Ok i need some advice. I'm in a situation where i'm living with this girl (my gf) (year long lease ~ 2 months into) but she's changed a lot recently and I still like the girl but the spark is just GONE and she doesn't seem to want sex at all anymore.

Well I have this really good friend who is friends with both of us but with me a lot more. And this girl is smoking hot. She's a little younger than me but nothing illegal. and i know she has feelings about me because she came out and told me a while ago but she said that she wouldn't want to come between my gf and me.

Well she recently broke up with the guy she was with and we've been hanging out a lot together. If you were in my position would you just go for it and hope it doesn't fuck up the freindship and my relationship with my gf?

If I do decide to go for it should i just straight up go for it next time we hang out or should i talk to her over the phone about it or what? I mean if she's not down it would be pretty awkward in person.

Make a priority list of what is most important. You need to keep in mind that one girl is LIVING with you. My advice is that if you go for the other girl you need to have broken off everything with the first girl.

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If your not happy with your relationship anymore don't avoid the issue by banging a hottie. Not only does that make you kinda a douchebag, but it makes your relationship even worse. At the moment its gotten dull. If you proceeded with plan A, it moves from dull to broken and if this other girl isn't serious about you you'll fall down with neither hand full.

If you are even seriously asking this question, it's likely your fault your relationship went bad. How would you feel if your GF did this to you?

Douche alert. You are the bane of human existence.

Yeah dude you suck.

Every think maybe your girlfriend changed because you've been spending all your time with a hottie?

And you sure as FUCK don't need to do anything with another girl until your gf can get a roommate or you guys can sublease or that other thing that's like subleasing but different.

If you fuck this shit up I vow to annihilate your face with a brick if I ever see you in person.