So last night, me and my girlfriend fucked for the first time in like two weeks, In started with the usual foreplay (fingering, licking out etc) made her orgasm a few times before i decided to fuck her, just in case i couldn't last the distance.
so after about 10-15 mins we get into it, so i start of slow, getting used to the sensation, everything is going good, i fucked her for about 5 mins giving her a few orgasms along the way.
she seemed pleased so i thought i would give her one more and finish off, but your brain is a stupid thing it does things you don't want to happen and doesn't do things you want to happen, so I'm thinking about coming, nothing, i keep going, at this point she is moaning hard and scratching the fuck out of my back, i still have the scratch marks. So I'm fucking her for about 15-20mins, i slow down because she gives a little whimper, she says that it's "Kinda Hurting" so...I stop anyway, i pester her for the rest of the night, hoping she gets back in the mood so i can finish off, she doesn't

Tl;dr: Fucked Girlfriend for 20mins, pretty hard, making her orgasm, she seemed to enjoy it, but said it hurt, so i had to stop.

SO my question is, should i feel like a failure for not coming, and hurting her, i feel like all she will remember from it will be me fucking her too hard and hurting her, and not the pleasure I would like to get some answers from girls who have been in this situation.

Thanks, Snowblind.

She's fakin orgasms so as to not hurt your feelings. You think your giving her orgasms but in reality she is just waiting for you to hurry the fuck up and finish.

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Oh and if she's hurting, we invented this great stuff called lube awhile back. I suggest you look into it.

If you two have sex on a fairly regular basis and it doesn't hurt, this will just seem like a freak occurance to her. She'll be more interested in figuring out why it hurt, rather than getting upset about you hurting her.

Don't worry too much. Have sex again - if it hurts haul her off to the doctor.

Thanks, I just don't think she likes to have sex for very long, although the women in her family do have a history of cervical cancer, she has told me she is worried she might have it, could this be a contributing factor?

It wasn't lack of lubrication, i made sure of that

You gave her a few orgasms in 5 minutes? Bullshit. One of you doesn't know what an orgasm is.

How old is she? She should be getting regular PAP smears from her doctor, which will look for abnormal cells (which indicate cancer).

She is 16, her older sister just recently had to get part of her cervix removed, there is a chance she has it, but she doesn't want to go and find out

Smart! You should definitely reinforce this decision. It's the far superior answer in terms of logic and responsibility.