Got kindof stood up. Should I be angry?
Well, to start, I am very close to being in a relationship with Hana. But, today, her and I were talking about me going over to her house to hang out. Except, her mom had said no. About 6:30 (2.5 hours later) she calls me, and says "Hey babe, my mom said just now said that I could do something tonight, but Chris (her ex, they broke up about 3 weeks ago) called and asked to hang out. So I just said okay, sure." I replied with "Well you could have told Chris no, and had me over." Her excuse was "yeah, but you would have to leave by nine, and by the time you got out here, we wouldn't have very long." (I could have been out there by 7:15.) I replied with "okay, just don't do anything dumb." She ensured me she wouldn't. We exchanged goodbyes and she asked me to text her when I wanted, we then hung up. And I do trust her. I am NOT a trusting person, and I completely believe her when she says she won't do anything. However, I do not trust Chris at all.
Anyway, I wish to ask, should I be angry at Hana for this? I know she stood me up, and I already let her know that I was upset about that. Should I still be angry at her, even if she does not do anything with him?
Thanks for your attention.
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