I read most threads in this category, and I see a huge trend that seems to be causing most of the problems. That problem is mainly that men today have lost their way. They actually act more like women than men. They're always asking "why does she act this way", blah blah blah. A man should know that women are emotional and it's rarely logical or something they can talk out.

No matter what any woman says, they have this problem. In emotional situations, their emotions dictate their actions instead of logic. Men tend to do the opposite, which is why we are much better at leading in relationships. The problem is that men today, don't know how to do this anymore. We were all taught so much liberal equality bullshit that the way we used to keep shit together was driven out of us, because women don't like the idea that they need someone to control them to a certain extent. The reality is, a relationship will not function if a man doesn't restrain a woman's emotions and logically handle situations. They'll drive you crazy and you'll start hating each other. There are only a few women out their that seem to have a lot of control, but they are few and far between. These women are the kind that changed how we think because they didn't accept that most women aren't in control of their emotions enough to be in charge. One bad relationship for me, and I retaught myself to be a man, and now women absolutely love me even though I dominate them. Cause it's what they always wanted me to do. Women are actually very naturally submissive to men. They know they are weaker than us physically, and they know their emotions cause problems. If you assert yourself and take control, you'll find that they will go along with it, which is pretty much the exact opposite of what is taught in today's society.

See this is the part that will probably confuse you. I love women a lot. Honestly, I think women are probably the most amazing beings on this planet, capable of emotions that us guys rarely ever have without their help, the essence of humanity. I think as men, we really should listen to our women's emotional side and really connect with them. Not understand, cause there isn't anything to understand about emotions, but to share their feelings. By doing this, we can use their emotions to make our decisions better, but we still should be the ones making the decisions. Emotions should guide good decisions, but not make them. I think every man needs a good woman by his side to contribute in this way, but the man should take charge and not let her make emotionally driven decisions. Instead us guys have to make logically determined decisions, taking emotions into account. A wife or GF isn't our property, but rather they are our partner in life for good reasons, but don't forget you should be the leader.

This is all you'll ever need to know. If you're a woman, you need to realize that you are emotionally driven and your decisions can suffer for this. As a man, you must also understand that your decisions are logically driven, and your decisions can suffer from lack of emotion in them. You have to work as a team, but both men and women should understand why the man needs to be the leader, as the dynamic won't work the other way.

The second half made you sound like a pussy.

Do you somehow believe that you don't feel your emotions? or do you have a disorder that doesn't allow you to feel emotions?

People are emotional creatures and you can define almost any act, or thought, under the umbrella term of logic.

This is probably the only good advice totse has ever given me.

Of course I feel emotions, everyone does. Women however, feel different emotions than men, and their emotions are much more intense.

Please don't take a knock at my post over semantics. You know what I meant by using the term logic, based on the context I used it in. Sure, even seemingly irrational emotions or feelings happen for logical reasons, but it doesn't mean that the actions taken based on them are logically good solutions for a situation. I figured it was common knowledge to what I was referring to, so I hope this clears it up.

Well, guess what, if you only control, and don't take into account and connect with your lady, you will make decisions that will upset her a lot, and you'll be single before you know it.

I am a fairly emotional man. Just this last year did i stop crying over little shit. I am also fairly logical most of the time. Your post doesn't make much sense to me, but meh. To each his own.

Basically: Women like leaders, but not controling men who aren't in touch with their yin.

This thread is brilliant. Well not really...but in our Totse community this information is vital.

lollllllll , i guese you dont read enough posts here