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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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# 1
2008-10-16, 02:06
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Would you break up?
So I'm with a girl that I really like. Love, I guess. But I heard that she had sex with someone and asked her about it, she said yes. I also heard the guy had aids. But he wore a condom. I don't think I should ask her to get tested, because she would be really mad. But I do think I will not have sex with her unless we:
A) Get married
B) She get's tested.
Neither of which will happen soon, but she wants to fuck so...
Like I said, I don't want to lose her because I like her. So I really don't know what to do in this situation. I know she'd break up if I told her to get tested.
So what should I do:
A) Hit it, with a condom
B) Ask her to get tested, and we will most likely break up
C) Just not fuck her until we get married, if we do.
By the way if it makes anything different, we're both 16 years old.
For one time in my life, I turn from giving advice, and ask for it. Mainly because this isn't something I can ask my real life friends, as they don't give great advice and shit spreads fast.
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# 2
2008-10-16, 02:09
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Re: Would you break up?
Find out the truth to a rumor before you get yourself all worked up.
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# 3
2008-10-16, 02:10
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Re: Would you break up?
If she had sex with someone with HIV and will break up with you if you ask her to get tested, not only is that extremely immature, but also pretty damn dangerous to you and anyone else who she may sleep with in the future. Do you really think that even the SLIGHTEST possibility of getting HIV is worth not asking her to get tested? Basically, I think if you dont ask, then both of you are idiots.
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# 4
2008-10-16, 02:12
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Re: Would you break up?
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Originally Posted by StreetThug
So I'm with a girl that I really like. Love, I guess. But I heard that she had sex with someone and asked her about it, she said yes. I also heard the guy had aids. But he wore a condom. I don't think I should ask her to get tested, because she would be really mad. But I do think I will not have sex with her unless we:
A) Get married
B) She get's tested.
Neither of which will happen soon, but she wants to fuck so...
Like I said, I don't want to lose her because I like her. So I really don't know what to do in this situation. I know she'd break up if I told her to get tested.
So what should I do:
A) Hit it, with a condom
B) Ask her to get tested, and we will most likely break up
C) Just not fuck her until we get married, if we do.
By the way if it makes anything different, we're both 16 years old.
For one time in my life, I turn from giving advice, and ask for it. Mainly because this isn't something I can ask my real life friends, as they don't give great advice and shit spreads fast.
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Fucking tell her to get tested for her own sake. Jesus fucking christ people are dumb
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# 5
2008-10-16, 02:14
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Re: Would you break up?
She cheated on you with a guy who has AIDS and your still with her?
That's a whole new level of pussy.
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# 6
2008-10-16, 02:15
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California.
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Re: Would you break up?
^^
LOL!
id break up with the stupid cheating bitch.
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# 7
2008-10-16, 02:20
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Re: Would you break up?
I'd kill a bitch if I found out she pulled something like that.
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# 8
2008-10-16, 02:25
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Re: Would you break up?
Moron.
It's now your civic duty to alert as many people as possible that she has HIV before she starts spreading it around.
And dump her.
Fucking kids these days...morons, all of them.
*ObZ
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# 9
2008-10-16, 02:42
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Re: Would you break up?
Why didn't you fuck her before she fucked some other guy. You're her boyfriend right?
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# 10
2008-10-16, 02:44
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Re: Would you break up?
This is a very good thread. Very informative and relevant to my interests.
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#11
2008-10-16, 02:56 |
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Re: Would you break up?
I wouldn't brake up
I'd tell the bitch to get herself tested. Nobody's worth riskin aids.
And kid.. your 16, if she breaks up cause of this,
a. she's stupid as hell takin the risk herself
b. you'll be in love again before your 20 at least a dozen times, you'll get over the initial pain...if any
Ps. i asked my gf to get tested when we got together. She... had quite some stupid things in her past. She did it without hesitation (course, i right away said i'd get myself tested too... hypocrysy rarely works)
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#12
2008-10-16, 02:58 |
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Re: Would you break up?
Neither of you should be fucking anyone if there is the chance that stupidity of this caliber could be reproduced.
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2008-10-16, 04:08 |
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Re: Would you break up?
Thanks for the insightful info to the few posters who gave it. (darkeasterbunny, and a few others)
SomeLowLife, no she didn't CHEAT on me. She had sex with him, BEFORE we got together. It's just when she told me, she said "he stuck it in with a condom, and I pushed him away and broke up with him". Now I found it weird, a guy could get you naked, then put it in, then you push him off and break up, but I believed it. Then today she was telling one of her friends "Omg we lost it the same year!" and I'm like "What?".
She told me she didn't consider it "losing her virginity". But yeah I'm a little confused, but thinking about telling her to get tested.
colorsoc, hopefully the above answered your question. But thanks for fully reading my post before you kindly posted your info. ;)
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#14
2008-10-16, 04:20 |
Stinky Spic
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Re: Would you break up?
i misread the thread at first. Get her tested. For her benefit and yours.
