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Old 2008-09-22, 03:06
midnightrider384 midnightrider384 is offline
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Default Slow dancing with someone much shorter than you

So, I was at homecoming with my date, and it was going well, we were having fun, and then it came time to slow dance. I looked her in the eye, held out my hand, and asked her to dance. She said yes, and we got really close, she put her head on my chest, pressed up against me, and we started to sway back and forth to the music. It was very, very pleasing.

Until I started to notice the distance that she had to reach up to keep her arms around my neck. I noticed she was on her tip toes just to be close to me, and I felt guilty that she had to do that. I tried not to think much of it at the time, so I put it in the back of my mind and paid attention to the dance.

So, what should I do next time this situation arises? Any help would be appreciated.

I should also point out that she's over a foot shorter than me, so you can understand the problem.
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Old 2008-09-22, 03:07
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Default Re: Slow dancing with someone much shorter than you

just let it go dude. If she has a problem with it, she'll let ya know.
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Old 2008-09-22, 03:20
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Thumbs up Re: Slow dancing with someone much shorter than you

If it's not bothering her then why is bothering you?

Don't let physical height deter you away from someone you genuinely care about.

If you still can't get over it, then I suggest you purchase some hooker boots for the little young lady.

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Old 2008-09-22, 03:28
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Lightbulb Re: Slow dancing with someone much shorter than you

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So, I was at homecoming with my date, and it was going well, we were having fun, and then it came time to slow dance. I looked her in the eye, held out my hand, and asked her to dance. She said yes, and we got really close, she put her head on my chest, pressed up against me, and we started to sway back and forth to the music. It was very, very pleasing.

Until I started to notice the distance that she had to reach up to keep her arms around my neck. I noticed she was on her tip toes just to be close to me, and I felt guilty that she had to do that. I tried not to think much of it at the time, so I put it in the back of my mind and paid attention to the dance.

So, what should I do next time this situation arises? Any help would be appreciated.

I should also point out that she's over a foot shorter than me, so you can understand the problem.
She can put her arms around your waist. Simple solution for the win.
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Old 2008-09-22, 03:38
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Default Re: Slow dancing with someone much shorter than you

clearly its your fault for being so tall... not really

EDIT: what are your heights?
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Old 2008-09-22, 03:48
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Default Re: Slow dancing with someone much shorter than you

yeah, pretty much that's an issue that she has to deal with.

As a short guy, I have issues with women who are taller than me, and usually I just try and adapt to the situation as best I can and hope no one mentions it, or at least makes a deal out of it.
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Old 2008-09-22, 03:52
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Default Re: Slow dancing with someone much shorter than you

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If it's not bothering her then why is bothering you?
I have a problem of being over caring for anyone, even people I'm not really friends with. So you can imagine how I feel when she's standing on her tip toes just to get close to me
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Old 2008-09-22, 03:57
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I have a problem of being over caring for anyone, even people I'm not really friends with. So you can imagine how I feel when she's standing on her tip toes just to get close to me
At least your enough of a nice guy to care. I'm sure she is fine with it.

Besides, if she ever complains then just step on that bitch.
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Old 2008-09-22, 10:03
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Default Re: Slow dancing with someone much shorter than you

Uhh, she can put her arms around you other than your neck? Waist works.

When I had to slow dance (I hate slow dancing) a few times (weddings, when asked, etc.) by really short girls (I'm average height, 6'0" but they were like 5'2"), they just put their arms around my waist or wherever they are comfortable.

There's no real standard to slow dancing, you do what's comfortable.
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Old 2008-09-22, 11:31
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