haha i just needed someone to restate that to me so i could understand it

moral of story: high school relationships do not belong in the college world unless you go to the same college

People's priorities change. It's why lots of young relationships, as good as they seem, inevitably fail.

Take it as life experience, and be thankful that you at least expereinced the highs.

You should probably ditch the extra corricular activities and start partying.

Then instead of saying "fuck my life", you'd probably be having just as good of a time as this girl, if not better.

Goddamn dude, you sound a bit psycho. You should restrict her more.

But on a positive note, if shes so freewheeling with the pussy now, it should be easier for you to hit that ass.