Ok so shes been with a guy for bout a week. Now im really close with this girl, so we started talking about their relationship.
She says things like hes not the one for her, hes an idiot etc etc.. Later on in the day i told her i been thinking how awesome itd be if me and her together. She totally agreed and said what i was thinking, itd be nothin like normal bullshit relationships. Both agreed it'd be pretty much perfect.

So anyway, from what she was saying youd expect her to tell him to get fucked right ? Well when the guy shes with comes to her house they go outside for like an hour to talk.. They come back in all normal and the later tells me she gave him a 2nd chance lol.

Why? If you had someone that you thought was perfect for you, would you go and do that?
Cant figure out what shes thinking :s

Because you're a pussy.

This.

You're being a pussy isn't the long and the short of it. But its part.
She could also be lying to you to make your feel better... and girls are emotional (not logical), being with him brings back memories / feelings... blah

Affair! Affair! Affair!

1) She was probably lying to make you feel better.

2) Welcome to life. Some women will continually date assholes while simultaneously bitching about how they're mistreated. Some guys will do the same.

because well, fact is, woman like to be mistreated. It's in their genes.

So either get with the program and see what her "asshole boyfriends" doing so right, or keep staying in your faggy indie rock "we-see-women as equal" mode and get nothing.

You can be a nice guy and not a pussy, I don't see why most guys don't understand the difference. Stop being a pussy.

Bingo! There's a huge difference between "nice guy" and "doormat".

Outplayed.

Learn from your mistakes and move on. Nothing else you can do.

Because girls make no sense? I mean, it sounds like you have a crush on her and she isn't really that into you. She was just telling her your feelings and then maybe she was just being nice saying that you two would go together. Girls are fucked.