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Old 2008-10-15, 19:19
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Default I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

Heck yes, so this is something that happened the the last week.

I was helping out at a christian camp thing. Don't judge me right away, I don't even know if I'm christian or not, though I wish I was. But I've gone to this place all my life, and it's just secluded, nice, nostalgic and relaxing.

It was a camp for 15 to 17 year olds (I'm 22). Anyways, during the meals, me and my mate sat at a table for you know, people that are there helping out, we were actually doing the dish washing and all that, very lame... But behind our table, there was a table with one of the girl "teams". Don't get too caught up in this whole camp thing, I'll just get to the point already...

At this other table, there was a girl sitting. She had a pretty face, she had a great big and round rack, and a really small waist, just a sexy girl. Because of the rack, I assumed there was a pretty good chance she was 17. Sure, it's 5 years, and she's probably immature but dude she was hot, and I was lonely/desperate. But all my life, the few times where I've actually had girls giving me the look, I've never made anything of it. I always told myself I was delusional, because I was never that good looking and let's face it, I'd never find the balls to do anything about it.

But damnit... All my life I've been the shy guy, who never made a move, never pulled through with anything. So I decided, on the last night there... Thing must change. But what's the next move from occasional awkward eyecontact? Heck, I just decided that the next time I catch her looking, or she catches me, I won't look away, rather I'll give her a smile.
This I do, and again she just looks away instantly. But after doing it 2-3 times, she caught on, and we suddenly had eye contact for several seconds and smiled at each other. I'm telling you guys, this was the biggest rush ever. Just looking at this chick I'd never talked to, giving me this sorta sexy smile...

But the meal comes to an end, and I know there may not be many chances to approach her again, so after lots of thinking up and down, I just went and did it. She was about to leave the table, and I walked towards her, and I saw her looking at me... So I said "Hey, uhm, what's your name?". She told me... I asked her if she'd had a good time there, yadayada, asked her how old she was. It was an awkward little conversation, I asked most of the questions, and she didn't bother to even ask my name/age/whatever, but this may be cos she was a bit scared, as she was... 15. Yeap, turned out she was 15 years old. Pretty soon she had to leave, and no, I didn't get a number/msn or anything, but I like to tell myself that now she's kicking herself for not asking my name and so forth...

Anyways, the point is guys, that if you're ever in that situation where you keep getting eye contact with someone you think is hot/cool/whatever, be the bigger person, don't look away, but give 'em a smile. When they suddenly smile back, it's just a big rush.
Yes, I did end up feeling like a bit of a creep, but remember how people always say they don't so much regret things they've done, as things they never did, because they were afraid. I think I've seriously put hammered down a big wall in my life.

Sorry if this was a long incoherent crappy post, I just thought someone who's a bit like me might give it a try, having balls.
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Old 2008-10-15, 19:47
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

Umm, this is pretty common knowledge.

I didn't think it merited a post?
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Old 2008-10-15, 19:56
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

It's common knowledge?

Well I don't know... I just know that personally, I usually want real life examples of how these things go down. So I just thought I'd put it out there... Looking back and smiling really works. And you know, I'm just saying doing things instead of wussying out will make you happier in the end.
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Old 2008-10-15, 21:06
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

tl/dr version: awkward guy attempts talking to a girl and nothing happens
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Old 2008-10-15, 21:28
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

I am usually the boldest guy in a group of three or 2 or 4. I will walk up to any girl and ask any question i want and i am very blunt. i usually walk up to the youngins and ask em "how old are you?" they answer, then i say to my friend "see i told you she wasn't old enough" then i say "thanks for your time" and walk away.

this feels good.
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Old 2008-10-15, 21:37
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

both OP and the guy above me are weird.

Try getting a random girls number in a club/bar and inviting her back to your place, that takes balls. i always feel slightly weird just dancing with random girls but i do it anway....sometimes it works out
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Old 2008-10-15, 21:39
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I thought in motivational posts you needed to succeed in some way? Sounds to me that you got rejected.
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Old 2008-10-15, 21:41
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

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both OP and the guy above me are weird.

