So, I dated this guy for two years, and it's been a good year and a half since we've dated. We broke up numerous times from what now seems so petty. We were both in highschool, he was a year ahead of me, and I think my immaturity may have lead me to make some stupid fights about his decisions on college, dreams, and goals. I haven't dated anyone since him. We have been kinda off and on. We didn't talk for six months once, but we always find a way to text eachother a couple weeks after an argument or whatever. I think the reason I argue with him so much is because I am still in love with him, and I just want his attention.

We slept together two months ago, but and thought about getting back together but decided against it. Since then its been really confusing. He is now dating a new girl, however its only been two weeks. We have college break coming up soon, and he asked if I wanted to hang out while we were at home. Usually when we hang out it leads to emotional crap. I just want to tell him how I feel. I still love him, and I have had a year and a half to think about it. How do I go about this without becoming so emotional and getting him to actually listen to what I have to say? Do you think he's actually over me?

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Poor lass.

i kinda know what your going through me and my ex broke up after about 14 months and we both still love each other (she loves me but doesnt know if she can be with me because we broke up alot of petty immature shit.) basically you should just tell him how you feel and if he wants to be with you he will if he doesnt then he doesnt. you cant pass up the opportunity to tell him because all youll do is regret not asking him. just like talk and see what happens you might get lucky and go out or if you dont then its probably better that way.. i know its hard to think of it like that but thats what im finally thinking like and its helping me alot

Hang it out there and tell him how you feel.

At the very least you'll get a definitive answer and get a some fun times out of it. At the very worse you're going to get some bad news and move on.

The good news is that moving on leads to bigger and better things.

He's moved on, why don't you?

How can you sleep with someone after not talking to them for six months, especially a long term relationship ex, and be completely moved on after that?

Believe me it can happen.

Happens more often than not with ex's. Who here hasn't ended up messing around with an ex after you were broken up? Sometimes sex is just sex. Usually one side or another gets screwed worse in a breakup and still has residual feelings. Sounds like you got the short straw. Suck it up and move on. He probably has.

This is your problem.

I know a few girls like you. It's really sad too because I'll meet a fantastic girl that I get along great with but she has residual feelings for some dude that left her and moved on so we never go anywhere. Doing this to guys really makes you look like a crazy person, which is generally a turn-off.

Don't you think you deserve better than a guy that broke up with you? Who says he won't do it again? But I don't know all the details, every situation is different.

Alas, I'm still in love with my ex, and she still has feelings for me, but I broke that relationship off because I was young and stupid and I still can't figure out what to do, but I don't come on totse looking for help. The people directly involved usually think of the best solutions.