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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2008-09-27, 05:33
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Default Safe to kiss this girl?

Right so i know this girl that i pretty much like (and am 99% sure she likes me back)

I was wondering how to set up such a situation to kiss her and make it clear that I am interested...(I am not very experienced). I have panic attacks whenever it's a good time to do it and I'm afraid she will lose interest soon.

So I've got to do it ASAP.

Is it alright to talk together privately then just let the convo drop away then go in for the kiss? What are some signs that the girl is receptive to a kiss?

Also, how will i control my anxiety when the moment comes like an elephant in the room?

Any other advice on kissing is welcome.
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Old 2008-09-27, 05:57
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Do people every think of you as being weird and awkward? I'm getting that vibe from you electronically half-way around the world.

Don't jump the gun. Take her out on a date, have fun. Laugh it up. When the times right, you'll know it. Much more natural.
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Old 2008-09-27, 08:37
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Taste another dick while you're at it.
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Old 2008-09-27, 08:46
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say there something in her teeth, then when she opens her mouth go for it like your trying to get a hotdog out of her throat
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Old 2008-09-27, 09:38
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First of all, I think you need to relax, right? Take some deep breaths. If you're sure this girl likes you, then just let it come. Ask her out somewhere where it'll just be the two of you. If she likes you, she'll go.

I always avoided the awkwardness of first-kisses when I was inexperienced by going to a movie theatre, it's dark and no one else can see your moment of shame if it ends up that way (it never did). It's usually pretty easy to tell, I mean if you're really that new to it, hold hands with her first, you know, master the basics. If she reciprocates, then work your way up until you're plowing her doggy-style in the back row of the cinema.

Good luck bro.
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Old 2008-09-27, 11:11
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Do people every think of you as being weird and awkward? I'm getting that vibe from you electronically half-way around the world.
Ahahaha.
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Old 2008-09-27, 11:17
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Also, how will i control my anxiety when the moment comes like an elephant in the room?
Why the fuck do you take the girl to a place where elephants are likely to walk into the room. Wtf man, seriously. This is the most ridiculous date idea I've ever heard of.
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Old 2008-09-27, 11:20
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Why the fuck do you take the girl to a place where elephants are likely to walk into the room. Wtf man, seriously. This is the most ridiculous date idea I've ever heard of.
welcome to the zoo nigga
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Old 2008-09-27, 13:12
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From my experience girls tend to remember the first kiss they have with someone (I don't really remember the first kiss I have with a chick normally, as it's usually the weirdest kiss), so don't rush into it, make sure she likes you, go hang out somewhere, make as much time to be alone as possible, and when the time is right it'll come naturally.

If it doesn't, then just get it over with. It might be weird but it wont be a big deal after a while, rest assured.
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Old 2008-09-27, 13:18
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If you want to find out if she's receptive to the idea of kissing, touch her hair. But in a non-creepy way. As in tuck a loose strand behind her ear, or just tell her she has awesome hair and run your fingers through it or something. If she's interested she won't be awkward or hesitant about you being in her space in such a way, and if her body language shows that she's not quite comfortable, you know she likely isn't cool with the idea of intimate contact with you, and you can play it off as just as casual compliment or whatever. But generally if a girl is comfortable with you touching her hair, she'll probably let you kiss her.

And when you actually do it: DON'T TRY ANY FANCY STUFF BUSTER! Just keep it simple for the very first one. That means no tongue at first, and follow her lead from there.

And ps. do this, and she'll probably cream her pants: when you're sitting side by side, look over at her, softly put your first two or three fingers on her chin, and gently turn her head towards you, and then lean in and kiss her. It's like...super duper romantic and chicks totally dig it
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