Odds are she doesn't have it, but still, not something you wanna risk.
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#15
2008-10-16, 04:27 |
kinky_kitty1169
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Re: Would you break up?
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Originally Posted by StreetThug
So I'm with a girl that I really like. Love, I guess. But I heard that she had sex with someone and asked her about it, she said yes. I also heard the guy had aids. But he wore a condom. I don't think I should ask her to get tested, because she would be really mad. But I do think I will not have sex with her unless we:
A) Get married
B) She get's tested.
Neither of which will happen soon, but she wants to fuck so...
Like I said, I don't want to lose her because I like her. So I really don't know what to do in this situation. I know she'd break up if I told her to get tested.
So what should I do:
A) Hit it, with a condom
B) Ask her to get tested, and we will most likely break up
C) Just not fuck her until we get married, if we do.
By the way if it makes anything different, we're both 16 years old.
For one time in my life, I turn from giving advice, and ask for it. Mainly because this isn't something I can ask my real life friends, as they don't give great advice and shit spreads fast.
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TELL HER 2 GET TESTED!! MMY BOYFRIEND MADE ME GET TESTED WHEN HE FOUND I FUCKED WITH THIS DRUNK S;LUT BITCH AN WE DIDNT BREAK UP. U DONT WANT AIDS DO U?????  |
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2008-10-16, 04:30 |
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Re: Would you break up?
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Originally Posted by StreetThug
Thanks for the insightful info to the few posters who gave it. (darkeasterbunny, and a few others)
SomeLowLife, no she didn't CHEAT on me. She had sex with him, BEFORE we got together. It's just when she told me, she said "he stuck it in with a condom, and I pushed him away and broke up with him". Now I found it weird, a guy could get you naked, then put it in, then you push him off and break up, but I believed it. Then today she was telling one of her friends "Omg we lost it the same year!" and I'm like "What?".
She told me she didn't consider it "losing her virginity". But yeah I'm a little confused, but thinking about telling her to get tested.
colorsoc, hopefully the above answered your question. But thanks for fully reading my post before you kindly posted your info. ;)
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Ask her to get tested, if she refuses tell her shes an immature cunt and then walk out. Some things you just don't risk. |
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#17
2008-10-16, 04:34 |
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Re: Would you break up?
Ask her to get tested, if she refuses tell her shes an immature cunt and then walk out. Some things you just don't risk.
Thanks. Looks like me and her will have a talk tomorrow.
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#18
2008-10-16, 04:40 |
Stinky Spic
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Re: Would you break up?
Thanks. Looks like me and her will have a talk tomorrow.
Tell her its because your concerned with her health as well, and that she should get tested regardless of how your relationship proceeds.
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2008-10-16, 05:05 |
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Re: Would you break up?
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Originally Posted by StreetThug
Thanks for the insightful info to the few posters who gave it. (darkeasterbunny, and a few others)
SomeLowLife, no she didn't CHEAT on me. She had sex with him, BEFORE we got together. It's just when she told me, she said "he stuck it in with a condom, and I pushed him away and broke up with him". Now I found it weird, a guy could get you naked, then put it in, then you push him off and break up, but I believed it. Then today she was telling one of her friends "Omg we lost it the same year!" and I'm like "What?".
She told me she didn't consider it "losing her virginity". But yeah I'm a little confused, but thinking about telling her to get tested.
colorsoc, hopefully the above answered your question. But thanks for fully reading my post before you kindly posted your info. ;)
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She sounds like a lying cunt who lies a lot. |
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#20
2008-10-16, 07:31 |
superspeedz
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Re: Would you break up?
Be mature about it.
Hey when was the last time you were tested?
If you guys can't handle a simple situation like this you shouldn't be together.
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#21
2008-10-16, 07:38 |
jadexheartsxguitar
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Re: Would you break up?
I really think that you should ask her to be tested.
If she doesnt want to do it threaten to break up with her.
If she isnt begging on her knees.. break up with her she obviously isnt worth the troubles and health problems.
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#22
2008-10-16, 19:27 |
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Re: Would you break up?
When did this happens?
I believe HIV will only show up on the test after 6 months after you get it from someone.
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#23
2008-10-16, 19:36 |
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Originally Posted by bc1718
If she had sex with someone with HIV and will break up with you if you ask her to get tested, not only is that extremely immature, but also pretty damn dangerous to you and anyone else who she may sleep with in the future. Do you really think that even the SLIGHTEST possibility of getting HIV is worth not asking her to get tested? Basically, I think if you dont ask, then both of you are idiots.
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#24
2008-10-16, 22:36 |
Valerius
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Re: Would you break up?
She sounds like a lying cunt who lies a lot.
Yes yes she does.
You should probably kill her since it seems likely she's cheated on you, or atleast get tested with her so she feels better about it.
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#25
2008-10-16, 22:51 |
Jokke
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Re: Would you break up?
Kill yourself.
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