So I went to hang out with a girl I know...... we had an awesome time...... I'm making decent money these days, and used it to treat her right; I took her out for dinner, up the CN tower, we killed a bottle of Patron (80 bucks) between the two of us.
Anyways, long story short, we spent the entire night fucking...... the only girl I had ever had sex with before was my one girlfriend, and that was over a year and a half ago.

So after that night of carnal ecstasy, we showered together (too tired to do anything more than wash each other, her words later were that if we hadn't been so tired, "we could have really taken it to the dirt in there") and spent the day at Wonderland, came back to her place and spent the rest of the day napping/cuddling together.

Anyways, I have maybe a week before I go back to work and I'd like to at least hang out with her, even without the sex. Unfortunately, as far as I can tell, she's not talking to me....... messaged her on Facebook, on msn, and she talked to me for a bit before saying she had stuff to do.
I'm not sure if she just doesn't want to talk to me or what. I'm not pestering her, but some acknowledgement would be nice.

Any ideas of what I could say to her?

Wait another day or so, then tell her you know she's busy but to call you whenever she gets the chance.

You gotta play it cool homie

did anyone else mistake NSA for the government organization?

I'm not even sure what NSA is.

No strings attached? Only think I can think of.

If that's the case OP, maybe she wants to leave it at that. One fun night but nothing more.

-F☺rd

That was an expensive night of fun. Could've done the same thing with José Cuervo and saved $65 for the next girl.

Call her up and ask for money.

Could've and should've. I don't know Running's history with the girl in question but dinner and patron's hardly first date material. (Nor second, nor third... at least in my book.)

Bunch of stuff could be up. She could've felt bought. Or that you've been coming on too strong. Maybe the carnal ecstasy was a bit one sided. Maybe she felt it all happened too fast. Maybe she used him. And maybe she really does have stuff to do. Really to hard to tell from the info provided.


OP, I'm guessing you've probably said enough. If not, tell her you had fun and would like to see her again. If she wants to, plan a date. Like a specific day and time. Or just leave it open ended and tell her to call you when she doesn't have stuff to do. Just keep in mind she might not call.

-F☺rd

Eh, I figured fuck it, I can afford it, might as well. I don't even know why I care so much, cause it's not like she's girlfriend material or anything, she's just a lot of fun to hang out with.
I just hate being left hanging, know what I mean?

Yes. This thread has thoroughly disappointed me

Fuck that shit. I haven't done anything worthwhile (yet) that would give them reason to be interested in me.

Don't take your frustrations out on me man. It's not my fault you can't hang onto your women (whores).

Not taking frustration out on anyone. I'm just referring to NSA as the Agency........ I originally meant no strings attached.

Dude, did you see two black guys with dreads who looked like twins working at the CN tower when you went?

Either way, fuck her and come out drinking friday. It hurts but women are shallow whores who want nothing but your money and if you're lucky a little dicking now and again. Sad but true.

I, on the other hand, can tell hilarious stories all night for only the cost of a pitcher.

Nah, we didn't even go up it until around 2200........ it was almost empty.

By the way, my plan was to fuck her....... she's supposed to be coming home this weekend, so my buddy (who's also fucked her, but he's like my bro so it's okay) and I are planning on double teaming her, possibly.

I also may be getting together with another girl, but depending on when she gets home this weekend, that may not happen just yet.
Friday may be a real possibility, so I'll keep you posted.

Look at it this way. I'm a sailor....... I can't pass up sex if it throws itself at me. Fuck..... even if I have to drop 200 bucks on a nice date in order to get laid, that's not even a days pay.

Looks like she just wanted someone to run free all over her face, nothing else.

Girls aren't much better than guys when it comes to sex, they like it just as much as we do.

You are ugly and not a trophy for her to show off. Also she may have miscalculated your penis size when she was drunk. Next time though....just save that empty bottle of patron and pour a cheaper tequila in the bottle. Looks just as fancy and girls cant taste alcohol ( well they aren't good at taste testing)

This FTW!

I've an idea....... it goes something like this: You can fuck off because I have no use for your petty insults.

Ok, next time, instead of taking my girlfriend out to dinner or the movies and trying to score, I'll call you up and buy you a pitcher. unhuh. right......

p.s. I thought this was National Security Association related thread as well