I have recently taken a 26 year old mother to be my lover. I am 20. It is nice, but somewhat weird. I like her kid though.

How many of you have loved a mama?

If the kids name is jack hes a dick. That little fucker tried to eat my toe.

Nah, it's a little girl.

If you are ready to take on the role of a father figure, then I guess it's ok. I just hope that it doesn't end in disaster, because then the child will be confused, and it will be ugly.

I said lover, not father. She's clear that nothing besides passionate lovemaking will come of this arrangement.

But the kid won't get that part of it. If you are around all the time, the kid is going to create an attachment to you.

He's talking about a 3 way pedo-fest.

The kid will either love ya (Pics for the fridge) or hate ya (mom your boyfriend touched my nono spot). Your fucked. If you are a decent person you will care for the kid eventually.
Mothers will always try to pic men by what thier kids say. Moms are lying to themselves if they say otherwise. They NEED a man in thier life.
If mom pushs the kid on ya, back away. 20 years old is too young to raise somebody elses kid. Try to stay as a walking sex toy for the mom. No deep conversations.
On the positive side in 15 to 20 years you'll have the skills to tap Every piece of college ass you meet. Some reason college girls panties fall off for 40 year old daddy type guys. Won't matter what you look like or money you have. Daddy types are the supermen of pussy getting. Freaky sex will be just routine and boring.

Fuck being a LOVER, sounds as if you are already emotional attached.

I have. She had a boyfriend, too, but I didn't find out about that until after. Oh well.

I'm definitely not emotionally attached. This girl is hardcore christian. Totally on the other end of the spectrum from me, which means nothing will ever happen in the relationship department. I plan on being nothing more than a boytoy, for ongoing hot dickings.

The problem is, she does seem to be a bit attached. I will try and refrain from being around the kid too much. Your advice is sound, if somewhat conservative.