Try getting a random girls number in a club/bar and inviting her back to your place, that takes balls. i always feel slightly weird just dancing with random girls but i do it anway....sometimes it works out
You do it once and its a piece of piss after that my friend.

Seriously, You smiled at a girl? Mozel Tov and all there but try it out seriously.
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Old 2008-10-15, 21:56
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both OP and the guy above me are weird.

Try getting a random girls number in a club/bar and inviting her back to your place, that takes balls. i always feel slightly weird just dancing with random girls but i do it anway....sometimes it works out
what you dont understand is sometimes the girl will let her guard down and pursue me......
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Old 2008-10-15, 21:57
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

Seriously, I'm real happy for you that you tried something and it worked out okay for you, but you ought to have known that most attractive chicks consider themselves "above" pursuing a guy, although they may do it if they're REALLY into you... but the title lead me to believe some awesome christian camp orgy type thing was what happened. Oh well. Maybe next year : /
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Old 2008-10-15, 22:02
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

You do it once and its a piece of piss after that my friend.

Seriously, You smiled at a girl? Mozel Tov and all there but try it out seriously.

yeh man it gets easier everytime......everytime you do it, its like +1 to your confidence and everytime you get blown off its like -1. Often you dont get blown off because it shows a lot of confidence to do it.....but if you get in the negative confidence you start to give up...
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Old 2008-10-15, 22:08
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yeh man it gets easier everytime......everytime you do it, its like +1 to your confidence and everytime you get blown off its like -1. Often you dont get blown off because it shows a lot of confidence to do it.....but if you get in the negative confidence you start to give up...

You will get turned down by women more times than you will be getting their numbers; getting discouraged because a girl gives you the cold shoulder won't help; just keep in mind that she might be in a committed relationship, that she just has bad taste (keep in mind that you ARE the best of the best of her possible choices for man-friends, it helps if you're as confident as possible when trying to get numbers or get laid, or w.e you're doing at the time.), or it's possible that for whatever reason she's just not open to meeting somebody new right now--- all you can do is try, and not take it personally if she turns you down.
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Old 2008-10-15, 22:26
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if there's grass on the field play ball

if it can bleed it can breed

if it can pee its old enough for me

etc etc
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Old 2008-10-15, 22:30
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

You will get turned down by women more times than you will be getting their numbers; getting discouraged because a girl gives you the cold shoulder won't help; just keep in mind that she might be in a committed relationship, that she just has bad taste (keep in mind that you ARE the best of the best of her possible choices for man-friends, it helps if you're as confident as possible when trying to get numbers or get laid, or w.e you're doing at the time.), or it's possible that for whatever reason she's just not open to meeting somebody new right now--- all you can do is try, and not take it personally if she turns you down.

you genuinely just helped me man <3

cos i would say things like this to myself and even though it seems obvious i always need to hear it from a completely external source. That and people im friends with try to bring me down sometimes maybe out of jealously that i have the balls to just say "fuck it" and go for something.
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Old 2008-10-15, 22:43
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

That camp must be fucking sucky if one of the 'helpers' thinks talking to a kid there is the boldest move ever. Congratulations on making a small step closer to normality though.
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Old 2008-10-15, 23:33
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both OP and the guy above me are weird.

Try getting a random girls number in a club/bar and inviting her back to your place, that takes balls. i always feel slightly weird just dancing with random girls but i do it anway....sometimes it works out :)



Dude, picking up a skank in a bar is way easier than getting it on with a chick at camp, while in a sober state. But I saw an opportunity, and I took it. And that's the kinda person I'm gonna be from now on... Who cares if I get turned down. Like Deangelo said, dating is a numbers game. The guy who gets turned down the most, is often the guy who gets the most numbers as well.
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Old 2008-10-16, 00:07
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

Dude, your 22 and flirting with a 15 year old? I laugh when fucks like you go to the penitentiary and the whole unit dips their dicks in your corn hole.
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Old 2008-10-16, 00:15
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creep , jailbait , pedo , sad

I think the tags say it all...
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Old 2008-10-16, 00:40
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

Dude, picking up a skank in a bar is way easier than getting it on with a chick at camp.

