What is her/your personality like? Are you active, boring, smart, poor?

the type of city you live in matters too.

I'm real laid back and she is too. She's super cool and we get along really well. I just started working out to get toned and will be starting school in january. I am kind of inexperienced with women but i can usually think of something interesting to say. I don't really go to parties anymore because i usually end up getting too fucked up for my own good, i don't even think i could find a good party if i wanted too. I live in bentonville AR, and there isn't a whole lot to do around here. There are a ton of good restaurants and movie theaters around here but if i wanted to go to a club or something like that i would have to go to fayetteville where the college is (which wouldn't be a problem). Dickson street is where all the bars and most of the clubs are at!

How far should i take the kino? what places could i rub/touch her that shows that i do like her as more than just a friend (practical responses please) and wouldn't be too much? I know i only have so much time until i could be in the dreaded friends zone, which i know for a fact i'm not their yet.

Tomorrow, when i see her, i am going to ask if she want's to go to dinner and then see a movie (after smoking of course) and see what she says! I already sent a text to her (stoned again ;-) ) but i don't know if she does text. Should i call her now and ask or wait until i see her in person tomorrow and ask then?
thanks

The whole dinner and a movie thing is fairly generic, and going to a club could signal to her that you'd rather hop clubs with her than date; try to think of something unique to your town but stay within your personality. Go on google maps or draw a rough layout of your town and think about all the stuff you can do, then pick something that pops out.

If she's 'athletic' (read: not fat or overly lazy) then doing some sort of outdoors activity would work, walking around town for example(try not to seem cheap). Walking around outside in nature when the weather is just right could be relaxing(or creepy) could allow for light 'kino' and might make the awkward silences much easier to bear.

Take the kino( ) as far as you want to. If you lake confidence in what you do it'll show, so don't be pressured into making a move on the first date. You also need to look at her body language, is she nervous/anxious etc. meaning she might want you to make a move... or she doesn't want you to(confusing right?).

Just be yourself, the laid back guy that you are when you're at home dicking around on the internet.

The text you sent seems like you were bragging that you just got stoned(the reason why I don't use text messages), try to clear that up by texting "want to?" or something similar.

Don't call her tonight as you just tmed her, but try not to use text messages so much; despite what the PUA's say.

It's a 'Pick Up Artist' word for touching each other (holding hands, kissing, punching the skank in the face then fingering her vag while you drive her home).

Sing!!

*ahem*
Excuse me...



Zing!

You'd think a pick-up artist wouldn't need date ideas.

lol'd

He probably just read one of the books and bought into all the crap they dish out(hint hint?).

If its not too cold, I'd just go to the park / the countryside, bring an awesome picnic and smoke. Nice and relaxed, uncomplicated.

Is she active? Hike to the top of a mountain and when there whip out some bubbly and have a picnic.

Kind of lazy? Take her to the movies but pick a later session, while you're waiting have a game of bowling and eat some food. Jokingly say the loser has to give the winner a clothed lap dance right then and there. Make sure to win.

Get some pot, food and movies. Cook up a storm, get her baked, sit under a blanket and watch some awesome flicks.

Go on an adventure. Basically have no plans, go to the nearest big ass city and take it from there.

Are you an interesting person? Have any cool hobbies? Try and involve her in one of those.

Smoke some pot with her and go to a yoga/karate/pilates/ballet/tango lesson. If you're a funny guy you'll probably just joke around and have a good time, plus they all involve touching/physical work. Get your endorphins pumping.

a museum. interesting yet classy

Go to a birthing class.

I can see going wandering around a city would be fun

I'm glad to see totse hasn't quite entirely gone to shit.