Why do you try to make your man jealous even though you are already with him? like... what do you have to gain? i honestly dont get it...

Makes you value her more.

I mean, it's easy to be faithful if you're ugly and have no other options, right?

But if she is actually being hit on by men, but stays faithful to you, that means something.

Same with guys. If I flirt with other women and they want me, me being faithful to my girl means something. As I said, it's easy to be faithful if you have no other options.

Its nice to feel wanted I suppose. I'm guilty of this personally. Sometimes you just need some proof that you are cherished. That you mean something. That its not a "take it or leave it" kinda relationship.

I don't try to make him jealous per se; I don't do anything to make him think there's a possibility I might stray. That kind of stuff if bitchy and plain disrespectful.

However I do occasionally try to make sure he knows that there are a lot of other guys who would like to be in his place, and I could easily have someone else. It makes him less likely to get lazy knowing that there are a few other guys competing with him, and it makes him feel good that out of all other options, he's the one I've chosen.

It's really important not to take a relationship for granted. When I see other girls hanging all over him and begging for his attention it reminds me that he's hot property and that her really could have someone else. There's nothing wrong with fanning the flames now and then, as long as you're making it very, very clear that the other people don't interest you in the least.

Girls make love to complicated in my opinon, we cant read your fucking minds. As for jealousy its really hard to pick up on it if the girl is very manipulative or you dont know much about it.

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....this too.

BUT... if youre in a healthy enough relationship, there should be no need to do that because you KNOW you are loved and you trust in that.... do you see what im saying??

I don't. If girls get jealous then they have some obvious insecurities.

this is also true

I agree with Silverfuck on this one, think of it as necessary to keep the relationship from going stale.