They're only 'skanks' because they don't want you. Right?
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Old 2008-10-16, 00:46
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

If it were at a Catholic camp you would have had some kinky ass sex. Catholic school girls kinkyness is common knowledge. They're even hornier then the altar boys.
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Old 2008-10-16, 00:54
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What happens at band camp stays at band camp
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Old 2008-10-16, 03:09
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

Even though a christian camp and you being sober you call that bold?

Either your a troll or socially retarded, it's the age thing that's confusin me


In case of the last

The reason you think this was already a bold move is the same reason your not getting any
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Old 2008-10-16, 03:23
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

So basically you wanted to pedo a 15 year old but failed, and you felt a need to make a thread about it?
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Old 2008-10-16, 14:49
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

Dude, if he's reall he's like a reall life friend of mine

Falls for young girls basicly cause they are the only one he knows how to communicate with.
Hell, when a girl kissed him for the first time when he was fuckin 18, he didn't speak for 2 damn weeks...
You'd be surprised how socially retarded people can be
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Old 2008-10-16, 19:30
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Me? Troll? Nope.

Social retard? Sorta.

And no I don't call them skanks cos they don't want me, oogly skanks are the only chicks that ever want me. I'm just saying, getting laid on a drunken night out is more likely for me, than on a regular sober day.

Anyways, this thread didn't make me look as cool as I'd hoped :(
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Old 2008-10-16, 20:29
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

Anyways, this thread didn't make me look as cool as I'd hoped :(

Go for birds that are:

1) Not in a camp for reglious zealots
2) That are within an acceptable age bracket

Also, stop being a peado.

Good advice my friend..
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Old 2008-10-16, 20:31
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

Anyways, this thread didn't make me look as cool as I'd hoped :(

lol lol cuteness
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Old 2008-10-16, 20:35
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lol lol cuteness

You think so? Chatting up an underage girl doesn't really score many cool points and the fact it was at a Christian Camp just tops it off.
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Old 2008-10-16, 23:27
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

Wait, since when does smiling at a girl qualify as a "bold move"?

I was waiting for teh sex.

The thread is soaking in fail juice, I had high hopes for it, I really did.
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Old 2008-10-17, 00:26
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

Dude that's pretty cool because I'm quite the shy guy myself. Seeing as someone actually did something and didn't die, you may have just encouraged me a bit to fucking go for it the next time I'm in a similar shituation.
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Old 2008-10-17, 02:36
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Dude that's pretty cool because I'm quite the shy guy myself. Seeing as someone actually did something and didn't die, you may have just encouraged me a bit to fucking go for it the next time I'm in a similar shituation.


Do you see, people? This is all I wanted to achieve. To ignite a just a tiny spark of hope, in a fellow shy guy. You go for it pal. My work here is done.
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Old 2008-10-17, 03:13
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Dude that's pretty cool because I'm quite the shy guy myself. Seeing as someone actually did something and didn't die, you may have just encouraged me a bit to fucking go for it the next time I'm in a similar shituation.


I hope you're trolling.
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Old 2008-10-17, 03:33
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I hope you're trolling.

I'm not ashamed to say that I'm not. To be quite honest, I'm almost terrified of women outside of a professional setting. A few false accusations and abusive relationships will do that to you.

There's much more to the story, but generally, I don't talk to, look at, think about girls I see in public. It's pretty bad.
I don't really consider it a problem though. So far this plan seems to keep me out of trouble.
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Old 2008-10-17, 03:44
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http://thenastyboys.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/chris-hansen.jpg
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Old 2008-10-18, 07:43
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http://thenastyboys.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/chris-hansen.jpg

Oh numjum.
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Old 2008-10-18, 08:30
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haha, good on you, OP.

I loved how you said that looking at a girl and her looking back can get you a big rush. God i remember when that had an effect on me(it still does, just not as much:( ), i guess its like the first time you make out, you feel like you just shoot up, but after a while its just another step down south.

In conclusion, people dont become whores, and look at simple things as...something more.
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Old 2008-10-18, 15:53
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Dude that's pretty cool because I'm quite the shy guy myself. Seeing as someone actually did something and didn't die, you may have just encouraged me a bit to fucking go for it the next time I'm in a similar shituation.


aww the horse-faced boi is shy
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Old 2008-10-18, 15:54
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Oh numjum.

Oh shanin.
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Old 2008-10-18, 15:56
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jesus your fucking creepy. even if she was 17, your like her camp counselor. a 22 year old man. God I would cringe for your embarassment if I saw this happen in person. anyway, can't blame you for thinking she was hot but you're like her authority and you creepily tried to scam.
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Old 2008-10-18, 18:40
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Your a big man you know that. Congrats on working up the courage and approaching a 15 year older at a Christian camp. creep.
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Old 2008-10-18, 18:48
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tl/dr; Good chances always pass by before you know it then you will regret it later.
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Old 2008-10-18, 18:49
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I'm not ashamed to say that I'm not. To be quite honest, I'm almost terrified of women outside of a professional setting. A few false accusations and abusive relationships will do that to you.

There's much more to the story, but generally, I don't talk to, look at, think about girls I see in public. It's pretty bad.
I don't really consider it a problem though. So far this plan seems to keep me out of trouble.

wow based on what you said in this post alone i would extend my invitation of friendship to you except that you call me chink
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Old 2008-10-18, 20:23
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:When girls are drunk their standards are lowered
:HOWEVER when girls are drunk their self esteem increases canceling the effect of the lower standards

CONCLUSION:

Go out early when the girls are tipsy, chat them up and dance with them and kiss them.....then take them back to your place immediately!!!!
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Old 2008-10-18, 21:35
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

Why would this inspire anyone?

"I finally came out of my shell, because of bad experiences in the past and talked to a girl. The same failure occurred."
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Old 2008-10-19, 02:57
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wow based on what you said in this post alone i would extend my invitation of friendship to you except that you call me chink

You call me horse face, what's the difference?
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Old 2008-10-19, 02:59
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Default Re: I made the boldest move, at a christian camp thing

You call me horse face, what's the difference?

i only call you horse face because you called me chink first, lol

but i will stop calling u names, hows that
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Old 2008-10-19, 03:05
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i only call you horse face because you called me chink first, lol

but i will stop calling u names, hows that

Fair 'nuff.

I think I can do the same.
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Old 2008-10-19, 17:11
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When I was 14 I got hit on by a 21 yr old.


I did not find him hot, I was not flattered, I was just fuckin creeped out.


Its cool you got a tad out of your shell and all, but go hit on a girl your own age, get a number, get some cooter, and come back..


AND NO MORE 15 YR OLDS!!!

hell, anyone under 18 for that matter.
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Old 2008-10-19, 22:17
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Shit, how did this thread turn into total self pwnage :(
I actually feel really bad now and she probably considers me a creep. You guys suck.

Anyways, I'll have you know I'm currently flirting a nice looking blonde 19 year old. Actually I'm not sure if it's flirting... It's either that, or I'm racing into a new friend zone... Whatever, she's 19, so stop making me feel bad :(
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Old 2008-10-19, 23:53
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tl/dr version: awkward guy attempts talking to a girl and nothing happens


LOLOLOLOLOLOLLOLOL

For some reason I thought this was fucking highlarious.
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Old 2008-10-20, 05:31
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lol i smile at girls all the time. I bet when you smile, you get comments like stop staring at my ass and creep.
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Old 2008-10-20, 06:12
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When I notice females giving me the eye, I give them a little wink and smile. They usually don't know what to do with themselves. This works on all women.

- Tom
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